Disclaimer—You can complain all you want about what I write but you get what you pay for folks (i.e. it’s all about the money). Really, if I offend you, I’m sorry. I surely need to say that ‘cause with the many folks reading this, there will be someone offended and complaining. Such is life.
It’s an effective way of teaching for FrankTheCowboyfromNebraska. You tell ‘em FrankTheCowboyfromNebraska. Mildred, the church gossip, and self-appointed monitor of the church's morals, kept sticking her nose into other people's business. Several members did not approve of her extracurricular activities, but feared her enough to maintain their silence. She made a mistake, however, when she accused Frank, a new member, of being an alcoholic after she saw his old pickup parked in front of the town's only bar one afternoon. She emphatically told Frank (and several others) that every one seeing it that there WOULD KNOW WHAT HE WAS DOING! Frank, a man of few words, stared at her for a moment and just turned and walked away. He didn't explain, defend, or deny. He said nothing. Later that evening, Frank quietly parked his pickup in front of Mildred's house... walked home... and left it there all night.
Joesixpack says—Here’s the deal, this guy plays big! I was invited to a Gung Ho meeting again by an acquaintance at Mudd Advertising (i.e. seems to be a rather effective way to motivate folks). Ben Jacobson, the basketball coach at UNI spoke. It was a typical coach talk but he reminded us that to win, a team has to have a certain effective attitude. They have to be tough, really tough mentally and physically. They have to work hard, work really hard all year and every day (i.e. most folks don’t realize how difficult it is to be great--it’s easy to be average). Some how some way a team has to have a team concept (i.e. a bunch of individuals just wont’ win—it has been proven over and over). Some how some way a team must develop a championship feeling. He said —feeling sorry for yourself is a waste of time. His first year of being head coach at UNI they started 13 and 2. The fans were calling him another John Wooden. Then they lost 7 out the next 8 and they wanted to get rid of him (i.e. he can’t coach). Hey, ya gotta win (i.e. it’s all about money folks). Another statement he made that I like—We have no rules but have expectations; if our players can’t live to our expectations, they have to leave (i.e. now that is an effective way of handling players). Such is life.
Whining, complaining, belly acking, and begging are not qualities of folks we enjoy being around. BUT they seem to be effective! Ouchy ouchy! Joesixpack says—What part of “WHAAAAAA” don’t you understand? Legislators, teachers, farmers, business folks, churches, golfers, housewives, employees, students, parents etc. all seem to whine so it must work or why would they do it. MabelTheComplainer says—I’m here ‘cause I’m not all there!
MissPerfect says--I bet I do things that don’t make much sense to others—she doesn’t whine (i.e. maybe MissPerfect has more horse power than others). But they make sense to me. SusieQ says--hug and kiss me until I whine! Many effective things, ways, and methods make no sense to others ‘cause they have never experienced them. Like my mentor says—We are all programmed by our past environment. Such is life.
CadillacJack says--Make me understand my criticism by making me do it (i.e. it’s very effective). We went to the Splash in Golden (i.e. a water fun spot for younger children). I poke fun of Arlene a.k.a. championcarsleeper (i.e. she can sleep in the craziest positions and at any time). Sometimes she sleeps with her mouth open. ANYWAY I was sitting on my lounge chair at the Splash and fell asleep. I woke up three times and had my mouth open all three times! Ouchy ouchy! Here is another personal example of effective correction of a negative attitude. I called our niece who lives in Denver and asked if her and John wanted to have pizza with us. I got no response so I thought negative thoughts. Then I got this email--Uncle Erv--Sorry we didn't get a chance to get together this weekend ... I've been having trouble with my phone lately in that it doesn't show me when I have voicemails or text messages. So I didn't know you had called until last night when another person left me a voicemail. Sorry about that! Hopefully you guys are having a good time so far. Oh man, there is usually always a reason, a reason that we don’t know about. It’s sorta kinda like what BigSpenderRalph said to his buddy TightWadDallas—Your wife is hot, way hot!!! Here is a couple of bucks for you to turn on the AC! Here is another ervthing—I thought on the way back from CO, we would swing over by Sioux City as I always wanted to play the Dakota Dunes course. So I go on line, get the number and give them a call—Hey we’re traveling from CO back to IA and was wondering if I could play your course—that seems quite a ways out of your way—well, I always wanted to play it and I’m 64 and not getting any younger—you have a point there; so what day do you want to play—Thursday—sorry but we have a tournament that day but since you are going that far out of your way I’ll let you play at 6:30 if you want—okay I’ll do it—where should we stay the night before close to the course—Saskatoon—I never heard of that town—it’s a little ways down the road—wouldn’t Sioux City be closer—no this would be the best—How’s the course—great—didn’t the Hooter Tournament play there a few years ago—no, but the Canadian Open is being played here in a couple of weeks; this course is only 6 years old, are you sure you have the right Dakota Dunes, we are in Canada—what! No I want to play the Dakota Dunes in South Sioux City, SD—you got the wrong course (i.e. we both had a good laugh—AAA well thank you anyway! So I called the other Dakota Dunes (i.e. a private club but I did talk my way on--it’s all about money folks)—Thursday is ladies day so I couldn’t play (i.e. I didn’t have enough money for ladies day)—maybe next year. We drove straight home on Wednesday for our 12.5 hour drive. Sooooooo ervie, don’t get soooooo excited sooooooo fast.
It might be reality (i.e. quite effective). I saw this saying on a t-shirt worn by a middle aged guy in Golden. It read—If you’d meet my family, you’d understand! Have you ever said—I‘ll never be like my dad or mom and you’re just like ‘em. Well flip the pancake—You acquire the good of your parents too! Soooooo, parents, be a good example. It’s a very effective way of parenting. Daphney (i.e. James and Heather’s dog) barked in the back yard. Our Little Erin 2.75 years old ran to the back door and said—No Daphney, no barking! I wonder where she heard that before! Kids mimic their parents if we like it or not. Just look around at families (i.e. it is what it is). Such is life.
So what is the most important thing our kids can mimic in us? That might depend what’s the most important thing to us I would guess. GeorgeTheCrook says—the best life lived without Jesus is still a life without Jesus! You know what folks, we can’t make anyone do something that they don’t want to do (i.e. we can lead them to water but can’t make them drink). But we can put a little salt in their food to make them thirsty. We all copy (i.e. mimic) somebody or some bodies—So who do you copy? Think about that—think about what you think about! Erin is yet a baby but she’s still the boss (i.e. a very effective boss)!
SusieQTheCowgirlFromCo was buying a new saddle. She asked her husband BillyTheCowboyFromCo—Does this saddle make my butt look big? And what do you think BillyTheCowboyFromCo said—Of course he said—Not a bit! That was a very effective response (i.e. my opinion).
LuckieEddie says Whiners are not much fun to be around. No they aren’t LuckyEddie. A guy can take about soooooo much of them. An effective way to deal with them is to not be around them. They are near impossible to change and they are just a drag to your life. We were going to the park and a pickup pulled up beside us. On it’s side it read—Rocky Mt. Bathroom; we fix ugly bathrooms! Hey, ugly bathrooms are easier to fix than whiners (i.e. my opinion). Why do you think folks are complainers anyway? ItchieBithcie says—To really be a good whiner you have to show effective emotions like crying, whine loud, stomp your feet, pout, be persistent, have great facial expressions and learn certain magical words. Such is life.
Saturday question—When you talk to God, do you whine or thank Him? I read this while eating my oatmeal with strawberries on it—the quality of your attitude will help determine the quality of your life, so you must guard your thoughts accordingly. So the next time you find yourself dwelling upon the negative aspects of your life, refocus your attention on things positive. And, the next time you’re tempted to waste valuable time gossiping or complaining, resist those temptations with all your might. And remember: You’ll never whine your way to the top…so don’t waste you breath.
I played golf at the Fossil Trace Golf Club in Golden (i.e. voted the best course in the Denver area). http://www.fossiltrace.com/ I played with BusinessWomanJan (i.e. a real estate broker associate) and SmilingSally (i.e. she was always smiling). ANYWAY we had a very pleasant time (i.e. that’s how they described it). Fossil Trace is a tough course for anyone but maybe especially for woman (i.e. I never heard either of the gals complain, whine or talk trash). One time SmilingSally got in a deep bunker and it took her several shots to get out. She said to me—I’m tired with a smile on her face. Later on I kidded her about that and she said—It was hilarious! They both had a very positive attitude (i.e. fun to be around). I think it was on the 14th fairway when I asked them how old they were—62 and 66! They called themselves the Divot Divas! I had to ask them what a Diva was, I didn’t know. They were very nice gals who seemed to enjoy life very effectively. I shot a 84 from the blues. I thought I shot a 85 but I had my score card on the counter as I had some notes on it. Heather added it up and it was actually a 84 (i.e. I need her around more). A triple, 2 doubles and 2 birdies. Those deep bunkers and several undulating greens were tough for me. I played the same ball for the whole round, played everything down and putted everything out (i.e. that’s golf isn’t it—givemes and rolling the ball is like, what kind of score do you want to have before you start the hole). Of course I played on a 5star course too. I have the Life of Riley now don’t I. Such is life.
It was very effective--Jones applied to a collection agency for a job, but he had no experience. He was so intense that the manager gave him a tough account with the promise that if he collected it, he'd get the job. Two hours later, Jones came back with the entire amount. "Amazing!" the manager said: "How did you do it?" "Easy," Jones replied: "I told him if he didn't pay up, I'd tell all his other creditors he paid us."
Heather and I had to get a new tank of gas for the grill one night. We went to Home Depot. A young man helped me get the tank out of the cage. I asked him—How do you like your job—I like it very much; I’m around some real nice folks—fellow workers or customers—both. I like to here that—usually you hear more whining than positive stuff? That attitude is very effective (i.e. my opinion). The Divot Divas and I both think that positive folks enjoy life more. What do you think?
Riley had another effective picnic in the park—Spent time with family, hiked Mt. Falcon twice, rode bike for 25 miles with my little Peanut Heather, went to church with the family (i.e. little Erin got her chocolate donut with sprinkles on it) and got to go to music in the Denver Park. Arlene had more fun that Riley I think. Little Erin loves Grandma and Grandma loves little Erin. They spend a lot of time together. It was very special for both. That’s the way it’s suppose to be folks. Such is life.
This is what a vendor had on his tee shirt--ThebleachersectionCubby says--"Shut up and drink your beer". Translated into my language it means quit your whining, buck up, suck it up, rub some dirt on it and lets get going! AverageJoe says—Half of the folks really don’t care and the other half are glad it happen to you. So throw those chips away, get your butt off the couch and do something for someone else.
Have a FUN day my friends unless you have other plans. (-:
swervinervin
KR’s thought of the day—Whining is never harmless. It destroys from the inside.
TheProfessor’sPithySaying—There is no cure for an empty head.
June 26, 2010
June 19, 2010
Mentality
LuckyEddie says---Sometimes it’s a little better to travel than to arrive! I think what LuckyEddie is saying is that we are always in such a hurry to get somewhere that we miss the travel. Is that a normal mentality? Really, what do you think? We are retired so time means nutten to us soooooo..! We are in CO visiting our little Erin, James and Heather and I got to do something I said wanted to do when I retired (i.e. when time means nutten to us). We drove through southern NE by state highways and county roads going through all the little towns. I was more excited about it than Arlene but up with my mentality. Maybe she has a more normal mentality. I don’t know. I like experiences (i.e. maybe unusual experiences according to your mentality). ANYWAY StacyO was sorta kinda our travel guide (i.e. she grew up in this Nebraska area on a cattle ranch doing all the cattle stuff—a very special gal in our mind and hearts). She suggested the roads and also a place to stay (i.e. I wanted an experience and not a Holiday Inn Express). What a good time we had (i.e. like I said--time means nutten to us—we’re retired)! Actually we started our NE experience via way of Waukee/Iowa Cubs game with our little Charlie, Chet and Jessica (i.e. a beautiful summer evening at the ol’ ball park). We saw two spectacular catches. One was by the I-Cub’s center fielder who made an unbelievable catch on a hard line drive in which he went back and to his left making a diving catch landing hard on his belly. The fans stood, hooted and hollered, and clapped showing their appreciation. The second catch was by about a 10-year-old boy off a foul ball. The foul ball was sorta kinda behind first base. Two pretty gals of about 14 stood up to try to catch it but it went through their hands. The little boy, two rows back from them, snagged the foul with his glove and instantly gave the ball to the girls (i.e. no hesitation nor was he told by his father—it was a spontaneous response). The father said something to his son and the crowd clapped for the boy. You have to have a certain mentality to do that. I was really impressed as well as some of the crowd.
We headed down the road and stayed at a huntin’ lodge that night—Hunt Nebraska, Inc. http://www.huntnebraska.com/ in Arapahoe, NE population 1,001. If was quite nice and fun. John the owner has been doing this for 30 years he told me. We had dinner at Muddy Creek Saloon—what a name for a place (i.e. only in small town Nebraska folks).
