July 13, 2019

mundane

MissPerfect said to me—erv, you are such a crazy ordinary unique mundane misfit.

Some of you are way ahead of me in my research; you have done this for years.  Oh ya.  Well, I have quite watching the news for several weeks and have not looked at any social media for the same period.  It’s my choice.  I have no real agenda other than I don’t want to do it; I think I can accomplish much more by spending the time picking my nose!  Onesmartperson said—It is stupidity second to none tooooo busy oneself with either one.  I think TV news and social media really can affect the vulnerable (e.g. folks of some sort of mental illness like inferiority complex) much more than the normal mentally capable person (i.e. who might not be as tempted to get soooo get caught up in the competition and negativism).  They might, just maybe, be affected more than they realize.  Ok, I’m a very boring and a mundane person; a crotchety old fart! I’m not trying to change the world; just my world. Surely not trying to crack you, “you hard old nut.” Crazy huh!

Some of you have really impacted other folks' lives in many ways; I know you have; I have seen it (i.e. you improve lives). I have seen a friend change because of their grandchildren.  I have seen one of you change because of your brother-in-law.  Seems mundane but there is a difference in both of you folks; yes, there is; no question.  I have seen some of you change because someone gave you an opportunity. And many of you are the changers (e.g. grandparents, teachers, pastors, neighbors, friends, businesspeople, etc.) Most of this helping is rather mundane; it doesn’t get paper coverage. SusieQ says—Some of that paper coverage can be propaganda or hyped up or just advertising or embellishment.  Could be SusieQ but just maybe folks say that because they are jealous that they aren’t in the paper and getting patted on their back; just maybe.  BUT, if you have an affecting relationship with another person, you probably know what is going on; yes, you do.  You can’t be fooled (i.e. that is a genuine great feeling). Abraham Lincoln said—You can fool some of the people all the time, all the people some of the time but you can’t fool all the people all the time. The beginning stories of those two friends who were changed by grandchildren and by a brother-in-law were told to me by other friends who also noticed it.  But folks, it was not in the paper! 

A first cousin’s once removed wife Fran (i.e. a good person with a good heart; my kind of person) did something that was really neat to me (i.e. not mundane).  She sent me this book.  Clay Thompson wrote a column daily in the AZ Republic.  It was something I read every day the years when we wintered in AZ.  I really enjoyed it.  Well, he passed on and they made a book of some of his columns.  They are soooo good but not as good as the thought of my first cousin’s once removed wife Fran’s thoughtfulness.  Here is an example:

Actually, much of life is mundane; I really think it is.  BUT I also think that we need to do the mundane stuff to the best of our ability; I think it’s important. And we need to try to do the mundane stuff with a happy attitude.  Maybe look at it as an opportunity. There are some folks who can’t do the mundane stuff that others can (i.e. there are a lot of reasons why they can’t or why they don’t think they can).  WorldClassLarry says—My theory is that if you look confident, you can pull off anything—even if you have no clue what you’re doing.  And really folks, life can’t be all bad when for 10 dollars you can buy all the Beethoven sonatas and listen to them for 10 years (i.e. pretty mundane).  What an opportunity!  As crazy as it sounds, I like to listen to Beethoven sometimes.  It’s even more crazy that I would like Beethoven since I almost flunked Music Appreciation at good ol’ Northwestern.  Prof Van Wyk said—erv, if you weren’t such a nice guy, you would have failed.  I think he exaggerated both statements.  I really wasn’t that nice, but I don’t think I did that bad either; I think Prof Van Wyk graded my tests wrong! ha ha   Good ol’ Northwestern wanted my tuition money; they didn’t want to flunk me out!  Besides, my sisters were nice; they carried me.  Such is life.

Arlene and I played a few holes of golf last Sunday night (i.e. an absolutely beautiful night).  ANWYAY, we talked to a couple that were doing the same—How come you guys aren’t at your Mississippi River home—as of about 3 weeks ago we no longer own it—we have had it for 16 years and just wanted a new chapter in our lives (i.e. it became mundane for them maybe)—A guy came along with his check book and he owns it; it actually feels soooo good not being a slave to it anymore.  Folks ask us what we are going to do this weekend and we say—we have no idea. 

AverageJoe (i.e. who is very under-noticed) says—I’m an ordinary person doing ordinary mundane things.  I guess many folks would fall into this category or least feel they do.  It appears that some folks are extraordinary; they seem to do special things or are special folk.  They accomplish great things and get great recognition.  When you read some obituaries, it sounds like some folks are super great folks who have accomplished great feats in their lives (i.e. most obituaries are about accomplishments).  Soooo does it really make much difference?  Really? What is really important in your life?  I know some very great folks (i.e. my opinion) who are pretty ordinary folks doing pretty ordinary stuff and I also know some folks who are very great folks who are doing unbelievable extraordinary stuff.  My hat goes off tooooo all of you guys.  Keep it up!  As my Mom, Anna, (i.e. who was a very great person who most would consider did ordinary mundane stuff in her life) would say to me—erv, always do what is right.  Do you think doing the right thing is mundane?  That is what I thought. Oh, I ran into a friend with books in her hand the other day.  She is maybe 89. I asked her what kind of books she likes to read—I like the “steamy romance novels.”  I guess she doesn’t want to live a mundane life (i.e. wants some excitement in her life). 

