December 23, 2017

kindness

BobbySlug says—I have previewed this “It’s Saturday” and I think it’s “blimp worthy.”  Well, thanksamillion BobbySlug but you are the same guy that thinks “money grows on trees!” But, BobbySlug, I will cut you some slack a.k.a. be kind to you since it’s Christmas.  BobbySlug, I realize you have an ethos of kindness; it shows.

***“You cannot do kindness too soon, for you never know how soon it will be too late.”  Ralph Waldo Emerson

Our nephew-in-law wrote this in their newsletter--A couple of weeks ago the pastoral staff at Grace went on an overnight retreat. As part of the retreat we each took turns sharing "Life Turns," which is a major event that changed the trajectory of your life. As part of this exercise we were also to take a step back and look at these Life Turns as a whole to see if there is a theme to what God seems to be doing in our lives. For me my theme was that I've been forever changed by those who paid extra attention to me when it wasn't expected or required. My day-care lady brought my brother and I to church at a young age. Several teachers, especially my 6th grade teacher, pushed me to do more than what was expected. Many coaches laid out a process and helped me even though I wasn't very athletic. My youth pastor reached out to me when I hadn't been to church in years. In college a guy on my dorm stuck with me even though we weren't (and still aren't) very similar. A mentor showed up and continued to invest in me despite my sometimes overt hostility towards him. Several pastors regularly mentored me and have taught me more than I even know. This theme is the passion for my ministry. I want to be a part of a church that is focused on remembering the forgotten, of caring for the abandoned. 

A few weeks ago I didn’t know what a battery tender was.  I was talking to a friend and he asked me if I have put my Yamaha XT250 away for the winter—ya, I guess soooo; did you put a battery tender on it—what’s a battery tender—it’s a little charger that you leave on during long periods of non-use; it keeps the battery charged soooo it doesn’t get damaged over the winter.  Soooo he gives me one (i.e. this is a kind guy).  It is unique in that it charges the battery only when it needs it and other times just goes in the storage mode.  This battery tender reminds me of kind people (i.e. many of you guys).  Saturday question—Are you a kind person, a regular battery tender?

 ***I read this while eating my oatmeal with half a banana on it--During this Christmas season, you’ll hear one word more than any other. It’s not “merry,” “tree,” “Santa,” or even — unfortunately — “Jesus.” It’s “gift.” The Bible says, “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life” (John 3:16 NIV). Now that is being pretty generous folks.  Saturday question--Are you a generous person?

KindHeartedRenee says--This year, as you make your holiday lists—whether grocery lists or gift lists—make one more list. Think of a few people for whom the holidays might be kind of tough. And then do something about it (i.e. just don’t talk about it). HonestPete says--Well KindHeartedRenee, I struggle with buying things that folks don’t want, with money I don’t have to impress folks I don’t like.  Ya, we have a tendency to like to spend a lot of money on folks that really don’t need it (i.e. impress the peer group).  Crazy, aren’t we! But it’s reality.  Probably not as astounding as Edison’s E=mc2!  Saturday question—Who are you, really folks, who are you really (i.e. not your phony side when you are trying to impress others).  ItchieBitchie says—A little kindness goes a long way; can you imagine how far a lot of kindness will go?  Have others ever been kind to you?  How did it feel? That is what I thought.

***I read this in a book of the “Book” but I don’t know who actually the Teacher is (i.e. there is differences of opinion on that)—I know that there is nothing better for men than to be happy and do good while they live.

MissPerfect says—Kindness is like magic!  I had a magical event, well, anyway it felt like magic to me.  I goggled—how to clean the glass doors of our fireplace to clean off the smudge and smoke and crap (i.e. it’s hard to get off).  It said—Use some ash and water.  Ya, right, that is toooo simple.  It was incredible, just amazingly easy and it really worked.  And I never heard of it before and was totally surprising.  I wonder if kindness could be that surprising to someone (i.e. someone who would least expect it).  Does that make any sense to you?  That is what I thought.