MissPerfect says--There are cowboys who wear cowboy hats but have no cattle. This guy didn’t wear a cowboy hat but had many cattle. Oh ya! We stopped for a sandwich at Trails West Texaco near Trenton. I asked the clerk what’s exciting going west—she said, not a darn thing!—there is just two old barns! She was wrong. Our last stop before Morrison, CO was at a feedlot by Yuma, CO. It was the largest feedlot I have ever seen. I turned in the lot driveway and there was a sign that read—We don’t do public tours. I didn’t want a tour but just ask some questions. I pulled up to the office/scale house and walked in. There were two office gals in an open type office (i.e. very nice gals). We started talking when the manager came out of his office and introduced himself to me. He was Collin who was about 35 I would guess (i.e. he would have to have a certain mentality to run this operation). This feedlot had capacity for 125,000 head (i.e. that’s a lot of cow pies folks). I asked a ton of questions—It was owned by JBS—they have 15 to 20 cattle buyers all over the country who buy cattle daily—they own their own packing plant in Greeley, CO—90% of the corn is grown in a 20 mile radius—average gain is 3.5 for the steers and 3 for the heifers—1% death rate—around 80 employees. I had the greatest of time. Oh yes, it smelt like cattle folks. Such is life.
JoeBlow says this is a good mentality to have -- Remember, to give a warm hug to those close to you, because that is the only treasure you can give with your heart freely. Say, "I love you" to your loved ones, but most of all mean it. Hold hands and cherish the moment for someday that person will not be there. Give time to love, time to share the precious thoughts in your mind and remember to forgive no matter how bad the hurt.
A guy has to have a certain mentality or is really addicted. I talked to a guy this week In Aplington. He was sitting on his front porch smoking a cig. He told me he has walking phenomena and can’t seem to shake it. He has had it about 6 weeks and has had a double dose of antibiotics but still fells terrible. Hey, he must not feel bad enough to quite smoking. Such is life.
Forgive me my nonsense as I also forgive the nonsense of those who think they talk sense.~Robert Frost~ Joesixpack says--There is a big difference between people who want to say something and people who have something to say. Often, those with something to say don't talk much and those who want to say something won't be quiet. Ouchy ouchy! It’s time to wrap this “It’s Saturday up folks. Such is life.
Have a FUN day my friends unless you have other plans. (-:
erv
June 12, 2010
Encourage (i.e. UPlift)
Voof Voof Voof – It seems like everyone is barking about something these days. How about you and I bark in a positive way. Who can we encourage today? So listen UP folks!
MissPerfect says--I will try to help others. I will try not to let a day pass without reaching out an arm of love to someone. Each day I will try to do something to lift another human being out of the sea of discouragement into which he or she has fallen. My helping hand is needed to raise the helpless to courage, to strength, to faith, to health. In my own gratitude, I will turn and help others with the burden that is pressing too heavily upon them. Hey folks, it’s the right thing to do so just do it! And who will be happy about the result? Answer--You and the other person. Such is life.
Be an encourager folks (i.e. an UPlifter). I was working with some clients on a real estate deal. We really had a good time together. They are probably in their late 70s. I asked them if they went to high school—no we didn’t; they both said they quit after the 8th grade but she did go back to get her GED degree. She wishes she would have gone to high school as she likes education but her father said—you don’t need an education to be a wife! She didn’t know about that but he manipulated her with a piano and lessons. It worked. ANYWAY her father also said—The sun will have to come up in the west before we have a TV! Well in the 50s they got a TV! I kidded this gal in saying—You probably said—When the sun comes up in the west we’ll have a computer in our house! She said you’re right erv, but you know what, we have a computer in our house and I’m attending computer classes. Parents who are encouragers give their children a huge, massive advantage (i.e. that’s my opinion). I recently heard a star linebacker from UNI speak. He said for his first 3 years his parents drove all over the country to see him play maybe 4 plays. They were always there but never said much (i.e. they were just being encouragers without pressure). His senior year he became a star and his parents were also always there. They had the same attitude (i.e. didn’t say much). This young man said—I realize what great parents I had (i.e. great family and that’s much more important than football). Such is life.
Hey Rookie! Sidthe10centmillionare says—One of the great things about life is its unpredictability (i.e. full of ifs). Joesixpack says—You lost me, hello! I don’t like unpredictability! Okay this is not unpredictable. I was walking past the TV and Arlene had the Today Show on. They said-- Women spend 20 years of their life fixing their hair. Ouchy ouchy! Just think if all women had buzz cuts and used no makeup. They would all be on the same playing field. Just think how much more would get done in this world. Yabut capitalism would never let that happen. I can’t imagine how much money is spent on hair and makeup (i.e. it’s all about money folks)!
It was sooooooooo encouraging (i.e. UPlifting). I had this dream—He was going to put millions into this deal and I was going to put a lot less in. It was going to make each of us a million a year. I asked him how come he would do that—I like you. Then I woke up!
This was discouraging (i.e. not UPlifting) – The other morning I went for an early walk. I was coming back and met this guy at the corner with his two big beagles. One took a crap on Jenny’s lawn and the other took a crap on the street. Yucko! Where is your brain dog owner? It was the same day that the kids got out of school. Can you imagine some little girl walking bare foot for the first time stepping into that fresh dog crap?
This was encouraging to me—yes it was. I was in the post office the other day and the gal who we sold our used van was there too. She says to me—The van is going to North Carolina tomorrow. So you still have the van—yes we do. It was a 1999 Dodge 4 cylinder short van. We probably sold it to them maybe in 2003. It had 90,000 miles on it. I asked her how many miles are on it now—185,000 and we haven’t done any work on it. Wow!
Do you know why geese honk? They are always honking it seems. The reason is to encourage each other (i.e. UPlift each other). So honk at each other folks. Such is life.
I went for a walk in the rain this week—I like to walk in the rain (i.e. it’s encouraging to me). ANYWAY when I got back, I finished reading The Walk by Richard Paul Evans. Rox at the office said to me one day—erv, have you read the new book by Evans called the Walk—no I haven’t—He’s the guy who wrote The Christmas Box. I sorta kinda forgot about it. This week there was a book lying on the counter—Arlene said she thought I would enjoy reading it. It was the book. I really enjoyed it. I suggest you read it (i.e. very easy read). Let me know what you think of it. Here is another suggestion—go to the movie Letters to God. We went this week at the Grundy Theater. As we were entering, our neighbors were also entering so we went in together. It cost a dollar to get in (i.e. senior discount) but it cost $9.50 for a couple of small popcorns and sodas! I gave the lady a hundred dollar bill—I don’t have change—I had to borrow $10 from NeighborKarl to pay for our treat. I think that is just sooooooooo funny.
Joesixpack says—Folks who are always given stuff just expect it and it seems they aren’t very appreciative. They don’t acknowledge others’ gifts (i.e. they seem to just expect it). Hey Joesixpack, I sorta kinda agree. I just had a reminder of this situation. I did a small little deal and they showed no thank you or response. I think they just expect it. When folks respond to others graciousness and support, they are much more willing to give the next time (i.e. it’s encouraging). GeorgeTheCrook says—It’s just our culture so don’t get soooooo excited erv. I won’t GeorgeTheCrook, I just won’t give to them anymore. I’ll give to those who are appreciative. That’s easy. Flip the pancake—I wonder if God ever says—why in the world aren’t they thankful for my grace and love. Does he say—well, I just won’t give to them anymore; I’ll just give to those who are appreciative? I bet God does like thanking and acknowledgement. What do you think?
AverageJoe says--Each waking moment holds the potential to think a creative thought or offer a heartfelt prayer (i.e. that makes a person an encouraging type of person. OverTheTopBill says--Every increased possession loads us with new weariness.
Is this statement encouraging or discouraging to you? Certain things will never happen to you again. Does your attitude have anything to do with how you answer that? Does your past environment have anything to do with how you answer that? Maybe it’s up to you how you interpret that question. Listen up—It took me four times to get it right last week. A friend called me a…! Hey, it’s encouraging to me that it only took 4 times! Such is life.
I read this while eating my oatmeal with blackberries (i.e. my kid sister’s favorite) on it—Life is a team sport, and all of us need occasional pats on the back from our teammates. In the book of Ephesians, Paul writes, “Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen…Since we don’t always know who needs our help, the best strategy is to encourage all the people who cross our paths. So today, be a world-class source of encouragement to everyone you meet.
We went to a friend’s wedding last Saturday in Hutchinson, MN. We parked next to a car that had a bumper sticker that read—I stop for Moose! The wedding was very much encouraging to me (i.e. about God, family and friends—very refreshing to me and UPlifting). We drove through Waseca, MN on our way. I haven’t been Waseca since 1964 I think. My friend Jerry and I drove there on a rainy day to buy bows at Herders (i.e. at their factory at a discount price). There is a little lake in Waseca and I slowed down for a mother duck and her ducklings crossing the road and got hit from behind. Ouchy ouchy. I got home and strung my bow and broke the bow. Not a good day. ANYWAY I called my friend Jerry as we were going through Waseca. I haven’t talked to him for about 5 years. Oh yes, he remembered the day. So how is it going Jerry? Well I had my hip replaced and they want to replace both my knees (i.e. he had a detached retina five years ago). Toooooo much softball. Jerry was a very good fast pitch softball player. In fact they won the national title once and maybe more. He has been inducted into the Fast Pitch Hall of Fame. Here is the rest of the story—I worked for Kandiyohi County Maintenance department during my college years. Every year the maintenance department and the office guys would play a slow pitch softball game and the losers had to pay for the keg. Jerry and I played a lot of ball during this time. So on this particular night, Jerry and I played a game somewhere and he rode with me to the county game which was at Kandiyohi Lake. When we got there the game was in progress so I got to play a little but then it started to rain. Most of the guys went home except for maybe 6 guys (i.e. one was the county engineer and another was the guy in charge of maintenance). We sat in a shelter and drank a couple of beers together (i.e. Jerry and I were under the age of 21). I said to those guys—you should hire my friend Jerry—come on in Jerry and apply. They hired him and he retired from Kandiyohi County about 5 years ago. Such is life.
It was encouraging that others didn’t know either. At the wedding, the praise team led us folks in several songs. One was Come thou fount of every blessing. At the reception I asked the guy sitting next to me (i.e. a guy I didn’t know)—I sang that song since I was a kid at Roseland Reformed Church in Roseland, MN and I still don’t know what my Embenezer is? What is it? He didn’t know nor did the guy across the table (i.e. and they both had ties on but no robes). They asked the other folks down the table. No one knew. After some time, the guy next to me came back. He talked to two pastors (i.e. they had ties and coats on but no robes) and got two different definitions. Huh, interesting.
Joesixpack says—We all know how to change this world, our life and the church for the better but the hard part is doing it. Most of the changes (i.e. around the house, in business, in our churches, and in our lives) don’t get done until they become a necessity (i.e. until we are forced to). Some folks they don’t realize that it’s a necessity. It’s really encouraging to see something happen on a proactive basis instead of a reactive basis. Many times the reactive reaction is tooooooo late. Such is life. John Wooden just past away. I have always been a follower of him. Here a few of his statements—Be more concerned with your character than your reputation, because your character is what you really are, while your reputation is merely what others think you are—You can’t let praise or criticism get to you. It’s a weakness to get caught up in either one—What you are as a person is far more important that what you are as a basketball player—If you’re not making mistakes, then you’re not dong anything. I’m positive that a doer makes mistakes—Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be—it’s what you learn after you know it all that counts. He was an encouraging man (i.e. my opinion). Encouragement is sooooooooo UPplifting now isn’t it. This two-letter word in English has more meanings than any other two-letter word, and that word is 'UP.' It is listed in the dictionary as an [adv], [prep], [adj], [n] or [v]. It's easy to understand UP, meaning toward the sky or at the top of the list, but when we awaken in the morning, why do we wake UP ? At a meeting, why does a topic come UP ? Why do we speak UP , and why are the officers UP for election and why is it UP to the secretary to write UP a report? We call UP our friends, brighten UP a room, polish UP the silver, warm UP the leftovers and clean UP the kitchen. We lock UP the house and fix UP the old car. At other times this little word has real special meaning. People stir UP trouble, line UP for tickets, work UP an appetite, and think UP excuses. To be dressed is one thing but to be dressed UP is special. And this UP is confusing: A drain must be opened UP because it is stopped UP. We open UP a store in the morning but we close it UP at night. We seem to be pretty mixed UP about UP ! To be knowledgeable about the proper uses of UP, look UP the word UP in the dictionary. In a desk-sized dictionary, it takes UP almost 1/4 of the page and can add UP to about thirty definitions. If you are UP to it, you might try building UP a list of the many ways UP is used. It will take UP a lot of your time, but if you don't give UP, you may wind UP with a hundred or more. When it threatens to rain, we say it is clouding UP . When the sun comes out we say it is clearing UP. When it rains, it soaks UP the earth. When it does not rain for awhile, things dry UP. One could go on and on, but I'll wrap it UP, for now ........my time is UP ! Oh....one more thing: What is the first thing you do in the morning & the last thing you do at night? U P! Don't Mess UP. Now I'll shut UP.
Have a FUN day my friends unless you have other plans. (-:
erv
KR’s thought of the day—When I get angry, I ask God for patience.
TheProfessor’sPithySaying—Whatever is good to know is difficult to learn.
MissPerfect says--I will try to help others. I will try not to let a day pass without reaching out an arm of love to someone. Each day I will try to do something to lift another human being out of the sea of discouragement into which he or she has fallen. My helping hand is needed to raise the helpless to courage, to strength, to faith, to health. In my own gratitude, I will turn and help others with the burden that is pressing too heavily upon them. Hey folks, it’s the right thing to do so just do it! And who will be happy about the result? Answer--You and the other person. Such is life.
