March 8, 2025

humble

SwervinErvin says--I am going to quiet down my life; it has become toooo loud! I feel I need to bring it down a notch. I’m looking for the silver bullet!

RickyRick, a great homerun hitter, says—"erv, one way to experience God’s love in a tangible way is by surrounding ourselves with other believers who know, love, and have trusted God. It’s in godly community that we can listen to one another, share honestly, and point each other toward our compassionate, loving God.” That truly is a way for me to quiet down and slow down and it helps me to think better. I really think it is. ChuckTheBulldog says--Constantly agitated folks never seem to be happy and seem to lessen my life; they tend to make me agitated and loud. Yikes!

They, whoever they are, say that I make about 35,000 decisions a day. Wow! Some are mundane and some are major. I’m going to try to slow down once again (i.e. that is toooo many decisions for me)! hahaha Way tooooo many! That is one of my decisions today. I have learned this once again by being humbled (i.e. it was a humbling experience). Saturday question—Have any of you ever been humbled (i.e. like getting our socks knocked off)?

I went for a hike up ‘er in ‘em mountains that was very peaceful lately. Soooo serene and quiet. I like to be alone at times. It’s a different feeling. It makes me thankful and I appreciate life more, it appears. It feels good to get away from the world’s noise for me (e.g. what did you get on that hole or what is the pickleball score or how many calories did I eat today or what is going to happen to the world or how many steps did I take today). I sure have a lot of first world problems, it seems! What am I thinking!

I want to have a holistic life (i.e. encompassing physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual well-being). Now that is a challenge. I want the whole package to be great, not just one or two parts of my life. I know folks who put a lot of effort into one part of their life, but the other parts are a mess. That’s not good, in my opinion (e.g. some of the world might think they are great, but maybe the reality is they are not great). I don’t want to be a show dog.  WorldClassLarry says—Show dogs might win the show today but gone tomorrow. CrazyMarvin asks—What do they do with a race horse that doesn’t win or breaks a leg? You got it!

Jeanne insisted I go to a dermatologist to have a body scan for cancer prevention. Soooo I did; my first such visit in my life. Growing up on the farm a mile and quarter south of Roseland, MN, Chester and Anna would have never have done that, probably would have just died or put some Watkin’s Black salve on it, I guess! ANYWAY, the dermatologist froze part of my head soooo that is why maybe some of what I just said makes little sense or maybe the freezing didn’t make any difference, I have no idea! It’s not a quantitative measurement but more of a speculative measurement.

Soooo far what I have written sounds like I’m preaching! Maybe I am. I’m preaching about myself and to myself (i.e. I'm just letting you listen at no cost).  You have heard enough about me preaching to myself. Reality seems to be that most folks get tired of hearing about us but would rather hear and talk about themselves; that’s a proven fact. Soooo let’s talk about you folks now. But reality is, I really don’t have enough time or space! hahaha

We recently met some folks here in our park who we didn’t know before. Our first impression was we didn’t know about them as we didn’t know them. After we talked for some time, we really liked them. We had great conversations a few times. We had great discussions about many topics, did you hear that I said discussions and not lectures. There is a huge massive difference here folks. They also seem to understand the overall picture of life. They are fun to be around (i.e. they’re not “I” people)!

Some folks down the street told us their story that because of health issues, their lives have really changed, like overnight. Some folks might think they are invincible, but they aren’t. OneSmartPerson said to me—Our life can change in a heartbeat (i.e. he learned that by a humbling experience they had).  But remember folks, that can be for the worse or for the better, but we usually think in a negative way I would guess. It appears that none of us are immune. OneSmartPerson’s experience ended up being an experience that appears to be good in the long run but it could have been a sad life changer (i.e. in one second)! Yikes!

John is writing a new book. He is calling it "I'm Proud of My Humility!" hahaha It could be a best seller!

There is talk about being creative in making some money for road use. It’s pay by the mile as electric cars don’t pay any road tax (i.e. I read it in the newspaper soooo it must be right). ProfessorArt at XYZ University says--Sooooo maybe we should have a life tax, pay by the year we live; it we live longer, then we pay more. Maybe even have a increased upward sliding scale like insurance does! Some Canadian friends tell me once they hit 80 their insurance rates really go up. If they want to winter in the south, they either have to pay it to play in the Valley of the Sun or freeze to death in Canada! hahaha

I met a guy on the driving range from Holstein, IA and he said—I hit buckets of balls on the driving range and then go and putt for an hour on the practice putting green but my game just gets worse instead of better. It’s suppose to get better. I wonder if it has anything to do that I’m 84 and getting older! Da! I sure miss some of my old golf buddies who aren’t here in AZ anymore; some have passed and some just can’t make the trip anymore and some whose wives are in bad health. I had soooo much fun with them. I have gotten to know some new guys by playing with them; we are getting to know each other and having fun. BUT my game is like the guy I met on the driving range, deteriorating by the year! That is hard to take; I admit it! I ain’t like I used to be! It’s humbling! It’s my turn now! I don’t like that reverberation! Such is life.

I am going to try to make a change in my life. It might be a minor change that probably won’t ever be noticed but could end up being major! Most folks probably will never notice my change! Dr.J says—"The book of Proverbs is filled with comparisons using like or as (a simile). For example, “Like a city whose walls are broken through is a person who lacks self-control” (Proverbs 25:28, NIV). A lack of self-control is compared to a city with broken-down walls. Instead of saying, ‘Practice self-control,’ the image of the city illustrates the danger of the lack of self-control.”SwervinErvin says-- I confess that my change will not be easy for me (i.e. a tall order). I will have to smile at times! For sure. I tell you what folks, it will be a very humbling experience for me. It will take much self-control! BUT, it’s also very exciting, an opportunity! My opinion is it will be a great return on my investment (i.e. an usury rate of return)! 

Saturday questions—What is a big deal in our lives? Do we ever make a big deal out of some small deal? Sooooo about 60 folks play golf in our 55+ park on Mondays. They keep score and turn them in. I don’t know for what reason. All their scores basically is a score that they want as none of them keep score the same. They all have different rules in how they keep score. They might just as well write down their score before they start (i.e. whatever they want it to be). And does it really make any difference? I don’t think soooo at all. Yes, I think, my opinion, that some scores in life are important but the scores of those 60 or soooo old folks isn’t one of them. Ok, the golf score might be important to ClazenaShowboat and JoeSmackTalk but not to FunLovingGertie! Oh by the way, we went and played Mexican Train Dominos with friends after we got done playing golf Monday and my score was the highest (i.e. meaning I was the big loser)! It didn’t make one bit of a difference to me. And I had a great time with great folks. Oh, VioletStillwater tells me that they don’t keep score when they play golf and everyone has a lot more fun!

Ryan, a guy who claims he learned a lot from experiences writes in his book--Some folks learn humility and some choose ego!

Have a FUN day my friends unless you have other plans. (-:

erv

MyDeceasedFriendJean said—People are more important than tasks. Just be there—take time, savor the moment.

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