MissPerfect says-erv, opinions and suggestions belong on the opinion page (i.e. that is just what they are; opinions and suggestions).  For some of you, this talk about being kind to others might make you feel like an awkward prom dance!  But if you go ahead and decide to do some act of kindness, I would like to make a few suggestions. I suggest you do it without self-glorifying yourself (i.e. if you want to be praised for your act of kindness--work on your approval rating), then it’s a business deal and you aren’t any different than “Self-gloryingDuaneTheWorm.”  Another suggestion—After you do an act of kindness (i.e. if you decide to do that), forget about it as sooooon as possible (i.e. like immediately). Then, start thinking about your next act of kindness. Suggestion—Don’t try to impress God!  AverageJoe says—That is about enough suggestions, erv; you make me nervous; remember, erv, you are only a little farm boy from a mile and fourth south of Roseland, MN. and don’t you forget it! GeorgeTheCook says—No one likes to be preached tooooo, erv!  Get off your high horse, you sound like you think you know something; you don’t!  I hate that when folks shrink up my ego and put me where I belong (i.e. it’s very humbling).  Hey, but I feel a lot better now (i.e. it’s like finally accepting that bossing your neighbor’s dog around ain’t working).  Such is life.   

Forensic psychologists think that I might be dissociated from reality.  Talking about feeling better.  I had a great experience the other day—I fell playing pickleball.  I reinjured my knee a little (i.e. nutten toooo bad—old high school football injury) but “once again” it was something that helped me to put my life in proper perspective (e.g. why am I playing pickleball anyway—how important is it in my total life—pickleball is not my life).  It really did help me see the big picture a little better.  Here is something that was sorta kinda a negative which really turned into something positive.  Great timing toooooo.   I wondered why the pickleball kept getting bigger. Then it hit me.  Such is life.

I was in Hy-Vee getting some Christmas groceries.  There was a guy standing by his kiosk touting his popcorn.  He gave me a sample.  It was good.  He told me he raises it just south of Dollar General (i.e. a local grower).  How many acres do you grow—about 40—is popcorn growing a good business—can be but it’s based on supply and demand; when the commercial corn price is low, farmers grow more popcorn soooo this year there is a large supply; you have to have a place to market it (i.e. raising it isn’t hard but selling it is somewhat harder).  I think he was saying—its’s easy to preach or write a book, but the key is to have folks listen or read it and then apply it (i.e. they have to buy into it).  Sooooo there you go!  I bought a bag of his popcorn; I liked it.

***GoodHearted,KindKelly says--Small acts of kindness matter. Because the gift might not be small for the recipient. The small gift might, in fact, make all the difference.

Some of you tell me that you like it when I’m personal.  Well, here is something personal.  Our daughter, Heather, posted two posts on Facebook.  I read the first one and cried.  I read it again and I cried again.  Here it is:  Heather Mellema Woodworth I’m about to embark on something crazy. A marathon and fundraising for Alzheimer’s Association. Both sound daunting. More to come.... I will be asking my friends and family for support. I hate asking people for money, but know that donations go directly to the cause. I am paying my race registration and travel costs. If each of my Facebook friends donated $5, I would be nearly to my goal. That’s one trip to Starbucks. Donations big and small are appreciated. I’m doing this for my mom and everyone else who is slowly fading away with this disease. She loved to sing and play the piano- she can no longer do either. She baked the best cookies - she can’t even turn the oven on. I’ll be posting a link to my donation post.

I'm running the Chicago Marathon in honor of my mom and my dad, who has a nearly full time job caring for her. I also run in honor of everyone's support and others who are also affected by Alzheimer's.

Join our 2018 Bank of America Chicago Marathon - Chicago, IL and help raise awareness and funds for vital Alzheimer's care, support and research.
RPX.ME


***The greatest example of kindness is Jesus.   No question!  He is the true gift.  I read it in the Bible soooooo it must be right--Jesus is the reason for the season. Saturday question—What kind of folks were most of Jesus’ acts of kindness given toooooo? Were most or all of his acts of kindness on earth pretty special?  I think soooo. How about his acts of kindness he promises; are they pretty special? I think soooo!

No AZ this winter!
Merry Christmas to all of you from Arlene and me.  We really care about you guys. We wish you a great Christmas. You are special folks.

Have a FUN day my friends unless you have other plans. (-:

erv and Arlene

MyFriendJean says—There is no scale or chart on earth to measure what a true friend is worth.


P. S. Kindness is shown in many different ways.
We appreciate your Christmas greetings, pictures, and acts of kindness.  Thanksamillion


No comments:

Post a Comment