Be an encourager folks (i.e. an UPlifter). I was working with some clients on a real estate deal. We really had a good time together. They are probably in their late 70s. I asked them if they went to high school—no we didn’t; they both said they quit after the 8th grade but she did go back to get her GED degree. She wishes she would have gone to high school as she likes education but her father said—you don’t need an education to be a wife! She didn’t know about that but he manipulated her with a piano and lessons. It worked. ANYWAY her father also said—The sun will have to come up in the west before we have a TV! Well in the 50s they got a TV! I kidded this gal in saying—You probably said—When the sun comes up in the west we’ll have a computer in our house! She said you’re right erv, but you know what, we have a computer in our house and I’m attending computer classes. Parents who are encouragers give their children a huge, massive advantage (i.e. that’s my opinion). I recently heard a star linebacker from UNI speak. He said for his first 3 years his parents drove all over the country to see him play maybe 4 plays. They were always there but never said much (i.e. they were just being encouragers without pressure). His senior year he became a star and his parents were also always there. They had the same attitude (i.e. didn’t say much). This young man said—I realize what great parents I had (i.e. great family and that’s much more important than football). Such is life.
Hey Rookie! Sidthe10centmillionare says—One of the great things about life is its unpredictability (i.e. full of ifs). Joesixpack says—You lost me, hello! I don’t like unpredictability! Okay this is not unpredictable. I was walking past the TV and Arlene had the Today Show on. They said-- Women spend 20 years of their life fixing their hair. Ouchy ouchy! Just think if all women had buzz cuts and used no makeup. They would all be on the same playing field. Just think how much more would get done in this world. Yabut capitalism would never let that happen. I can’t imagine how much money is spent on hair and makeup (i.e. it’s all about money folks)!
It was sooooooooo encouraging (i.e. UPlifting). I had this dream—He was going to put millions into this deal and I was going to put a lot less in. It was going to make each of us a million a year. I asked him how come he would do that—I like you. Then I woke up!
This was discouraging (i.e. not UPlifting) – The other morning I went for an early walk. I was coming back and met this guy at the corner with his two big beagles. One took a crap on Jenny’s lawn and the other took a crap on the street. Yucko! Where is your brain dog owner? It was the same day that the kids got out of school. Can you imagine some little girl walking bare foot for the first time stepping into that fresh dog crap?
This was encouraging to me—yes it was. I was in the post office the other day and the gal who we sold our used van was there too. She says to me—The van is going to North Carolina tomorrow. So you still have the van—yes we do. It was a 1999 Dodge 4 cylinder short van. We probably sold it to them maybe in 2003. It had 90,000 miles on it. I asked her how many miles are on it now—185,000 and we haven’t done any work on it. Wow!
Do you know why geese honk? They are always honking it seems. The reason is to encourage each other (i.e. UPlift each other). So honk at each other folks. Such is life.
I went for a walk in the rain this week—I like to walk in the rain (i.e. it’s encouraging to me). ANYWAY when I got back, I finished reading The Walk by Richard Paul Evans. Rox at the office said to me one day—erv, have you read the new book by Evans called the Walk—no I haven’t—He’s the guy who wrote The Christmas Box. I sorta kinda forgot about it. This week there was a book lying on the counter—Arlene said she thought I would enjoy reading it. It was the book. I really enjoyed it. I suggest you read it (i.e. very easy read). Let me know what you think of it. Here is another suggestion—go to the movie Letters to God. We went this week at the Grundy Theater. As we were entering, our neighbors were also entering so we went in together. It cost a dollar to get in (i.e. senior discount) but it cost $9.50 for a couple of small popcorns and sodas! I gave the lady a hundred dollar bill—I don’t have change—I had to borrow $10 from NeighborKarl to pay for our treat. I think that is just sooooooooo funny.
Joesixpack says—Folks who are always given stuff just expect it and it seems they aren’t very appreciative. They don’t acknowledge others’ gifts (i.e. they seem to just expect it). Hey Joesixpack, I sorta kinda agree. I just had a reminder of this situation. I did a small little deal and they showed no thank you or response. I think they just expect it. When folks respond to others graciousness and support, they are much more willing to give the next time (i.e. it’s encouraging). GeorgeTheCrook says—It’s just our culture so don’t get soooooo excited erv. I won’t GeorgeTheCrook, I just won’t give to them anymore. I’ll give to those who are appreciative. That’s easy. Flip the pancake—I wonder if God ever says—why in the world aren’t they thankful for my grace and love. Does he say—well, I just won’t give to them anymore; I’ll just give to those who are appreciative? I bet God does like thanking and acknowledgement. What do you think?
AverageJoe says--Each waking moment holds the potential to think a creative thought or offer a heartfelt prayer (i.e. that makes a person an encouraging type of person. OverTheTopBill says--Every increased possession loads us with new weariness.
Is this statement encouraging or discouraging to you? Certain things will never happen to you again. Does your attitude have anything to do with how you answer that? Does your past environment have anything to do with how you answer that? Maybe it’s up to you how you interpret that question. Listen up—It took me four times to get it right last week. A friend called me a…! Hey, it’s encouraging to me that it only took 4 times! Such is life.
I read this while eating my oatmeal with blackberries (i.e. my kid sister’s favorite) on it—Life is a team sport, and all of us need occasional pats on the back from our teammates. In the book of Ephesians, Paul writes, “Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen…Since we don’t always know who needs our help, the best strategy is to encourage all the people who cross our paths. So today, be a world-class source of encouragement to everyone you meet.
We went to a friend’s wedding last Saturday in Hutchinson, MN. We parked next to a car that had a bumper sticker that read—I stop for Moose! The wedding was very much encouraging to me (i.e. about God, family and friends—very refreshing to me and UPlifting). We drove through Waseca, MN on our way. I haven’t been Waseca since 1964 I think. My friend Jerry and I drove there on a rainy day to buy bows at Herders (i.e. at their factory at a discount price). There is a little lake in Waseca and I slowed down for a mother duck and her ducklings crossing the road and got hit from behind. Ouchy ouchy. I got home and strung my bow and broke the bow. Not a good day. ANYWAY I called my friend Jerry as we were going through Waseca. I haven’t talked to him for about 5 years. Oh yes, he remembered the day. So how is it going Jerry? Well I had my hip replaced and they want to replace both my knees (i.e. he had a detached retina five years ago). Toooooo much softball. Jerry was a very good fast pitch softball player. In fact they won the national title once and maybe more. He has been inducted into the Fast Pitch Hall of Fame. Here is the rest of the story—I worked for Kandiyohi County Maintenance department during my college years. Every year the maintenance department and the office guys would play a slow pitch softball game and the losers had to pay for the keg. Jerry and I played a lot of ball during this time. So on this particular night, Jerry and I played a game somewhere and he rode with me to the county game which was at Kandiyohi Lake. When we got there the game was in progress so I got to play a little but then it started to rain. Most of the guys went home except for maybe 6 guys (i.e. one was the county engineer and another was the guy in charge of maintenance). We sat in a shelter and drank a couple of beers together (i.e. Jerry and I were under the age of 21). I said to those guys—you should hire my friend Jerry—come on in Jerry and apply. They hired him and he retired from Kandiyohi County about 5 years ago. Such is life.
It was encouraging that others didn’t know either. At the wedding, the praise team led us folks in several songs. One was Come thou fount of every blessing. At the reception I asked the guy sitting next to me (i.e. a guy I didn’t know)—I sang that song since I was a kid at Roseland Reformed Church in Roseland, MN and I still don’t know what my Embenezer is? What is it? He didn’t know nor did the guy across the table (i.e. and they both had ties on but no robes). They asked the other folks down the table. No one knew. After some time, the guy next to me came back. He talked to two pastors (i.e. they had ties and coats on but no robes) and got two different definitions. Huh, interesting.
Joesixpack says—We all know how to change this world, our life and the church for the better but the hard part is doing it. Most of the changes (i.e. around the house, in business, in our churches, and in our lives) don’t get done until they become a necessity (i.e. until we are forced to). Some folks they don’t realize that it’s a necessity. It’s really encouraging to see something happen on a proactive basis instead of a reactive basis. Many times the reactive reaction is tooooooo late. Such is life. John Wooden just past away. I have always been a follower of him. Here a few of his statements—Be more concerned with your character than your reputation, because your character is what you really are, while your reputation is merely what others think you are—You can’t let praise or criticism get to you. It’s a weakness to get caught up in either one—What you are as a person is far more important that what you are as a basketball player—If you’re not making mistakes, then you’re not dong anything. I’m positive that a doer makes mistakes—Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be—it’s what you learn after you know it all that counts. He was an encouraging man (i.e. my opinion). Encouragement is sooooooooo UPplifting now isn’t it. This two-letter word in English has more meanings than any other two-letter word, and that word is 'UP.' It is listed in the dictionary as an [adv], [prep], [adj], [n] or [v]. It's easy to understand UP, meaning toward the sky or at the top of the list, but when we awaken in the morning, why do we wake UP ? At a meeting, why does a topic come UP ? Why do we speak UP , and why are the officers UP for election and why is it UP to the secretary to write UP a report? We call UP our friends, brighten UP a room, polish UP the silver, warm UP the leftovers and clean UP the kitchen. We lock UP the house and fix UP the old car. At other times this little word has real special meaning. People stir UP trouble, line UP for tickets, work UP an appetite, and think UP excuses. To be dressed is one thing but to be dressed UP is special. And this UP is confusing: A drain must be opened UP because it is stopped UP. We open UP a store in the morning but we close it UP at night. We seem to be pretty mixed UP about UP ! To be knowledgeable about the proper uses of UP, look UP the word UP in the dictionary. In a desk-sized dictionary, it takes UP almost 1/4 of the page and can add UP to about thirty definitions. If you are UP to it, you might try building UP a list of the many ways UP is used. It will take UP a lot of your time, but if you don't give UP, you may wind UP with a hundred or more. When it threatens to rain, we say it is clouding UP . When the sun comes out we say it is clearing UP. When it rains, it soaks UP the earth. When it does not rain for awhile, things dry UP. One could go on and on, but I'll wrap it UP, for now ........my time is UP ! Oh....one more thing: What is the first thing you do in the morning & the last thing you do at night? U P! Don't Mess UP. Now I'll shut UP.
Have a FUN day my friends unless you have other plans. (-:
erv
KR’s thought of the day—When I get angry, I ask God for patience.
TheProfessor’sPithySaying—Whatever is good to know is difficult to learn.
June 5, 2010
The Stories
Joesixpack says—It’s the side of mountains which sustain life, not the top! We all have a story folks. SusieQ says—What does praise God mean? It means being grateful for all the wonderful things in the universe and for all the blessings in your life. So praise God by being grateful and humble. Such is life.
MyWiseFriendJean says—Forgive your enemies. It messes up their heads! A friend told me he helped a guy who he really dislikes. So why did you do it guy? It was the right thing to do! I think this guy is going the right direction. You can see why he is one of my buddies. I read this while eating my oatmeal with blackberries on it—Sometimes, amid the demands and the frustrations of everyday life, we forget to slow ourselves down long enough to talk with God. Instead of turning our thoughts and prayers to Him, we rely upon our own resources. Instead of praying for strength and courage, we seek to manufacture it within ourselves. Instead of asking God for guidance, we depend only upon our own limited wisdom. The results of such behaviors are unfortunate and, on occasion, tragic. Such is life.
I asked Ben (i.e. husband of a Northwestern College friend who we have had the pleasure to get to know some) if he would write his story for us. Here is Ben’s story written by him to be shared with you. ~ I grew up on a farm in Sioux County, first attending a country school where I was the only student in my class, total of 9 students in the school. I was baptized and raised in a God filled Christian home, Reformed Church in America. My parents always read the Bible and prayed at both the noontime and evening meal. We attended Sunday worship, Sunday school, catechism and mid week prayer services. At age 13, I confessed Jesus Christ as my personal Savoir, I was a Christian youth until about age 17 or 18. I was fortunate/blessed to have local Sioux county people who believed in me, encouraging me to further my education. A local dentist, whose daughter I dated, was the first to encourage me to enter a profession such as medicine, law or dentistry. After high school I was fortunate to attend Northwestern College and the University of Iowa, graduating from Medical School in 1970. Subsequently after Internship, I was active duty military, ER physician, Diagnostic Radiology Resident UCI finishing Residency in 1977. I had a fulfilling, wonderful career as a Diagnostic Radiologist, retiring at age 64 in Oct, 2009. At about age 17, I became Godless, still believing in God but not feeling I needed him in my life. I was in a Godless marriage for 28 years, raising 2 children who did not grow up in the Church or learn about Jesus. I began recreational use of drugs such as nicotine, alcohol, pot, in college and medical school. This also led to occasional use and abuse of other drugs such as cocaine and psilocybin[mushrooms] in the late 1970s. I stopped using all drugs but alcohol when my children were about 4 or 5. I became dependent and addicted to alcohol in the 1980’s. I was fortunate to be directed into AA in 1988. I have been blessed to remain sober since, AA sobriety date September 5, 1988. I had 2 Christian sponso4rs in AA who helped me to renew my faith in God, encouraging me to again establish daily prayers, Bible reading, and attend worship services. In 2003 I renewed acquaintance with a devoutly Christian high school friend from Sioux County. We had not seen or talked to each other for 38 years. We were married in June 2004. My faith in God has been renewed. I am a believer, follower and servant of Jesus Christ. WE feel blessed to be in a Christian marriage, praying together, reading the Bible, attending church worship, participating in small groups in church. We thank God daily for great health, wonderful family and friends. We both feel having grown up in Christian home has directed us and led us on the path to where we are today. Ben VZ benvz@mchsi.com
I got to know Rick Vesely a little through church meetings and having lunch with him (i.e. I try to pick his mind). He’s the guy I asked you to vote for the cruise if you remember. ANYWAY We had the opportunity to have COFFEE AND DONUTS WITH RICK at the golf course and he told us his story. He is suffering from ALS (Lou Gehrig's). He now has a hard time talking and is losing the use of his left hand. They have put a feeding tube in. He is learning to communicate with the use of a commuter as it looks like he will lose his voice. He told us to live our lives so we have no regrets. He has such a great attitude facing death but he said—I’m not sure how I will handle it. He said he isn’t scared to die but isn’t very excited about the process. He also said—I’m terminal and all of your are too. In fact there is a good chance one of you will die before me. So, make sure you have a relationship with Jesus so you are certain that you will spend eternity in Heaven. Rick is a very humble person besides being very creative, exciting, and enthusiastic. I said when I introduced him—When I think of Rick I think of the statement he has made to me several times—Do it right. He said in his talk—I hate it when folks say – That’s good enough. It’s not just good enough, do it right. He said the kids talk to him about his disease and ask to see his feeding tube but the adults who use to talk to him seem to avoid him. Are we something else folks! You may read the newspaper article that was done on him a short while back at the following link if you like http://www.wcfcourier.com/news/local/article_47acbb0c-52c5-11df-8e8f-001cc4c03286.html
Rick Vesely rickves@traer.net
I saw that Rick wrote this in a public thank you--Don't take any opportunity in the sharing of the Gospel for granted. Make Every Opportunity Count!
