August 18, 2018

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This “It’s Saturday” is not written in ASCII binary code but pretty much in the language that AverageJoe uses while drinking coffee with MissPerfect. Have you ever noticed that it’s hard to have a conversation with some folks who seem like they are speaking in ASCII binary code?  They seem to be way out of whack a.k.a. wicky-wacky as NorthoftownS.S. says?

Our daughter and family were here from CO. We as a family then got together at our son and family’s place in Waukee.  We had such a good time.  The kidos seemed to like their kicks. They also really like to drive the golf cart. They seem to like doing all the crazy stuff we do.  But still maybe the most fun thing they always like is when I do magic by removing my two front teeth (i.e. they really think that is neat).  Little Jimmer said—When does this corn field ever quit?  I asked Erin if she is excited about school—she said yes—is there anything about school that you aren’t excited about—yes, this year we are going to talk about growing and changing; gross! And poof, now they are gone!

I bought the shoes two sizes tooooo big for them.  I told them the story that my parents, Chester and Anna, bought me my first pair of gym shoes and bought them two sizes toooo big as they wanted me to grow into them (i.e. we didn’t have much money and they wanted to get value for their dollar).  Well, I wore them out before I grew into them.  Poof, they were history! It will be interesting to see what the grand kids do with theirs.  A true gift has no stings attached; if strings are attached, then it's a business deal.

I was getting some groceries the other day.  I was turning my cart into an aisle and a lady was coming out.  We almost collided.  She was soooo charming. She was maybe 50.  She showed her charm by her body language, her facial expressions and her talk.  I can’t explain it any better; she was just charming.  I was really impressed.  Poof, she was gone. She had no idea I thought that about her; I will never see her again. Isn’t that interesting? 

Have you ever thought you had a good idea (e.g. doing a project, inviting someone over, or some other great idea) but only after starting the project or even inviting the folks, you decide it was a bad idea?  And then saying to yourself, why did I start this project or why did I invite those folks.  Well, you thought it was a good idea at the time but, “poof”, you no longer do.  SusieQ says—I hate that when I do that.  I have, what I think are good ideas at night, but in the morning, many times I don’t think they are such great ideas.  I have learned to give my ideas the one or two-day test before committing to them.  Sometimes, I think they are good and sometimes I don’t.  It seems to work. 

I read this while eating my oatmeal with half a banana on it written by RickieRick—Part of Integrity is uncorrupted motivation. It means you do the right thing, and you do it for the right reason. You have unmixed motivation and pure motives. You’re sincere and straightforward in every area of your life and with all people. You pray to talk to God and not to impress other people. We’re interested in image, but God is interested in integrity. We’re interested in reputation, but God is interested in character. Reputation is what everybody thinks you are. Integrity is what you really are. Reputation is what you are in public. Integrity is what you are when you’re all alone with God. “The Lord detests people with crooked hearts, but he delights in those with integrity” (Proverbs 11:20 NLT). GeorgeTheCrook says—I don’t like to hear that soooo I deleted this part—poof and it’s gone!

It amazes me that folks get all excited about something then all of a sudden, poof, they lose their interest.  It could be cooking, golf, sewing, camping, traveling, boating, bike riding, running, wood working, cooking, baking, hunting, painting, running, etc.  It’s like “poof” it’s gone.  Why is that do you think?  That is what I thought. It appears that very few folks continue with the same interest all their life. Well, maybe readers do more.  Maybe. I remember two brothers years ago that decided they wanted to be duck hunters soooo they bought all the garb (i.e. good stuff). They hunted for a season or two, then sold all their stuff and bought all golf stuff (i.e. good stuff). Then after a couple of years, they sold all of that stuff.  I have no idea what they got into after that.  Maybe those activities weren’t as fun as they thought or maybe they weren’t as good at it as they thought they would be.  I have no idea. What do you think? That is what I thought.

I try to be around folks who I enjoy being around (i.e. for the most part).  But not always.  I asked a friend while playing golf—how much do you play.  Maybe once a week.  I haven’t played now for two weeks.  I’m not really into golf that much.  Another friend in our group said—I don’t care to play competitive anymore; I enjoy playing like we are today (i.e. enjoy each other’s company).  The fourth guy and I have talked several times about how we can get bored with golf in certain situations (i.e. mainly if it’s not fun anymore).  I’m a mixture of all the above.  I could easily quit someday (i.e. poof, it’s done) and might but probably won’t but maybe.  I play maybe a couple of times a week sometimes but not always.  Hey folks, things change.  Golf is not my life!