MajorReaderLena (i.e. who can eat as many hot dogs as Joey Chestnut) says—I read books like mad, but I am careful not to let anything I read influence me! Who is an ordinary person?  Are you an ordinary person?  Is everyone an ordinary person? Who says we are or aren’t ordinary? Some folks seem to be more well-rounded than others.  I mean they have a lot of different interests and accomplish many different things in a day, a year and in their life.  I don’t mean more well-rounded like around their belt line, although there are some folks much more well-rounded there as well. ha ha  The other day I ran into a friend in front of the library/post office.  She was returning a couple of books.  She told me that she keeps track of how many books she reads and soooo far this year she has read 50 books.  That sounds one dimensional, but I don’t think she is.  This gal seems to be well rounded (i.e. not around her belt line).  I think she just gets a lot done in a day (i.e. doesn’t have a mundane life but maybe has a big motor). Soooo after talking to the 50booklady, I ran into a gal from our church who had 4 books in her arms (i.e. I know she is a big book reader).  Soooo my friend, how many books have you read this year soooo far—oh, I don’t know—take a guess—probably a 100—wow! you must really read fast—l really enjoy reading!  Saturday question--Sooooo how many books have your read this year soooo far? 

I read this in the paper soooo it must be right—The 1,473 Democrats running for president have apparently settled on a campaign slogan: Vote for me and I will give you more free stuff than the other guy.”  Hey, I read it in the comics section soooo maybe it’s a joke.  Bunny a.k.a. Mrs.Our-Life-Is-Better-Than-Yours says—The problem with all that free stuff is the more you get the more you want; it’s like eating Italian food, after 6 days, you’re hungry again!

Admittedly, Christian life can become dull. Perhaps when the routine puts us on autopilot, we should open our eyes again. I read what DrJ said while eating my oatmeal with a half a banana on it--Turn us back to You, O Lord, and we will be restored; renew our days as of old. Lamentations 5:21 When King Tutankhamun’s tomb was discovered in 1922, it instantly became a famous tourist destination with thousands of people coming every day, year after year. Carbon dioxide from the visitors’ breath and all the dust they stirred up had a dulling influence on the stunning gold walls of the tomb. The site was closed for years while the Getty Conservation Institute restored the images and installed new ventilation systems and walkways. Now King Tut’s tomb is open again, but when asked how much the restoration cost, the institute says it was so expensive they won’t disclose the cost. We live in a dusty world, and the devil is always breathing down our backs. It’s easy to become spiritually dull and stained (i.e. mundane). Sometimes we lose the golden glow of God’s energy in our hearts. We often need for Him to do as He said in Psalm 23—to restore our souls.  Soooo folks, throw those chips away and get your butts off the couch! I have a golf buddy/friend who just purchased a pair of Jesus’ golf shoes (i.e. that is what my friend, Junior, from 3 and a fourth miles N of Dover, MN calls them). My golf buddy/friend is on his way to be more like Jesus!! ha ha

Have you ever made a statement that seems mundane but after time it’s not mundane anymore?  A golf buddy/friend told me the other day as we were going down #4 fairway—Years ago I was playing golf with some old guys in AZ during the winter.  They were 75 and no longer could hit the ball more than 150 yards but were still pretty good golfers.  I said to them—I hope when I’m 75 I can hit the ball like you guys. Then he said to me--Well, I’m about that age and I hit the ball like those guys, and I don’t like it a bit! Such is life.

I took Arlene to The Legacy Project music concert at our church a recent Saturday night.  She sorta kinda said she really enjoyed it.  One song they sang was a 120-year old hymn that they said they skewed to a modern version (i.e. they didn’t change the words). They said they really like the words and meaning of that song and didn’t want it forgotten forever.  They said that if it wasn’t skewed to a modern version, it probably would be lost forever. Huh, interesting.  I think they said a lot about a lot of things by that skewing.  Think through that folks.  Soooo I went and got a loaf of bread over the weekend. I took the Hostess wheat with the “New Recipe.”  Seeee, it has to be good as it’s a new recipe a.k.a. skewed.  ha ha I had to laugh at myself.  Such is life.
Recently playing golf and riding with a buddy/friend I had this experience.  It was on the 5th hole.  He ripped a mammoth drive.  We ride up to it and he tells me that it is the best drive he has ever hit on this hole.  He’s maybe 60 yards from the green (i.e. I think he is thinking birdie).  He pulls out some type of a wedge, plants his feet, grips the club, adjusts his feet again, waggles a little, regrips the club (i.e. he’s a retired engineer and that is what engineers do—analyze things to make sure everything is right).  Finally takes a whack at the ball and hits it about 25 yards sorta kinda to the right (i.e. a terrible shot).  He walks back to the cart and said to me in a mundane voice—analyze paralyze!  I LOL! 
On the Fourth, Arlene and I took a ride to Clear Lake.  I pushed Arlene in her wheelchair along the walk next to the lake by the park.  There was an amusement company in the park with all the rides and vendors selling their trinkets.  The other side of the walk was the lake with all the water activities that folks were enjoying.  There were a lot of picnics, eating, drinking and talking going on.  It seems like everyone was enjoying a warm, sunny Fourth at the lake.  We then drove around the lake and saw more activity with a lot of family and friends gathering in parks and lake homes.  There were a lot of boats and water activities on the lake.  Years ago, friends invited us to their lake home on several occasions for the Fourth.  It was fun and many good memories.  We toooo said that we never saw soooo many boats on the lake as on the Fourth.  ANYWAY, seeing all those boats reminded me of a time at their lake home when we saw a boat being driven crazy, really crazy.  We knew the young man who was driving.  I said—That has to be the craziest driver on the lake—a friend said—oh no, there is one crazier—his father.  Ouchy ouchy! 
Have a FUN day my friends unless you have other plans. (-: 
erv

MyFriendJean says—To add to your joy, count your blessings.

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