I substituted a half day recently and taught three sections of 6th grade Iowa History. I enjoyed the subject and told some stories (i.e. stories about me). They were so interested but when I told them that when I graduated from high school in 1963 and that fall my Daddy, Chester, died, well, they listened intensely. Actually I told them that my Mom, Anna, sold the farm for $350 an acre in 1964. I got a email from my big sister maybe 5 years ago that the owner sold the rock piles off the farm to a landscaper in the Twin Cities for more than he paid for the farm. They all said –rip off! The early settlers paid $1.50 per acre (i.e. that is why we were talking about the price of land—the settlers probably said it was way too much). Everyone has a story. Such is life.
A neat business owner sent this to me. This is the gal’s story in one minute. I think you’ll enjoy.
Http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WUQYJ77qa50
Have a FUN day my friends unless you have other plans. (-:
erv
KR’s thought of the day—When you cry, God cries with you. But he cant wipe your tears unless you let him.
TheProfessor’sPitySaying—A learned person never suffers from boredom.
MyWiseFriendJean says—Forgive your enemies. It messes up their heads! A friend told me he helped a guy who he really dislikes. So why did you do it guy? It was the right thing to do! I think this guy is going the right direction. You can see why he is one of my buddies. I read this while eating my oatmeal with blackberries on it—Sometimes, amid the demands and the frustrations of everyday life, we forget to slow ourselves down long enough to talk with God. Instead of turning our thoughts and prayers to Him, we rely upon our own resources. Instead of praying for strength and courage, we seek to manufacture it within ourselves. Instead of asking God for guidance, we depend only upon our own limited wisdom. The results of such behaviors are unfortunate and, on occasion, tragic. Such is life.
I asked Ben (i.e. husband of a Northwestern College friend who we have had the pleasure to get to know some) if he would write his story for us. Here is Ben’s story written by him to be shared with you. ~ I grew up on a farm in Sioux County, first attending a country school where I was the only student in my class, total of 9 students in the school. I was baptized and raised in a God filled Christian home, Reformed Church in America. My parents always read the Bible and prayed at both the noontime and evening meal. We attended Sunday worship, Sunday school, catechism and mid week prayer services. At age 13, I confessed Jesus Christ as my personal Savoir, I was a Christian youth until about age 17 or 18. I was fortunate/blessed to have local Sioux county people who believed in me, encouraging me to further my education. A local dentist, whose daughter I dated, was the first to encourage me to enter a profession such as medicine, law or dentistry. After high school I was fortunate to attend Northwestern College and the University of Iowa, graduating from Medical School in 1970. Subsequently after Internship, I was active duty military, ER physician, Diagnostic Radiology Resident UCI finishing Residency in 1977. I had a fulfilling, wonderful career as a Diagnostic Radiologist, retiring at age 64 in Oct, 2009. At about age 17, I became Godless, still believing in God but not feeling I needed him in my life. I was in a Godless marriage for 28 years, raising 2 children who did not grow up in the Church or learn about Jesus. I began recreational use of drugs such as nicotine, alcohol, pot, in college and medical school. This also led to occasional use and abuse of other drugs such as cocaine and psilocybin[mushrooms] in the late 1970s. I stopped using all drugs but alcohol when my children were about 4 or 5. I became dependent and addicted to alcohol in the 1980’s. I was fortunate to be directed into AA in 1988. I have been blessed to remain sober since, AA sobriety date September 5, 1988. I had 2 Christian sponso4rs in AA who helped me to renew my faith in God, encouraging me to again establish daily prayers, Bible reading, and attend worship services. In 2003 I renewed acquaintance with a devoutly Christian high school friend from Sioux County. We had not seen or talked to each other for 38 years. We were married in June 2004. My faith in God has been renewed. I am a believer, follower and servant of Jesus Christ. WE feel blessed to be in a Christian marriage, praying together, reading the Bible, attending church worship, participating in small groups in church. We thank God daily for great health, wonderful family and friends. We both feel having grown up in Christian home has directed us and led us on the path to where we are today. Ben VZ benvz@mchsi.com
I got to know Rick Vesely a little through church meetings and having lunch with him (i.e. I try to pick his mind). He’s the guy I asked you to vote for the cruise if you remember. ANYWAY We had the opportunity to have COFFEE AND DONUTS WITH RICK at the golf course and he told us his story. He is suffering from ALS (Lou Gehrig's). He now has a hard time talking and is losing the use of his left hand. They have put a feeding tube in. He is learning to communicate with the use of a commuter as it looks like he will lose his voice. He told us to live our lives so we have no regrets. He has such a great attitude facing death but he said—I’m not sure how I will handle it. He said he isn’t scared to die but isn’t very excited about the process. He also said—I’m terminal and all of your are too. In fact there is a good chance one of you will die before me. So, make sure you have a relationship with Jesus so you are certain that you will spend eternity in Heaven. Rick is a very humble person besides being very creative, exciting, and enthusiastic. I said when I introduced him—When I think of Rick I think of the statement he has made to me several times—Do it right. He said in his talk—I hate it when folks say – That’s good enough. It’s not just good enough, do it right. He said the kids talk to him about his disease and ask to see his feeding tube but the adults who use to talk to him seem to avoid him. Are we something else folks! You may read the newspaper article that was done on him a short while back at the following link if you like http://www.wcfcourier.com/news/local/article_47acbb0c-52c5-11df-8e8f-001cc4c03286.html
Rick Vesely rickves@traer.net
I saw that Rick wrote this in a public thank you--Don't take any opportunity in the sharing of the Gospel for granted. Make Every Opportunity Count!
I substituted a half day recently and taught three sections of 6th grade Iowa History. I enjoyed the subject and told some stories (i.e. stories about me). They were so interested but when I told them that when I graduated from high school in 1963 and that fall my Daddy, Chester, died, well, they listened intensely. Actually I told them that my Mom, Anna, sold the farm for $350 an acre in 1964. I got a email from my big sister maybe 5 years ago that the owner sold the rock piles off the farm to a landscaper in the Twin Cities for more than he paid for the farm. They all said –rip off! The early settlers paid $1.50 per acre (i.e. that is why we were talking about the price of land—the settlers probably said it was way too much). Everyone has a story. Such is life.
A neat business owner sent this to me. This is the gal’s story in one minute. I think you’ll enjoy.
Http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WUQYJ77qa50
Have a FUN day my friends unless you have other plans. (-:
erv
KR’s thought of the day—When you cry, God cries with you. But he cant wipe your tears unless you let him.
TheProfessor’sPitySaying—A learned person never suffers from boredom.
May 29, 2010
Invigorating
Disclaimer—This “It’s Saturday” could be a heaping load of crap or an opportunity missed by the smallest of margins! For sure it’s just “coolertalk” at the most!
Flowers are invigorating and so are some people. Daisies are one of Arlene’s favorite flowers. They are about as pretty as she is. Washington Irving once said—Great people think others have wishes. I had breakfast with a “highpotential” invigorating young man recently. He sent me an uplifting note along with his motto—Now unto him that is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think according to the power that works in us. Now that’s invigorating to me folks. How about you? He also invited me to have ice cream with him at the Frosty Udder! That sounds like an udderly ridiculous name! Such is life.
Education is invigorating for some and a pain in the…for others. That is what I observed in my 7 days of substituting teaching. Some students like education and some hate it. About 96% of the students’ education is decreased by the other 4% it appears to me. Those 4% really drag the other students, teachers and the general attitude. Maybe some other countries have the better idea as separating them (i.e. I don’t know). Education in America dictated by the state’s requirements is very expensive. I also think that nearly all educators want the best for the students (i.e. they really try) but it is wearisome to deal with all the behavioral, psychological, and genetic problems of many students. After about sooooooo long, they tend to get tired and lose their creativeness, energy, and excitement. They become generic and tired (i.e. that’s my opinion). My kidsister, a first grade teacher, says teachers spend tooooooo much time managing the class instead of teaching (i.e. there are a lot of moving parts folks and a lot of wasted time). The high school principal told me that he spends 80% of his time with 20% of the students. Ouchy Ouchy! But flip the pancake, the 96% are really pretty good kids (i.e. my opinion). They can be sooooooo invigorating sometimes but even the good kids can be challenging.
Yabut don’t give up on some of those kids. Some of those kids that struggle in school end up okay. In fact do real well. I know of many that have way exceeded their teachers’, guidance counselors’ and public’s expectation. They have done real well considering some of their pasts. I think that is invigorating to see. My hat goes off to those folks. I know of one guy who I know well who has done just extremely well. Why some do soooooo well and the next person doesn’t, I don’t have a clue. But, somehow, some way attitude comes into play (i.e. an inward feeling expressed by behavior). Why some folks have a good attitude and others don’t, I don’t have a clue folks but it’s invigorating to see. Such is life.
GeorgeTheCrook says—Are your problems really problems or are your problems really opportunities? Opportunities are really invigorating folks! Opportunities opportunities! "Close scrutiny will show that most 'crisis situations' are opportunities to either advance or stay where you are."--Maxwell Maltz. My Daddy Chester always told me—The easiest way to learn is to ask questions (i.e. learning is invigorating). SusieQ says—If you don’t like the answer you get, don’t ask the question! MissPerfect says—You look at where you’re going and where you are and it never makes sense, but then you look back at where you’re been and a pattern seems to emerge. Such is life.
Went on an invigorating bike ride on the Cedar Valley Trails this week (i.e. like it much better than on the roads—less wind and much prettier). I rode 22 miles and then on my way home stopped at Beaver Hills Country Club. I haven’t been there for a few years and haven’t played it in maybe 10. It was really invigorating (i.e. soooooo pretty and lush). The trees and the course have really matured (i.e. looked like a paradise). ANYWAY I asked them how much it would cost me to join--$2,500 initiation fee, $283 per month, $400 annual food charge, $103 handicap/range fee, and $700 for an annual cart rental. That’s about $4,800 annually plus the one time $2,500 imitation fee. I pay $285 plus a $35 cart fee at Aplington. I have my cart in our garage and just drive it down the street. But hey, I could join Beaver Hills County Club if we don’t give any money to the church or any of our other pet projects. Then I would have to play every Sunday morning to get my money’s worth, so no church. What do you think my choice will be folks? As for me and my household, we will…. IthcieBithcie says—Ya but erv, if you’re loaded it doesn’t make any difference. You are right IthcieBitchie. Joesixpack says—The easiest way to get loaded is to inherit it or marry it. Ya but Joesixpack remember, one generation makes it, the next generation maintains it and the third generation spends it. CadillacJack says--Country clubs aren’t for the “howmuch?THAT MUCH?” crowd! It’s for the folks who don’t need the receipt! Maybe so CadillacJack and maybe not. Maybe they are like some cowboys in Texas—They wear big cowboy hats but have no cattle! AverageJoe says—Maybe they spend money they don’t have on a country club they don’t need to impress folks they don’t like! Such is life.
Hey this was invigorating to me. I have had my electric lawn trimmer of years. It always frustrated me that when I tapped it the line didn’t come out like I wanted it to. This last week I discovered that if I would tap it when running it full speed it works a lot better. Da! I’m a happy camper. Such is life.
There are Robins who have built their nest on a limb of the Spruce tree maybe 20 feet from our sun porch. I have been watching the female sit on the nest. It’s invigorating to see her stamina and steadfastness. We have had some real windy days. She has been bounced around pretty hard but just hangs in there. So what makes her do that? What makes her an ol’ cluck hen? I asked SmartFarmerLyle at a graduation party about that. He said it does take a rooster to mate with a hen so she will produce fertile eggs but it doesn’t take a rooster to make an old hen an ol’ cluck hen. When I was maybe 10 to 12 years old, I bought duck and geese eggs and bought some ol’ cluck hens from our neighbors to hatch them (i.e. they just sat on those eggs until they hatched). I feed those ducks and geese (i.e. with the help of my little sister) all summer and peddled them to folks in Roseland in the fall. The ones I didn’t sale that way, I sold to Edgar at the Roseland Hatchery. I made some money. My kid sister said I paid her well for helping me (i.e. I don’t remember that part).
