voice of reason

And one of those great friends in FL told us this--What did the monkey say when he got his tail caught in the lawnmower--it won’t be long now! Now that is voice of reason let me tell ya!

AI says—"The ‘voice of reason’ refers to a perspective or individual that advocates for rational, calm, and thoughtful decision-making in situations where emotions or impulses might otherwise lead to hasty or irrational actions. This voice often encourages people to consider the consequences of their actions, weigh their options carefully, and act in a manner that is just and equitable. In many discussions or debates, the voice of reason plays a crucial role in guiding individuals towards a balanced and fair resolution, ensuring that actions are measured and considerate rather than driven by immediate emotional responses.”

When we visited FL do you think we went sightseeing, experienceseeing or friendseeing? Well, we sight seen Kennedy Space Center where we heard over and over that people say—It can’t be done but it can! And we had the experience of riding in an air boat with the alligators which we never did before.  We spent time with good great friends (i.e. the best part). 

“It’s easy to make a buck. It’s a lot tougher to make a difference.” – Tom Brokaw    A friend had a confrontation with another lady. She described her as a very head-strong, controlling person. From what others say and my observation, I think that her description might be a fair evaluation (i.e. on the money, hit the nail on the head). Maybe she doesn’t seem to hear the voice of reason. . . . “Now pray to the LORD to take these snakes away. So Moses prayed.” Those snakes left! Saturday question—Do you think that is crazy! Do you believe it?

Don’t wait for a chance—create one! RickyRick says—"The basic law of relationships is this: You tend to become like the people you spend time with.  If you spend time with grumpy people, you get grumpier. If you spend time with happy people, you get happier. If you want be humbler spend time with humble people.” SlipperyJoe says--Ya don’t have to be a rocket scientist to figure that out!

Absolutely devastating! We hear of stories that appear are absolutely devastating to people’s lives (i.e. maybe you have had such an experience). I sometimes don’t like to hear those stories and sometimes I do! I admit it! Those real life stories really do affect people; they do. They are not easy to deal with. Many devastating events affect us forever. We probably all deal with them differently. Do we all have devastating stories? We sure do hear a lot of them; maybe because we are older do you think?  Maybe, just maybe, overwhelming situations might highlight our powerlessness and might even make us more humble or even become humble. It could be.

TomNobody from Sisseton, SD says—"If you think you know a lot about something, remind yourself that there are many things you do not know. If you want to learn something worthwhile, attempt to learn how to be a nobody. The most profound and valuable lesson of all is to truly know yourself and to have a humble opinion of yourself.” You believe that? I can hardly believe that many folks do! ItchieBitchie says--It’s not American. TomNobody thinks it’s voice of reason. Viktor Frankl in his book Man’s Search for Meaning (i.e. a great read, my opinion) says—"One who gives light must endure the burning.” WorldClassLarry says—"If you want to be a beacon you have to share the light.” Think through those statements will ya! Saturday question—Can a nobody be a beacon with a light? I asked AI who a nobody is; quite interesting!

AI says--A nobody, in the philosophical and introspective sense, embodies the essence of humility and self-awareness. This individual eschews the trappings of ego and status, understanding that true wisdom lies in recognizing one's limitations and the vastness of what remains unknown. A nobody does not seek validation through external achievements or accolades but finds contentment in the quiet pursuit of personal growth and the betterment of others. This person listens more than they speak, observes more than they judge, and values the intrinsic worth of all beings. In a world often driven by the pursuit of recognition and power, a nobody stands as a testament to the profound strength found in modesty and the silent, unwavering commitment to genuine understanding and compassion.

Have you ever got breaks in our lives that we didn’t deserve or didn’t see them coming; they just happened? I have for sure! I just can’t explain them. I was reminded once again by two of our grandkids having such breaks and I would guess they might not even have noticed them. Both situations gave them an opportunity to gain confidence. Both happened because “these two people” were not there because of different reasons, and they got to move up into a position of opportunity (i.e. it changed the dynamics with these two people gone). Have you ever noticed that when some folks aren’t there, it changes the dynamics and others have a chance to shine (i.e. maybe the alpha dog has passed on)? Maybe that’s the voice of reason showing up! Could be but I don’t know! I’m just another bozo on the bus!

Are we vulnerable to believe stuff that just doesn’t make any sense, is not common sense or it is not voice of reason (e.g. like getting scammed). AverageJoe says--It’s amazing what we will believe at times (i.e. completely brain washed).  Well flip the pancake with counterintuitive (e.g. The idea that expressing gratitude can improve one's own happiness might be counterintuitive to some, who might expect that receiving gratitude would have a greater impact. Nonetheless, numerous studies show that practicing gratitude enhances personal well-being). AI says--In essence, counterintuitive ideas challenge our preconceived notions and often lead to surprising and enlightening discoveries. It is a reminder that our instincts and assumptions are not always accurate and that exploring the unexpected can yield significant insights and outcomes.

This could be the voice of reason speaking to me!  OneSmartPerson says--Something powerful to remember: When friends are in pain, sometimes the best thing we can do is simply show up. The deeper their pain, the fewer words are needed. This is known as the ‘ministry of presence’—you don’t have to say anything; just be there. We may have suffered some big losses in life. Maybe we’re in a time of loss right now. Don’t just pray for ourselves; pray for the recovery of hurting people in your neighborhood, community, church, and world—and watch how God brings recovery to your own life.” Saturday question—Why would either of these two things work?

Henry Ford says—"You can’t build a reputation on what you are going to do but it’s built on what you did or are doing.” LuckieEddie says—Talk is cheap! ThePreacherMan says—"How easy it is to go along with the crowd! But, instead of simply getting in line and shuffling along automatically, we can know exactly where we are headed…It is my experience and belief that, most of the time, the crowd has no idea where they are going. They just are going, and that’s good enough for them.” Maybe we need to try to listen for the voice of reason! I read this in a book I’m reading—“It’s a temptation that exists for everyone—for talk and hype to replace action…Almost universally, the kind of performance we give on social media is positive. It’s more ‘Let me tell you how well things are going. Look how great I am.’ It’s rarely the truth; I’m scared. I’m struggling. I don’t know.’” CrazyMarvin says--Some chatty statements can be  rather blurry.

Have a FUN day my friends unless you have other plans. (-:

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MyDeceasedFreindJean said—The sweetest sound is the word of praise.