June 25, 2016

I suppose

I had a wisdom tooth extracted recently.  I also had one pulled last summer.  The oral surgeon asked me how the last year’s extraction healed.  I said it took a long time it seemed.  He said—erv, you have had a lot of birthdays since you were 16!  I suppose having two wisdom teeth extracted has lessened my wisdom—and I didn’t have much to start with!!  Sooooo be very careful when reading this “It’s Saturday.”

Have you ever said—I have had enough!  That’s pretty much enough! Something is going to have to change! Enough is enough! Maybe God said that tooo. Sooo He told Noah to build an ark and put a set of all the animals on it.  Then it rained for 40 days and 40 nights killing everyone and everything. Cleansed the earth of all evil (i.e. start from scratch again).  In 2016 He probably says—That didn’t work real well!  Saturday question—Why didn’t He just change their hearts instead of killing all those folks?  I suppose I’m missing something here folks.  His understanding I cannot fathom—God is God and that’s the way it is. I have a human mind and He is God.  I suppose that makes a difference. 

I know folks who think they know everything (i.e. wear a big cowboy hat but have no cattle).  Do you know such folks? I know folks who are very humble (i.e. they know a lot but don’t always think they know everything—I have a lot of these folks on my cell phone contact list); I’m not very smart, just a little old farm boy from a mile and a fourth south of Roseland, MN soooo I lean on you folks heavily; you folks who are very smart, share your knowledge with me (i.e. make me look smarter than I actually am).  I read this while eating my oatmeal with a half a banana on it—Pride is the sin of making “self” our god… "All of you, clothe yourselves with humility toward one another, because, 'God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.'" - 1 Peter 5:5b

Ah, what! I had a conversation with a hs graduate recently who also attends the same church that we attend. I gave her a hug and we had a very nice conversation (i.e. I like this gal).  She looked me right in the eye.  Not just looked me in the eye but looked me in the eye “engagingly.” It was with feeling and attention.  No faking folks, just a heartfelt feeling.  She pierced my heart.  Flip the pancake. I have talked to folks who give me the feeling they would rather not talk to me but, hey, it’s their job soooo they feel they have toooooo. I suppose they would rather not talk to me and the reality is, I would rather not talk to them. After a while they don’t talk to me and I don’t talk to them.  I suppose that works as I really don’t care.  A rookie pro-golfer was playing with Arnold Palmer for the first time years ago.  The rookie said that Mr. Palmer told him—Look everyone in the eye when you leave the course and you will be successful. Bingo.

I suppose they were just having fun!  We had late dinner Thursday night on the patio of Dry Dock Lodge on West Okoboji.  A group of maybe 8 young adults came and sat behind us.  They obviously had been drinking (i.e. didn’t seem to be old enough to drink legally but I’m not sure).  One young adult was inebriated and was obnoxiously loud and used foul language (i.e. used the f word a lot).  Several times his friends told him to hush up.  He didn’t.  The waiter came to take his order and he was rude and gross (i.e. that is what intoxication will do). Then he said he didn’t feel well. One of his friends took him down on the dock.  He heaved his guts out. I suppose he was having fun!  There was another senor couple sitting at a table next to us.  The guy said to the table of young adults—I see your friend has the flu.  One of them responded—Ya, the summer variety.  The senior guy said back—If I was his friend on the dock with him, I would push him off the dock into the lake.  He needs his mouth washed out!  The table of young adults were quiet—maybe enough was said.  

I suppose he got over it – maybe.  I saw a guy the other day and thought about an experience I had with him maybe 30 years ago. I wrote the insurance on his business and he did some PPM (i.e. piss poor management).  He wanted his insurance policy to pay for his mistake.  PPM is not always covered by insurance. He didn’t want to own up to the fact that he screwed up.  He became quite angry at me.  Maybe sorta kinda showed his real character, I don’t know.  I have always wondered if he is this way more often. Probably I suppose. When it comes to money, folks show a different face quite often other when they are in church. Such is life.