I think my friend might have said this—A person filed with gumption doesn’t sit around dissipating and stewing about things. The reason why I think my friend might have said this is that he has a lot of gumption and does it 100 mph every minute of every day. I had a most invigorating, unique opportunity this week. I was invited by an acquaintance to attend a Gung Ho meeting at Mudd Advertising Company. They have a Gung Ho meeting every other Friday at 8 a.m. They recognize folks for good work, tell about new births etc, and tell everyone what’s going on in the company. Then there was a speaker who spoke about the disease called the fear of failure. You will always be average if you have that disease. A very good point. I think all the employees were there on the bleachers (i.e. quite impressive to me). So what is a Gung Ho meeting you ask. Check it out on this link and watch the 30-minute video called Gung Ho. I think it’s good. MySmartFriendJean says—Life is simpler when you plow around the stump!
http://www.kenblanchardvideos.com/?gclid=CK74w8q48KECFRTXnAodvxcXIw
I had the opportunity to golf with one of my young buddies in the afternoon. We were on hole 5 I think. He was about ready to hit his second shot. He was in his pre-shot routine and doing his little waggle when he said—Did you hear that lady (i.e. there was a foursome of ladies on a green next to our fairway) say—Nice butt? But what she really said was nice putt to another lady in her foursome! Hey this is the same guy who just came from the eye doctor. His sight was real bad. The doc told him that he was using some old contacts from years ago. Just use your current ones and you’ll be okay. This is what I have to put up with! What a hoot. Such is life.
Have a FUN day my friends unless you have other plans. (-:
erv
KR’s thought of the day—Patience is a virtue. Virtue is a grace. Put them all together and they make a happy face.
TheProfessor’sPithySaying—What use to be vices are now common manners.
Education is invigorating for some and a pain in the…for others. That is what I observed in my 7 days of substituting teaching. Some students like education and some hate it. About 96% of the students’ education is decreased by the other 4% it appears to me. Those 4% really drag the other students, teachers and the general attitude. Maybe some other countries have the better idea as separating them (i.e. I don’t know). Education in America dictated by the state’s requirements is very expensive. I also think that nearly all educators want the best for the students (i.e. they really try) but it is wearisome to deal with all the behavioral, psychological, and genetic problems of many students. After about sooooooo long, they tend to get tired and lose their creativeness, energy, and excitement. They become generic and tired (i.e. that’s my opinion). My kidsister, a first grade teacher, says teachers spend tooooooo much time managing the class instead of teaching (i.e. there are a lot of moving parts folks and a lot of wasted time). The high school principal told me that he spends 80% of his time with 20% of the students. Ouchy Ouchy! But flip the pancake, the 96% are really pretty good kids (i.e. my opinion). They can be sooooooo invigorating sometimes but even the good kids can be challenging.
Yabut don’t give up on some of those kids. Some of those kids that struggle in school end up okay. In fact do real well. I know of many that have way exceeded their teachers’, guidance counselors’ and public’s expectation. They have done real well considering some of their pasts. I think that is invigorating to see. My hat goes off to those folks. I know of one guy who I know well who has done just extremely well. Why some do soooooo well and the next person doesn’t, I don’t have a clue. But, somehow, some way attitude comes into play (i.e. an inward feeling expressed by behavior). Why some folks have a good attitude and others don’t, I don’t have a clue folks but it’s invigorating to see. Such is life.
GeorgeTheCrook says—Are your problems really problems or are your problems really opportunities? Opportunities are really invigorating folks! Opportunities opportunities! "Close scrutiny will show that most 'crisis situations' are opportunities to either advance or stay where you are."--Maxwell Maltz. My Daddy Chester always told me—The easiest way to learn is to ask questions (i.e. learning is invigorating). SusieQ says—If you don’t like the answer you get, don’t ask the question! MissPerfect says—You look at where you’re going and where you are and it never makes sense, but then you look back at where you’re been and a pattern seems to emerge. Such is life.
Went on an invigorating bike ride on the Cedar Valley Trails this week (i.e. like it much better than on the roads—less wind and much prettier). I rode 22 miles and then on my way home stopped at Beaver Hills Country Club. I haven’t been there for a few years and haven’t played it in maybe 10. It was really invigorating (i.e. soooooo pretty and lush). The trees and the course have really matured (i.e. looked like a paradise). ANYWAY I asked them how much it would cost me to join--$2,500 initiation fee, $283 per month, $400 annual food charge, $103 handicap/range fee, and $700 for an annual cart rental. That’s about $4,800 annually plus the one time $2,500 imitation fee. I pay $285 plus a $35 cart fee at Aplington. I have my cart in our garage and just drive it down the street. But hey, I could join Beaver Hills County Club if we don’t give any money to the church or any of our other pet projects. Then I would have to play every Sunday morning to get my money’s worth, so no church. What do you think my choice will be folks? As for me and my household, we will…. IthcieBithcie says—Ya but erv, if you’re loaded it doesn’t make any difference. You are right IthcieBitchie. Joesixpack says—The easiest way to get loaded is to inherit it or marry it. Ya but Joesixpack remember, one generation makes it, the next generation maintains it and the third generation spends it. CadillacJack says--Country clubs aren’t for the “howmuch?THAT MUCH?” crowd! It’s for the folks who don’t need the receipt! Maybe so CadillacJack and maybe not. Maybe they are like some cowboys in Texas—They wear big cowboy hats but have no cattle! AverageJoe says—Maybe they spend money they don’t have on a country club they don’t need to impress folks they don’t like! Such is life.
Hey this was invigorating to me. I have had my electric lawn trimmer of years. It always frustrated me that when I tapped it the line didn’t come out like I wanted it to. This last week I discovered that if I would tap it when running it full speed it works a lot better. Da! I’m a happy camper. Such is life.
I think my friend might have said this—A person filed with gumption doesn’t sit around dissipating and stewing about things. The reason why I think my friend might have said this is that he has a lot of gumption and does it 100 mph every minute of every day. I had a most invigorating, unique opportunity this week. I was invited by an acquaintance to attend a Gung Ho meeting at Mudd Advertising Company. They have a Gung Ho meeting every other Friday at 8 a.m. They recognize folks for good work, tell about new births etc, and tell everyone what’s going on in the company. Then there was a speaker who spoke about the disease called the fear of failure. You will always be average if you have that disease. A very good point. I think all the employees were there on the bleachers (i.e. quite impressive to me). So what is a Gung Ho meeting you ask. Check it out on this link and watch the 30-minute video called Gung Ho. I think it’s good. MySmartFriendJean says—Life is simpler when you plow around the stump!
http://www.kenblanchardvideos.com/?gclid=CK74w8q48KECFRTXnAodvxcXIw
I had the opportunity to golf with one of my young buddies in the afternoon. We were on hole 5 I think. He was about ready to hit his second shot. He was in his pre-shot routine and doing his little waggle when he said—Did you hear that lady (i.e. there was a foursome of ladies on a green next to our fairway) say—Nice butt? But what she really said was nice putt to another lady in her foursome! Hey this is the same guy who just came from the eye doctor. His sight was real bad. The doc told him that he was using some old contacts from years ago. Just use your current ones and you’ll be okay. This is what I have to put up with! What a hoot. Such is life.
Have a FUN day my friends unless you have other plans. (-:
erv
KR’s thought of the day—Patience is a virtue. Virtue is a grace. Put them all together and they make a happy face.
TheProfessor’sPithySaying—What use to be vices are now common manners.
May 22, 2010
Rhubarb
Dalai Lama spoke in Cedar Falls this week—He said…I have nothing to offer, so don’t expect much. So that is my disclaimer too—I have nutten to offer, so don’t expect much. Such is life.
Life can be a rhubarb folks! Erick Hoffer writes: Our frustration is greater when we have much and want more than when we have nothing and want some. We are less dissatisfied when we lack many things then when we seem to lack but one thing. ~ To have a mass movement the organizers must preach hope. ~ A man is likely to mind his own business when it is worth minding. When it is not, he takes his mind off his own meaningless affairs by minding other people's business. This minding of other people's business expresses itself in gossip, snooping and meddling, and also in feverish interest in communal, national and racial affairs. In running away from ourselves we either fall on our neighbor's shoulder or fly at his throat.
If a guy leaves rhubarb in his mouth too long it starts to make his eyes water and my face to pucker (i.e. at least that is how it affects me). That taste sorta kinda sticks in a guy’s mouth. Stuckness—to switch to unstuckness, a guy needs to be creative, original, inventive, intuitive, and imaginative. That is why gals put a ton of sugar with rhubarb and make rhubarb crisp or rhubarb pie. It takes a lot of sugar. Saturday question—When we were kids on the farm a mile and a quarter south of Roseland, MN, we would take a raw stalk of rhubarb out of the patch, strip back the outside and either use salt or sugar on it. So do you like sugar or salt on your fresh rhubarb?
I had a most enjoyable time with a young man last weekend. He is very uplifting to me (i.e. a positive guy). We talked about some real good stuff. ANYWAY we ended our time together talking about a rhubarb of sorts. He told me about a person he knows who has cancer and still puts a positive spin on his life. This guy is a flyer; he flies ultra lights He said—After you have flown 500 hours it becomes more dangerous. The reason is a person becomes too comfortable and cocky (i.e. not a good situation). So folks, do you think our lives at times become too comfortable and we get cocky a.k.a rhubarb in our life? What do you think? Such is life.
This positive young man gave me this to ponder—Heard a story about two farmers. When the rain fell, one farmer said, “Thank You, Lord, for watering our crops.” But the other farmer said, “Yeah, but if the rain keeps up, it’s going to rot the roots.” When the sun came out, the positive farmer said, “Thank You, Lord, that our crops are getting the vitamins and minerals they need. We’ll have a wonderful harvest this year.” But the negative farmer said, “Yeah, but if it keeps up, it’s going to scorch those plants. We’re never going to make a living.” Don’t you know people who are always focused on the negative? Be sure to guard against their negative attitudes infecting your thinking! Stay focused on the positive things in life. The battle between being positive or negative can be sorta kinda a massive huge rhubarb in our lives at times. Joesixpack says—It’s our decision and decisions have consequences! Such is life.
Arlene and I were staining the house Saturday when LoadMiller stopped by and we visited. LoadMiller is thinking about partially retiring from his executive job with a rather large cooperation. He has just took a rather important/influential position with a mainline church denomination that they are members. He will affect the future of folks’ lives and maybe the future of the denomination (i.e. major player). ANYWAY I told LoadMiller that he will do a great job. He said—Others have told me the same. So why do they think you will do a good job—‘cause I can see bs real quick. MY OPINION is that mainline denominations have as their upper management folks (i.e. generally pastors) who don’t what to hurt anyone’s feelings, want to save their positions along with their pensions and really aren’t interested in meeting the needs of the people (i.e. sounds like the government folks). Tough decisions are to be made by these folks (i.e. if folks aren’t working out and things are going north, it’s time for a change). MORE OF MY OPINION I think the Pope should let the priests get married. They have natural human desires so let them satisfy them instead of molesting children (i.e. and it’s a lot cheaper too). LoadMiller is the man! No question. He might create a rhubarb though! Such is life.
Probably what causes the biggest rhubarbs in life is about money (i.e. it’s always about money folks). Some of the worst rhubarbs about money are between siblings after mom and dad die (i.e. who gets the money). My opinion, many times the parents cause those rhubarbs in advance by favoring one child during their life time or favoring them with the larger inheritance. Sometimes it ruins families. And the rhubarb is over money. SusieQ says-- It’s just money—ya but if you don’t get your share of money it’s way different folks (i.e. a massive huge rhubarb)! I bet some of you can testify about all of that stuff. Hey, the only thing that the fair is the Butler County Fair and its in early June! ItchieBitchie says—It’s way different when you get the farms and the gals get the dishes and trinkets!
I was walking to library the other day and Noreen stepped out of her house with a large bowl and a pairing knife as I was passing. We talked. Her husband just passed away. Are you doing okay—some days and moments are better than others—I’m sure it’s very hard to have someone who you love soooooo much pass away—It’s very hard—But God gives us hope, a hope that surpasses our understanding—Yes he does. Noreen, are you going to cut some rhubarb—yes I am! Was this happenstance? Na, I don’t think so folks.
GeorgeTheCrook says—I have plans for my life. I’m looking forward to certain moments. LuckieEddie says--Life is finite and we don’t know what time is left, so what should we be doing with it? Here lies the rhubarb—How am I going to spend the rest of my days on this earth. That’s an eternal rhubarb for me. I haven’t done everything that I want to do yet. So is that “everythingIwanttodo” is it for my good feeling or is for the good feeling of someone else? What should my balance be? What is the percentage of each? What’s my purpose here on this earth? And erv, don’t take your days for granted but maximize each one. But how do I want to maximize them. How should I maximize them? ItchieBitchie says—The happiest folks are not the ones who rebel against god (i.e. have rhubarb in their mouth); the happiest folks are those who love God and obey his commandments. We have a family from our church that are missionaries in Guatemala. Recently a group of folks went there on a mission trip and did their presentation at church Sunday. The life expectance in Guatemala is 39 (i.e. ya gotta live fast there). Here’s rhubarb—There, if you get sick you probably are going to die. In the U.S. you can be 90 and we will spend $300,000 so a guy can live another year. Huh, interesting.