I have talked about these experiences before.  I have been in a punk for a few days (i.e. I’m fortunate as I don’t experience these punk times very often--usually after a time of great fun or opportunity—it’s like a letdown).  Why was I in a punk?  I’m not totally certain but do have my thinking. I had a few good solid hours of sleep and woke up different (i.e. the punk was gone).  Maybe it was the sleep or maybe something happened to me internally (i.e. poof, it was different).  I really don’t know.  Have you ever had that experience?  I did pray for this change to happen; it’s like I said, I have experienced this before.  Maybe it’s a God thing.  I do know that my attitude is completely different a.k.a. attitude adjustment.  The world looks, oh, soooo much better. I'm gung ho again!  When I get this way, time alone and mediation really is effective for me (i.e. gets my head screwed on right again—right according to what I believe is right). Exercise really helps me as well.  

I was really amazed how with a little instruction and a little experience; little Jimmer could drive the golf cart really well.  He’s only 6 years old.  Soooooo I wonder if we all can learn to do things with a little instruction and experience if we want tooooo.  I think I’m maybe lazy at times.  Or maybe I don’t take instruction well or maybe, poof, I don’t care!

I like experiences very much.  I had such an experience recently that was fun and exciting (i.e. more than getting more stuff).  I had breakfast with a friend and his daughter.  He is my age (i.e. still has some smell of Butler County even though he hasn't lived her since his college days) and his daughter who is maybe in her late 30s.  I asked her if she was as real as her father.  I think she is; a regular chip off the old block.  The wise old sage (i.e. who describes himself as financially conservative and socially moderate) said—Difficult things motivate us.  His daughter (i.e. who describes herself as a run of mill California liberal) said—We are responsible as to what we look at; we need to look at a cross section of what is being said and not what we want to hear.  I think she is different (i.e. thinks deeper and smarter than the average dog).  Maybe that is why I like this pair soooo well. Maybe but I don't know but it could be!


Jessica, our daughter-in-law gave us some new towels (i.e. very nice).  I told her that I put them out for Heather and James when they were at our home.  She asked if I used them—we used one for Arlene one time, but I haven’t for myself.  She said—I gave them for you to use—I will but haven’t yet.  The reason is, I don’t think I need such nice towels (i.e. I can get along with the old ones).  I was raised conservative; you saved the good stuff for another time or other folks.  I realize that some of you youngins don’t understand that at all (i.e. it’s the smell of Kandiyohi County—where I grew up).  I toooo think I’m financially conservative and socially moderate.  How do you think I am?  Our son-in-law called me wonky!  I don’t know what that meant.  I don’t know if he was kidding or was serious or putting me down or having fun with me or complimenting me!  ItchieBitchie says—erv, I think you are a little weird, unique, a different thinker, and out in left field.  Thanksamillion for your comments ItchieBitchie, it’s always good to hear from you!


Keep it simple stupid!  I did a lot of crazy stuff with the grand kids.  Maybe I am wonky!  ANYWAY, I text the families later and asked them what the grand kids enjoyed the most.  Here are their responses--Charlie says--“the whole family reunion thing.” Rookie says--“the ice cream drumsticks!” Erin says--“all of it.” Jimmer says--“eating grandpa’s ice cream.” I buy drumsticks each year when we get together (i.e. it's a tradition as well as the same annual picture)—keep it simple stupid! It’s not about the money but the experiences!

I don’t feel bad that the shoes weren’t the biggest hit (i.e. even though they were big)!  I only paid $4, $5, and $8 for them at Dollar General—I told you I’m financially conservative!  ha ha!  It was more the experience and the story I wanted them to have/hear.  Do you understand that?  That is what I thought.  I thought the Dr. Seuss sayings were impressive.  I think the parents did toooooo.  The artistic ability of  NWoftownC.M, who did it for me is just amazing.  Very impressive.  The idea was hers.  Great idea (i.e. very creative).  The shoe idea was mine (i.e. really not that impressive or creative).  But she made the experience just plain amazing (i.e. enhanced it). 

Coach said--Creative folks might have more imagination than the normal dog (i.e. they might see things differently and maybe think differently).  Much of that imagination might come from having more experiences and/or different experiences that others don't have (i.e. maybe even seeing those experiences differently).  What do you think of that? That is what I thought.

Have a FUN day my friends unless you have other plans. (-:

erv

MyFriendJean says--Being kind to everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle.

P.S. OnesmartgalfromsouthoftownT.K. told me (i.e. I'm sure it is correct) that homegrown tomatoes should not be put in the refrigerator; it ruins their taste (i.e. that is from Grundy County folks).  Also, it you put cucumbers in Saran Wrap and put them in the refrigerator, they will stay good and crisp for two weeks.  

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