WorldClassLarry says—I suppose I really don’t care!  He says—I really don’t care for Hillary or Donald. They give me the willies!  I really don’t care.  I wish we could have different candidates. Yabut WorldClassLarry, that is who the majority of folks decided they wanted to run. Maybe you have an analytical mind in a digital world! WorldClassLarry says—Maybe soooo but I really don’t care about much stuff that I use to.  I just don’t care.  I eliminate myself from the loop of certain things and it is the way it is.  Folks don’t agree with me opinions soooo I just don’t care—Why get sooooo excited about it if folks don’t agree with me and don’t want my opinion. My life is much more enjoyable. I have to admit it.

A guy told me recently--I suppose folks really don’t understand how hard it is if you can’t hear (i.e. have very limited hearing); I miss a lot and it causes a lot of problems; folks just don’t realize that unless you can’t hear.  He gave me the impression that he might be as the saying goes—As mad as hell! I told the guy—You just need to accept how folks relate to you; they don’t understand.  When folks are perfect, they just don’t understand. Ya just need to make the most of it.  Such is life.

He said—“It’s mind over matter” after a golf buddy made a very poor putt.  Then he said—But if you don’t have a mind then it doesn’t matter!  He made me laugh.  That is how mad he was at himself—As mad as hell!!! His mind was “busier than all get out” with his emotions I think.  Such is life.

I supposed but didn’t know for sure! I run some (i.e. if that is what you call it;I might be exaggerating by saying running) and sometimes it hurts when I run.  I sometimes can run through it (i.e. it stops hurting).  Sometimes my back hurts, sometimes my knees hurts, sometimes my hamstring muscle hurts, sometimes my ankles hurt etc.  It isn’t always the same hurt.  Ya, sometimes nutten hurts toooooo.  I asked a couple of friends who run marathons and iron man competition if they have hurts (i.e. their training is like a job—that intense).  They both said—I suppose if you train has hard as I do, there is always something that hurts; ya just have to deal with it and run through it.  Huh, interesting.

When the f4 tornado hit Parkersburg (i.e. the town in which our insurance agency’s office was) 8 years ago, many houses were destroyed and damaged.  Many of those houses we insured.  One guy’s house was damaged severally.  It was a decision if it could be repaired or if it needed to be replaced.  This guy got real excited and mad (i.e. as mad as hell).  CrazyMarvin says—To get as mad as hell for some is as easy as falling off a log! I didn’t personally handle his claim sooooo I don’t know all the details.  We ended up building him a new house (i.e. he came out smelling like a rose).  He was mad at me these last 8 years as I, I guess 'cause I was a principal of our agency.  During the last 8 years I would see him maybe 2 times a year.  I would greet him and he would not acknowledge me at all or just grunt and turn his head. Well a couple of weeks ago I was having breakfast at Todd’s Neighborhood Grill with a friend and he walked by our booth and I said to him—How’s your golf game? He engaged in a little conversation and joked with me.  I suppose he got over his anger at me after 8 years or he developed dementia and forgot he was mad at me. Such is life.

I suppose it was good for me but I didn’t like it.  I was really humbled this week by several experiences.  Ouchy ouchy! ANYWAY I will tell you just one experience.  I thought I was really helping someone.  They stuck a knife in me.  And then turned it.  They didn’t appreciate my kindness (i.e. what I thought was kindness) at all.  Have you ever thought something was soooo good or important and another person did not think it was good or important?  It reminded me that I don’t do good for folks for my reward (i.e. humbling).  This person had no idea that they deflated my ego.  And does it really matter? Maybe this person did me a favor. Could be.  Such is life.

Have a FUN day my friends unless you have other plans. (-:

erv

MyFriendJean says—Good words are worth much and cost little.

P.S. SusieQ says—Politics is more art than science.  

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