MissPerfect says—Extremes can cause rhubarbs. I read in the paper so it must be right, that a guy in Illinois shot a guy walking by ‘cause his little dog peed on his lawn. That’s a bit extreme I think. A custodian in our school district told me that two custodians each put in 20 (i.e. total 40 hours) to paint the high school football field for each home game. The paint is donated by businesses at a cost of $400 a crack. That sounds a bit extreme to me but what do I know (i.e. I’m not being critical here as there is obviously others who disagree with me). I talked to a friend whose son is playing on an AAU basketball team. They were at a tournament this weekend where there were, I think, 196 teams from all over the country. He said one team had a customized paint job on their bus. I think he said they were for TX. He talked to a father of one of the players and he said it would cost them $15,000 for his son to play AAU basketball. That sounds a bit extreme. Does that cause a rhubarb with any of you? We live in America where you have freedom to do whatever you want with your money. Such is life.
The funnest thing I read this week is what a friend wrote on facebook--Finished washing dishes tonight. Felt around in the water to make sure I got everything. Pulled out a dirty sock! Anyone want to come to our house for dinner?!
I had breakfast with several friends this week. One friend told me that some folks at the grain elevator and at the coffee shop don’t like me ‘cause I share my faith. Why do you think that is? He also told me that there was a time he didn’t like me either but now he does. Guess what, this guy, it appears is making a huge massive turn in his life. I wonder if that has anything to do with it. Life can be a rhubarb now can’t it. I read this while eating my oatmeal with blackberries on it—Without God, no real vistory is ever won. All the military victories of great conquerors have passed into history. The real victories are won in the spiritual realm—he that conquers himslf is greater than he who conquers a city…Face all your difficulties in the spirit of conquest. Remember that where God is, there is the true victory. Do you believe that or are you the coffee shop crowd or the grain evelvator crowd? “It's a shallow life that doesn't give a person a few scars." --Garrison Keillor
Another friend I had breakfast with was our little neighbor girl who is now maybe in her late 20s. I use to pull her teeth out it seems just a couple of years ago. Her current motto is—Give without the thought of giving. Big people don’t keep tract of their giving. Little folks sorta kinda like to keep score (i.e. some folks and religions do that so they think they can get a bigger reward). Big people forget what they did or who they helped yesterday but just look forward to helping some one else today. This thinking can cause sorta kinda a rhubarb in some folks’ head. All of this is my opinion. She is a sweetheart with a massive huge heart (i.e. a real person)—my kind of person. She travels the world (i.e. mainly Asia) by herself. She’s incredibly adventurous and such a nice person. We had the most enjoyable time talking about really good stuff (i.e. not gossip and such).
I golfed with the chief of police in league the other night. He told me that their department spends about 80% of their time with drug (i.e. mainly meth) and alcohol problems and residual problems from drugs and alcohol. Drugs and alcohol create a lot or rhubarbs he said. Domestic violence is very dangerous for the police as it can irrupt into bad stuff. And usually the officer becomes to relaxed after soooooooo many times. Ouchy ouchy!
The perennials in the garden fight for territory. The ones who win are the ones who are the toughest (i.e. that is if we don’t manage them). Some are way more aggressive that others. Probably the less aggressive ones don’t much care for the more aggressive ones. It can cause rhubarb I bet. Just like life maybe. Hey, this plant in the picture is not rhubarb. Right now, it is really a pretty perennial in our garden. Does anyone know what the name of this flower is?
Have a FUN day my friends unless you have other plans. (-:
erv
KR’s thought of the day—A mistake means at least that somebody tried to do something.
TheProfessor’sPithySaying—Doce ud discas—teach that you may learn.
Life can be a rhubarb folks! Erick Hoffer writes: Our frustration is greater when we have much and want more than when we have nothing and want some. We are less dissatisfied when we lack many things then when we seem to lack but one thing. ~ To have a mass movement the organizers must preach hope. ~ A man is likely to mind his own business when it is worth minding. When it is not, he takes his mind off his own meaningless affairs by minding other people's business. This minding of other people's business expresses itself in gossip, snooping and meddling, and also in feverish interest in communal, national and racial affairs. In running away from ourselves we either fall on our neighbor's shoulder or fly at his throat.
There is wild, crazy rhubarb and there is cultivated, civilized rhubarb. All rhubarbs are not bad and all rhubarbs aren’t good. There are differences in rhubarb! Oh yes!
This does sound like there might be rhubarb going on. What do you think? I asked a guy to explain something to me that I questioned if it was right. He said—I could be wrong; my wife finds something wrong with me everyday. I asked—something new everyday? He said—No, not necessarily! Ouchy ouchy!
If a guy leaves rhubarb in his mouth too long it starts to make his eyes water and my face to pucker (i.e. at least that is how it affects me). That taste sorta kinda sticks in a guy’s mouth. Stuckness—to switch to unstuckness, a guy needs to be creative, original, inventive, intuitive, and imaginative. That is why gals put a ton of sugar with rhubarb and make rhubarb crisp or rhubarb pie. It takes a lot of sugar. Saturday question—When we were kids on the farm a mile and a quarter south of Roseland, MN, we would take a raw stalk of rhubarb out of the patch, strip back the outside and either use salt or sugar on it. So do you like sugar or salt on your fresh rhubarb?
I had a most enjoyable time with a young man last weekend. He is very uplifting to me (i.e. a positive guy). We talked about some real good stuff. ANYWAY we ended our time together talking about a rhubarb of sorts. He told me about a person he knows who has cancer and still puts a positive spin on his life. This guy is a flyer; he flies ultra lights He said—After you have flown 500 hours it becomes more dangerous. The reason is a person becomes too comfortable and cocky (i.e. not a good situation). So folks, do you think our lives at times become too comfortable and we get cocky a.k.a rhubarb in our life? What do you think? Such is life.
This positive young man gave me this to ponder—Heard a story about two farmers. When the rain fell, one farmer said, “Thank You, Lord, for watering our crops.” But the other farmer said, “Yeah, but if the rain keeps up, it’s going to rot the roots.” When the sun came out, the positive farmer said, “Thank You, Lord, that our crops are getting the vitamins and minerals they need. We’ll have a wonderful harvest this year.” But the negative farmer said, “Yeah, but if it keeps up, it’s going to scorch those plants. We’re never going to make a living.” Don’t you know people who are always focused on the negative? Be sure to guard against their negative attitudes infecting your thinking! Stay focused on the positive things in life. The battle between being positive or negative can be sorta kinda a massive huge rhubarb in our lives at times. Joesixpack says—It’s our decision and decisions have consequences! Such is life.
Arlene and I were staining the house Saturday when LoadMiller stopped by and we visited. LoadMiller is thinking about partially retiring from his executive job with a rather large cooperation. He has just took a rather important/influential position with a mainline church denomination that they are members. He will affect the future of folks’ lives and maybe the future of the denomination (i.e. major player). ANYWAY I told LoadMiller that he will do a great job. He said—Others have told me the same. So why do they think you will do a good job—‘cause I can see bs real quick. MY OPINION is that mainline denominations have as their upper management folks (i.e. generally pastors) who don’t what to hurt anyone’s feelings, want to save their positions along with their pensions and really aren’t interested in meeting the needs of the people (i.e. sounds like the government folks). Tough decisions are to be made by these folks (i.e. if folks aren’t working out and things are going north, it’s time for a change). MORE OF MY OPINION I think the Pope should let the priests get married. They have natural human desires so let them satisfy them instead of molesting children (i.e. and it’s a lot cheaper too). LoadMiller is the man! No question. He might create a rhubarb though! Such is life.
Probably what causes the biggest rhubarbs in life is about money (i.e. it’s always about money folks). Some of the worst rhubarbs about money are between siblings after mom and dad die (i.e. who gets the money). My opinion, many times the parents cause those rhubarbs in advance by favoring one child during their life time or favoring them with the larger inheritance. Sometimes it ruins families. And the rhubarb is over money. SusieQ says-- It’s just money—ya but if you don’t get your share of money it’s way different folks (i.e. a massive huge rhubarb)! I bet some of you can testify about all of that stuff. Hey, the only thing that the fair is the Butler County Fair and its in early June! ItchieBitchie says—It’s way different when you get the farms and the gals get the dishes and trinkets!
I was walking to library the other day and Noreen stepped out of her house with a large bowl and a pairing knife as I was passing. We talked. Her husband just passed away. Are you doing okay—some days and moments are better than others—I’m sure it’s very hard to have someone who you love soooooo much pass away—It’s very hard—But God gives us hope, a hope that surpasses our understanding—Yes he does. Noreen, are you going to cut some rhubarb—yes I am! Was this happenstance? Na, I don’t think so folks.
GeorgeTheCrook says—I have plans for my life. I’m looking forward to certain moments. LuckieEddie says--Life is finite and we don’t know what time is left, so what should we be doing with it? Here lies the rhubarb—How am I going to spend the rest of my days on this earth. That’s an eternal rhubarb for me. I haven’t done everything that I want to do yet. So is that “everythingIwanttodo” is it for my good feeling or is for the good feeling of someone else? What should my balance be? What is the percentage of each? What’s my purpose here on this earth? And erv, don’t take your days for granted but maximize each one. But how do I want to maximize them. How should I maximize them? ItchieBitchie says—The happiest folks are not the ones who rebel against god (i.e. have rhubarb in their mouth); the happiest folks are those who love God and obey his commandments. We have a family from our church that are missionaries in Guatemala. Recently a group of folks went there on a mission trip and did their presentation at church Sunday. The life expectance in Guatemala is 39 (i.e. ya gotta live fast there). Here’s rhubarb—There, if you get sick you probably are going to die. In the U.S. you can be 90 and we will spend $300,000 so a guy can live another year. Huh, interesting.
MissPerfect says—Extremes can cause rhubarbs. I read in the paper so it must be right, that a guy in Illinois shot a guy walking by ‘cause his little dog peed on his lawn. That’s a bit extreme I think. A custodian in our school district told me that two custodians each put in 20 (i.e. total 40 hours) to paint the high school football field for each home game. The paint is donated by businesses at a cost of $400 a crack. That sounds a bit extreme to me but what do I know (i.e. I’m not being critical here as there is obviously others who disagree with me). I talked to a friend whose son is playing on an AAU basketball team. They were at a tournament this weekend where there were, I think, 196 teams from all over the country. He said one team had a customized paint job on their bus. I think he said they were for TX. He talked to a father of one of the players and he said it would cost them $15,000 for his son to play AAU basketball. That sounds a bit extreme. Does that cause a rhubarb with any of you? We live in America where you have freedom to do whatever you want with your money. Such is life.
The funnest thing I read this week is what a friend wrote on facebook--Finished washing dishes tonight. Felt around in the water to make sure I got everything. Pulled out a dirty sock! Anyone want to come to our house for dinner?!
I had breakfast with several friends this week. One friend told me that some folks at the grain elevator and at the coffee shop don’t like me ‘cause I share my faith. Why do you think that is? He also told me that there was a time he didn’t like me either but now he does. Guess what, this guy, it appears is making a huge massive turn in his life. I wonder if that has anything to do with it. Life can be a rhubarb now can’t it. I read this while eating my oatmeal with blackberries on it—Without God, no real vistory is ever won. All the military victories of great conquerors have passed into history. The real victories are won in the spiritual realm—he that conquers himslf is greater than he who conquers a city…Face all your difficulties in the spirit of conquest. Remember that where God is, there is the true victory. Do you believe that or are you the coffee shop crowd or the grain evelvator crowd? “It's a shallow life that doesn't give a person a few scars." --Garrison Keillor
Another friend I had breakfast with was our little neighbor girl who is now maybe in her late 20s. I use to pull her teeth out it seems just a couple of years ago. Her current motto is—Give without the thought of giving. Big people don’t keep tract of their giving. Little folks sorta kinda like to keep score (i.e. some folks and religions do that so they think they can get a bigger reward). Big people forget what they did or who they helped yesterday but just look forward to helping some one else today. This thinking can cause sorta kinda a rhubarb in some folks’ head. All of this is my opinion. She is a sweetheart with a massive huge heart (i.e. a real person)—my kind of person. She travels the world (i.e. mainly Asia) by herself. She’s incredibly adventurous and such a nice person. We had the most enjoyable time talking about really good stuff (i.e. not gossip and such).
I golfed with the chief of police in league the other night. He told me that their department spends about 80% of their time with drug (i.e. mainly meth) and alcohol problems and residual problems from drugs and alcohol. Drugs and alcohol create a lot or rhubarbs he said. Domestic violence is very dangerous for the police as it can irrupt into bad stuff. And usually the officer becomes to relaxed after soooooooo many times. Ouchy ouchy!
Have a FUN day my friends unless you have other plans. (-:
erv
KR’s thought of the day—A mistake means at least that somebody tried to do something.
TheProfessor’sPithySaying—Doce ud discas—teach that you may learn.
May 15, 2010
Revert
Reality is merely an illusion, albeit a very persistent one. ~Albert Einstein~ We talk and we talk and we talk but the reality is we just revert back to our old ways. http://www.wimp.com/budgetcuts/
It all reverts back to money, huh interesting. I read this in the paper so it must be right—Americans 45 and older are far more open to sex outside of marriage than they were 10 years ago (i.e. Da!), but they’re engaging in sex less often and with less satisfaction, according to a major new survey by AARP. What’s the problem? AARP sex and relationship expert, sociologist Pepper Schwartz, thinks financial stress is a prime culprit. Joesixpack says—Remember boys, a happy wife is a happy life. LuckieEddie says—Yabut, I just don’t get it. I’m told there is more to life than work but if I don’t work a lot I don’t make money and if I don’t make money my wife isn’t happy and if my wife isn’t happy then there is stress and when there is financial stress then…! So what is a guy suppose to do anyway! CadillacJack response is—Have your wife make a lot of money! Such is life.
GeorgeTheCrook says—When you have stress in your life, you seem to have more injuries, accidents and in general, more bad things happen to you. Maybe so GeorgeTheCrook. GeorgeTheCrook responds—No maybe about it! We seem to revert back to bad stuff and then bad stuff happens. AverageJoe says—Through the course of time, form is temporary but class is permanent. WildWilly says—To stress less, lower your expectations. So something happens, get over the disappointment, make the best of it, and make it an opportunity, not a problem. And one more thing—Be realistic. Don’t expect folks to change. Instead, change your reaction to the situation. JoseyTheBoxer says—Are you the problem or the solution to the problem? MissPerfect says--To attain material things, the world learns to attain speed. To attain spiritual things, I have to learn to attain a state of calm.
Maybe times when we get stressed we revert back to the way our mother did it (i.e. that can be good and that can be bad—all depends how your mother did it). I talked to a grandmother who is about 53 in church Sunday. She was back in Aplington I think to see her mother for mother’s day. I have known her for years and we were talking about parenting I think and she said—I tell my kids they are crazy how you spend their money—then I shut-up. Hey grandma, maybe they just had a hiccup (i.e. I think she might have had a hiccup or two in her life). Be patient, maybe they will revert back to your example.
Usually we revert back to how we were even when we want to change (i.e. maybe not fully but partially and maybe not all the time but part of the time). But then there are exceptions. A wise man told us about his father whom he remembered as a stern, non-compromising, stiff-necked, hard, demanding father. Then he had a heart attack at the age of 58 and did a 180 turnabout (i.e. 100% change). Recently a friend told me that he knows some folks very well who have a public persona and a home persona (i.e. they have just fooled folks for years—phony phony). They revert back to their old persona as soon as they get home. I try to treat everyone the same in every occasion and act the same at all times. ASmartWiseFriend says—That’s impossible, you have to treat folks different and you do if you realize it or not. Something that has really helped me though, is confidence with who I am—I just plain don’t get intimidated by anyone (i.e. I’m happy with whom I am—can do better at times but …such is life).
I just learned something really neat from a friend. I think he learned it from someone else and I bet that person learned it from another person. ANYWAY our mind is interesting (i.e. very interesting). SusieQ says—What we put in comes out—what you think is what you’ll be. Okay here is an exercise for you to do to change your stinkin’thinkin’—Write out 10 most appreciative things you have in your life (i.e. put a little time in this—they might change as your life changes). Twice every day copy them using your other hand opposite your primary writing hand (e.g. if you are right handed, use you left hand). I thought the reason to do that is it would take longer and make you concentrate more. No no, it’s to make your opposite side of your brain work (i.e. left side of your brain operates the right hand etc.). ItchieBitchie says—Us left handers have the right brain and you right handers…). Try this for two weeks and it will change your stinkin’thinkin’. And here is the best part of this deal—it doesn’t cost ya anything for this possible life-changing event. Soooooooo maybe it’s not all about money after all or maybe I’m missing something here folks! Such is life.
I read what a professor said--The world's 225 richest people now have a combined wealth of $1 trillion. That's equal to the combined annual income of the world's 2.5 billion poorest people (i.e. that statement has no agenda, it’s just interesting. Do you seem to revert back to trying to impress folks all the time (i.e. it’s graduation time again!!!!!)? It appears to me that one of the massive huge motivation factors in our world that causes much stress is trying to impress others continuously (i.e. I think women are the worse—my opinion). It drives me crazy. Dissatisfaction is a capitalistic driving force in our current culture (i.e. probably always has been). It appears we try not to be that way but we revert back continuously. Such is life.
I subbed for a 7th grade computer class this week. The kids are amazing with what they can do and how they like it. They say it's their favorite class. I also subbed for two engineering classes where these high school students use computers to draft stuff. Again just amazing what they can do (i.e. for college credits if they can pass the test). They really like this class. No problem with interest or attention in either class. So you think they are going to revert back to not using the computers? DA! So are these young folks going to revert back to a boring church service? DA! Sooooooooooooooooo what does that say to me related to church services, youth groups, and adult small groups--GET IN THEIR WORLD--my opinion. But what's the world of most traditional folks (i.e. and that has nothing to do with chronicle age folks)?????
So do you think we will revert back to what’s really important at some point? Max Lucado says this--When you are in the final days of your life, what will you want? Will you hug that college degree in the walnut frame? Will you ask to be carried to the garage so you can sit in your car? Will you find comfort in rereading your financial statement? Of course not. What will matter then will be people. If relationships will matter most then, shouldn't they matter most now? ~ This week I read the following—What I don’t want said at my funeral: She had the best intentions of anyone I know. She was always thinking of others; too bad she didn’t have time to actually do anything. Remember when she watched 25 hours of TV that one week? Wasn’t that special? I’ll always remember how she was too tired to do anything with us. She had such a pretty face. Too bad she didn’t take care of herself. She had a great sense of humor when she wasn’t exhausted. She must have been very appreciative of little things people did for her; we found boxes and boxes of unused Thank You notes in her desk. She loved the Lord a lot; maybe she’ll finally get to spend some time with Him.
HighIQWalley asks--When folks have severe problems, they sometimes revert back to the fetal position. Why is that do you think? Or why do folks when they get stressed revert back to “hitting their head against the wall like in their past’’ (i.e. like drinking, drugs, or any bad habit)? What do you think?
Instead of reverting back to our old habits, maybe we need to try something new (e.g. instead of watching 25 hours of TV, try to enhance our lives by watching TEDs). A friend sent me this site to watch a clip (i.e. about 15 minutes). I sent to some friends and one of them sent this back to me--If you liked that TED talk that you forwarded...you should check out the website. I've probably watched a dozen or so different TED talks and they are almost always very thought provoking. You can search the talks in a number of ways. Give it a look. http://www.ted.com/ SuckUpNellie says—People spend their entire lives at those lower attitudes without any awareness that this high country exists. She went on to say—Mental reflection is so much more interesting than TV. It’s a shame more people don’t switch over to it. They probably think what they hear is unimportant but it never is.
When I get confused (i.e. which I do quite often), I revert back to the Book for guidance. This is what it says--Be the right club baby, be the right club today. That’s the NEM version*
Have a FUN day my friends unless you have other plans. (-:
erv
KR’s thought of the day—One of the finest accomplishments is making a long story short!
TheProfessor’sPithySaying—There is no learning without diligent effort—Aristotle.
*The NEM version (i.e.The New Erv Mellema version) which means in golf language—It ‘s when a golfer hits a good shot right at the flag (i.e. target) and he wants it to be the right distance (i.e. be the right club) so it stays right by the target. It’s like my life—I want to be the right club, be the right club today (i.e. answer the bell). I think that is what it says (i.e. my opinion).
It all reverts back to money, huh interesting. I read this in the paper so it must be right—Americans 45 and older are far more open to sex outside of marriage than they were 10 years ago (i.e. Da!), but they’re engaging in sex less often and with less satisfaction, according to a major new survey by AARP. What’s the problem? AARP sex and relationship expert, sociologist Pepper Schwartz, thinks financial stress is a prime culprit. Joesixpack says—Remember boys, a happy wife is a happy life. LuckieEddie says—Yabut, I just don’t get it. I’m told there is more to life than work but if I don’t work a lot I don’t make money and if I don’t make money my wife isn’t happy and if my wife isn’t happy then there is stress and when there is financial stress then…! So what is a guy suppose to do anyway! CadillacJack response is—Have your wife make a lot of money! Such is life.
GeorgeTheCrook says—When you have stress in your life, you seem to have more injuries, accidents and in general, more bad things happen to you. Maybe so GeorgeTheCrook. GeorgeTheCrook responds—No maybe about it! We seem to revert back to bad stuff and then bad stuff happens. AverageJoe says—Through the course of time, form is temporary but class is permanent. WildWilly says—To stress less, lower your expectations. So something happens, get over the disappointment, make the best of it, and make it an opportunity, not a problem. And one more thing—Be realistic. Don’t expect folks to change. Instead, change your reaction to the situation. JoseyTheBoxer says—Are you the problem or the solution to the problem? MissPerfect says--To attain material things, the world learns to attain speed. To attain spiritual things, I have to learn to attain a state of calm.
Maybe times when we get stressed we revert back to the way our mother did it (i.e. that can be good and that can be bad—all depends how your mother did it). I talked to a grandmother who is about 53 in church Sunday. She was back in Aplington I think to see her mother for mother’s day. I have known her for years and we were talking about parenting I think and she said—I tell my kids they are crazy how you spend their money—then I shut-up. Hey grandma, maybe they just had a hiccup (i.e. I think she might have had a hiccup or two in her life). Be patient, maybe they will revert back to your example.
Usually we revert back to how we were even when we want to change (i.e. maybe not fully but partially and maybe not all the time but part of the time). But then there are exceptions. A wise man told us about his father whom he remembered as a stern, non-compromising, stiff-necked, hard, demanding father. Then he had a heart attack at the age of 58 and did a 180 turnabout (i.e. 100% change). Recently a friend told me that he knows some folks very well who have a public persona and a home persona (i.e. they have just fooled folks for years—phony phony). They revert back to their old persona as soon as they get home. I try to treat everyone the same in every occasion and act the same at all times. ASmartWiseFriend says—That’s impossible, you have to treat folks different and you do if you realize it or not. Something that has really helped me though, is confidence with who I am—I just plain don’t get intimidated by anyone (i.e. I’m happy with whom I am—can do better at times but …such is life).
I just learned something really neat from a friend. I think he learned it from someone else and I bet that person learned it from another person. ANYWAY our mind is interesting (i.e. very interesting). SusieQ says—What we put in comes out—what you think is what you’ll be. Okay here is an exercise for you to do to change your stinkin’thinkin’—Write out 10 most appreciative things you have in your life (i.e. put a little time in this—they might change as your life changes). Twice every day copy them using your other hand opposite your primary writing hand (e.g. if you are right handed, use you left hand). I thought the reason to do that is it would take longer and make you concentrate more. No no, it’s to make your opposite side of your brain work (i.e. left side of your brain operates the right hand etc.). ItchieBitchie says—Us left handers have the right brain and you right handers…). Try this for two weeks and it will change your stinkin’thinkin’. And here is the best part of this deal—it doesn’t cost ya anything for this possible life-changing event. Soooooooo maybe it’s not all about money after all or maybe I’m missing something here folks! Such is life.
I read what a professor said--The world's 225 richest people now have a combined wealth of $1 trillion. That's equal to the combined annual income of the world's 2.5 billion poorest people (i.e. that statement has no agenda, it’s just interesting. Do you seem to revert back to trying to impress folks all the time (i.e. it’s graduation time again!!!!!)? It appears to me that one of the massive huge motivation factors in our world that causes much stress is trying to impress others continuously (i.e. I think women are the worse—my opinion). It drives me crazy. Dissatisfaction is a capitalistic driving force in our current culture (i.e. probably always has been). It appears we try not to be that way but we revert back continuously. Such is life.
I subbed for a 7th grade computer class this week. The kids are amazing with what they can do and how they like it. They say it's their favorite class. I also subbed for two engineering classes where these high school students use computers to draft stuff. Again just amazing what they can do (i.e. for college credits if they can pass the test). They really like this class. No problem with interest or attention in either class. So you think they are going to revert back to not using the computers? DA! So are these young folks going to revert back to a boring church service? DA! Sooooooooooooooooo what does that say to me related to church services, youth groups, and adult small groups--GET IN THEIR WORLD--my opinion. But what's the world of most traditional folks (i.e. and that has nothing to do with chronicle age folks)?????
So do you think we will revert back to what’s really important at some point? Max Lucado says this--When you are in the final days of your life, what will you want? Will you hug that college degree in the walnut frame? Will you ask to be carried to the garage so you can sit in your car? Will you find comfort in rereading your financial statement? Of course not. What will matter then will be people. If relationships will matter most then, shouldn't they matter most now? ~ This week I read the following—What I don’t want said at my funeral: She had the best intentions of anyone I know. She was always thinking of others; too bad she didn’t have time to actually do anything. Remember when she watched 25 hours of TV that one week? Wasn’t that special? I’ll always remember how she was too tired to do anything with us. She had such a pretty face. Too bad she didn’t take care of herself. She had a great sense of humor when she wasn’t exhausted. She must have been very appreciative of little things people did for her; we found boxes and boxes of unused Thank You notes in her desk. She loved the Lord a lot; maybe she’ll finally get to spend some time with Him.
HighIQWalley asks--When folks have severe problems, they sometimes revert back to the fetal position. Why is that do you think? Or why do folks when they get stressed revert back to “hitting their head against the wall like in their past’’ (i.e. like drinking, drugs, or any bad habit)? What do you think?
Instead of reverting back to our old habits, maybe we need to try something new (e.g. instead of watching 25 hours of TV, try to enhance our lives by watching TEDs). A friend sent me this site to watch a clip (i.e. about 15 minutes). I sent to some friends and one of them sent this back to me--If you liked that TED talk that you forwarded...you should check out the website. I've probably watched a dozen or so different TED talks and they are almost always very thought provoking. You can search the talks in a number of ways. Give it a look. http://www.ted.com/ SuckUpNellie says—People spend their entire lives at those lower attitudes without any awareness that this high country exists. She went on to say—Mental reflection is so much more interesting than TV. It’s a shame more people don’t switch over to it. They probably think what they hear is unimportant but it never is.
When I get confused (i.e. which I do quite often), I revert back to the Book for guidance. This is what it says--Be the right club baby, be the right club today. That’s the NEM version*
Have a FUN day my friends unless you have other plans. (-:
erv
KR’s thought of the day—One of the finest accomplishments is making a long story short!
TheProfessor’sPithySaying—There is no learning without diligent effort—Aristotle.
*The NEM version (i.e.The New Erv Mellema version) which means in golf language—It ‘s when a golfer hits a good shot right at the flag (i.e. target) and he wants it to be the right distance (i.e. be the right club) so it stays right by the target. It’s like my life—I want to be the right club, be the right club today (i.e. answer the bell). I think that is what it says (i.e. my opinion).
May 8, 2010
Charlie
It seems like many times in life we don’t face realty until something drastic slaps us in our face. Then we feel like a “toughluckCharlie”! Arlene and I recently had the opportunity to meet a neat guy. He told us part of his story (i.e. it was a wow). He was/is a highly successful person (i.e. using the world’s measuring standard) but until realty slapped him in the face about his drinking problem, he then became a successful person (using a different measuring standard). In every occupation, every social grouping, in every family, in every educational echelon, there are “toughluckCharlies”! Some “toughluckCharlies” are just that (e.g. like a kid born into a certain family) but many times we make ourselves into a “toughluckCharlie” (i.e. my opinion—anyway I do). This slap in the face can come about by the law, a friend, a financial problem, a relational problem or a self evaluation. So folks, can you really evaluate yourself? Self evaluation is most difficult. I think we are very fortunate if a “drastic slap in the face” occurs to us at a certain time to save our life or to enhance our life. What do you think? Maybe it could change us from a “toughluckCharlie” to a “blessedCharlie”. Many of us have caught breaks in life. I have caught many. The best of my “breakinlifes” was meeting and marrying Arlene a.k.a. a big person. Those of you who know Arlene know what I’m talking about (i.e. I like folks who have good, kind hearts and she has a very good, kind heart—my kind of gal). Such is life.
My mentor tells me--Life is not always fair. The only thing that’s fair is the Butler County Fair and that’s in late June I think. You ever feel sorry for yourself? Do you every treat yourself like a “toughluckCharlie”? Do you every feel like you got the rotten end of the stick (i.e. a raw deal in life)? Do we ever have to change our attitude? When Heather and Chet were small and were acting in a strange way, I would tell them that we were going to have a “attitudeadjustmenttime”. Many adults need to have someone take them aside and help them adjust their attitude. Saturday question—Do you and I need an attitude adjustment today? Do we feel like “toughluckCharlie” but in realty it was just our pissy attitude (i.e. we created our own poor attitude). So I always told our kids, if you complain, you have to have a possible solution otherwise don’t complain. So there is the possible solution—Throw those chips away, get your butt off the couch and do something (i.e. do something for someone else). Quit feeling sorry for yourself and help someone else. Such is life.
I read this while eating my oatmeal with blackberries on it—Even if you think of yourself as a “PlainOl’Charlie”, every Charlie has special talents and unique opportunities and you, Charlie, are no exception. Your task, of course, is to discover your talents and to use them in the service of God’s kingdom.
If you are the “toughluckClarliethegopher’ you are in trouble—a friend sent me this--Another quick/easy way to catch a striped gopher. Fill a milk jug full of water and tip it upside down on top of his hole so all the water runs in the hole. Hold the jug steady as the water runs out. Within thirty seconds of the water running out, the gopher will squeeze into the jug.
ToughluckCharlie—A friend sent me this--Over five thousand years ago, Moses said to the children of Israel "Pick up your shovels, mount your asses and camels, and I will lead you to the Promised Land." Nearly 75 years ago, (when Welfare was introduced) Roosevelt said, " Lay down your shovels, sit on your asses, and light up a Camel, this is the Promised Land." Now the government has stolen your shovel, taxed your asses, raised the price of camels and mortgaged the Promised Land! I was so depressed last night thinking about Health Care Plans, the economy, the wars, lost jobs, savings, Social Security, retirement funds, etc . . . I called Lifeline. I got a call center in Pakistan. I told them I was suicidal. They all got excited and asked if I could drive a truck!
ToughLuckCharlie, here is a way to change your luck (i.e. it works every time). A friend sent it to me--Seek wise counsel When Solomon was given a choice between wealth and wisdom, he chose wisdom. Why? Because wealth is temporary and uncertain, while godly wisdom is eternal and provides a solid road map for life. That is why the Bible counsels us in Proverbs 15:22 to surround our- selves with diverse perspectives as we make important decisions. Proverbs 19:20 builds on the principle that we will be successful and wise "in the end" when we seek the advice of other believers. Practice generosity One of the most challenging questions Christians face as they plan their financial futures is "how much is enough?" While the answer to that question will legitimately differ among believers, it is an important question to resolve. In doing so, we can fulfill the vision of 2 Corinthians 8:13-15, using our "plenty" to supply the needs of others. As author Randy Alcorn has pointed out, God prospers us not to raise our standard of living, but rather our standard of giving.”
CharlieCharlieCharlie! I was around a gal recently (i.e. none of you but if the shoe fits…) who I have known for years but really haven’t been around too much. We shared a responsibility for maybe 10 minutes the other day. She looks very nice from the outside but I wonder if she looks as nice in the inside. She was very critical of everyone and everything a.k.a a small person (i.e. ouchy ouchy)! My impression is that she isn’t a very nice lady (i.e. maybe very self-centered, a ShowboatCharlie a.k.a THEBIGSHOWCHARLIE who will hurt others to puff herself up. That’s not my kind of person to be around. I wonder if others have the same opinion as me? Maybe I’m all wrong? Maybe she just had a miserable emotional experience. Could be. I’m wrong a lot. I think I will still keep my distance. Well flip the pancake. That same day we were dinner guests at some long time friends along with another long time friend (i.e. real folks with massive huge hearts—my kind of folks). As we were sitting drinking coffee after a delicious dinner, we shared some stuff and we had a crying session (i.e. ‘cause we care about each other). I like real people with good hearts. KindHeartCharlie says—CarryingCharlies keep passing through little moments of friends’ lives. I observed a high school student who when she got done with her homework, helped her neighbor who really struggles. She was sooooooooo nice to him (i.e. gentle and kind). I talked to her later and told her that she was a good person with a kind heart (i.e. a ServantCharlie)—she just smiled. Such is life.
I had the opportunity to be around a SpecialCharlie a.k.a a special friend who is a great papa! ANYWAY he has lost 20 pounds on his 6’4” frame (i.e. from 215 to 195). Sooooooo how did you do it—counted calories; consumed 1,600 calories and exercised moderately. Pretty simple formula—less intake and more output My Daddy, Chester, always told me—Thebestdisciplineisselfdiscipline. Such is life.
I read this in HagarTheHorrible comic strip (i.e. Hagar was lecturing his son Charlie)—Son, I’ve been everywhere and I’ve seen everything! And I’ve learned that people are the same the world over!! That’s why you must guard your money at all times!
I read it in the paper so it must be right—Hawkeye football tickets will be sold out by the end of this week (i.e. ticket orders are “aboveandbeyond” supply and a decision will have to be made how to handle the overflow. What! I thought the economy was tough for the AverageCharlie. And you know what, they increased the cost of a ticket this year tooooooooo! It’s all about supply and demand folks. That is why ya gotta win! It’s all about money folks.
SusieQ says—We all have years of bad decisions runnin’ down our faces at times. ~ They are LuckyCharlies! We had the opportunity to have dinner with a friend who we haven’t seen for many many years. She wanted us to meet her husband and he wanted to met us. It was a very enjoyable evening (i.e. real folks with good hearts). They told us their stories—quite amazing—very amazing—absolutely amazing! It would be a best seller if it would be in book form. MissPerfect says—Most of the stuff we usually talk about is the silt of tomorrow! Our conversation was not the silt of tomorrow MissPerfect; it was heart wrenching stuff. They are really LuckyCharlies or is it something else. What do you think? LuckieCharlie says—The past exists only in our memories, the future only in our plans. The present is our reality. Such is life.
I played golf with a miniature John Daley (i.e. without the gastrial bypass a.k.a. stomach staple) the other day. He is a FlexibleCharlie all right. His back swing is about 240 degrees. When he stops his back swing, he sees the ball and his club head at the same time. He hits it hard and long. I kidded him about it and he said—When I get older and lose some feasibility, I’ll be at about 180 degrees! Such is life.
I had breakfast with my mentor a.k.a. OneSmartCharlie (i.e. we try to do it every Wednesday morning). He told me that to be successful ya gotta get things done and the best time to do things is to do them right now (i.e. he’s the engine of boxcars). I told some of my classes this as well—don’t waste your time, do things right now! Or as my neighborKarl says—The best time to trim the trees is when the saw is sharp and the saw is sharp! I also told a gal when she came into class late—You know what we would do with you in business?—there was a long silent time when finally another student said—you would fire ‘em. Another AwareStudentCharlie then said—Unless you are part of the union! Such is life.
Guess what? I was on my walk and saw that lady who I wondered about if she was a nice lady or not. I always wonder how she could be married to her husband who is on the “jerky” side (i.e. my opinion). BINGO maybe it all makes sense Charlie!
One of our neighbors died this week. He was agoodCharlie and his wife is aneatCharlie. Mel did the leg work for our golf cart purchases about 1990. We each purchased a 1986 Yamaha from the same dealer (i.e. they were rentals). He replaced his years ago with a newer one—I still have mine!!!! ANYWAY every spring when I change the oil in it, I go to Mel and borrow his metric ratchet set to remove the oil plug (i.e. I don’t have a metric ratchet set). I could have purchased a ratchet but it was sooooooooo much fun to go and borrow Mel’s every spring (i.e. I really enjoyed it). It was the only time the ratchet set was ever used he said. He had it on a shelf in the back of his garage and it was put back the same place every year. This year, his sweet wife and I had to go and get it and I told her the story of how much I enjoyed the opportunity. She and I stood in the back part of the garage and just talked about Mel. It was such a good time.
Folks, there are many reallygoodCharlies like you guys. Here is just an example of a goodCharlie that a good friend sent me http://sports.yahoo.com/golf/blog/golf_experts/post/When-losing-a-golf-tournament-really-makes-you-a?urn=golf,238912
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There are a lot of sweetCharlies but none as sweet as ourlittlesweetCharlie—Charlotte Mellema a.k.a by grandpa erv as Charlie. I planted Anna’s Zinnia flowerbed this week (i.e. Zinnias were one of Mom’s favorite flowers). I mentioned it to a couz and she asked if I talked to my Mom as I did it. I didn’t but she said she talks to her dad when she does such things—what do you say--did you not ever say to your mom when your babies were born" I wish you were here to see them and hold them...or as they grew..mom you would be so proud of them" ...or mom,' you would of just loved Arlene so much, I wish you would of had more time with us"'—no I have never said such things but have thought them many times. Chester and Anna would have really enjoyed and loved our children, their spouses and little Charlie and little Erin Woodworth. Yes they would have. Isn’t my couz a specialCharlie? FYI--you can click on pictures to enlarge.
Have a FUN day my friends unless you have other plans. (-:
erv
KR’s thought of the day—To get the full value of joy, you must have someone to divide it with.
TheProfessor’sPithySaying—Lovely is the bloom of youth but it quickly fades away whereas the education mind continues to grow and mature.
My mentor tells me--Life is not always fair. The only thing that’s fair is the Butler County Fair and that’s in late June I think. You ever feel sorry for yourself? Do you every treat yourself like a “toughluckCharlie”? Do you every feel like you got the rotten end of the stick (i.e. a raw deal in life)? Do we ever have to change our attitude? When Heather and Chet were small and were acting in a strange way, I would tell them that we were going to have a “attitudeadjustmenttime”. Many adults need to have someone take them aside and help them adjust their attitude. Saturday question—Do you and I need an attitude adjustment today? Do we feel like “toughluckCharlie” but in realty it was just our pissy attitude (i.e. we created our own poor attitude). So I always told our kids, if you complain, you have to have a possible solution otherwise don’t complain. So there is the possible solution—Throw those chips away, get your butt off the couch and do something (i.e. do something for someone else). Quit feeling sorry for yourself and help someone else. Such is life.
I read this while eating my oatmeal with blackberries on it—Even if you think of yourself as a “PlainOl’Charlie”, every Charlie has special talents and unique opportunities and you, Charlie, are no exception. Your task, of course, is to discover your talents and to use them in the service of God’s kingdom.
If you are the “toughluckClarliethegopher’ you are in trouble—a friend sent me this--Another quick/easy way to catch a striped gopher. Fill a milk jug full of water and tip it upside down on top of his hole so all the water runs in the hole. Hold the jug steady as the water runs out. Within thirty seconds of the water running out, the gopher will squeeze into the jug.
ToughluckCharlie—A friend sent me this--Over five thousand years ago, Moses said to the children of Israel "Pick up your shovels, mount your asses and camels, and I will lead you to the Promised Land." Nearly 75 years ago, (when Welfare was introduced) Roosevelt said, " Lay down your shovels, sit on your asses, and light up a Camel, this is the Promised Land." Now the government has stolen your shovel, taxed your asses, raised the price of camels and mortgaged the Promised Land! I was so depressed last night thinking about Health Care Plans, the economy, the wars, lost jobs, savings, Social Security, retirement funds, etc . . . I called Lifeline. I got a call center in Pakistan. I told them I was suicidal. They all got excited and asked if I could drive a truck!
ToughLuckCharlie, here is a way to change your luck (i.e. it works every time). A friend sent it to me--Seek wise counsel When Solomon was given a choice between wealth and wisdom, he chose wisdom. Why? Because wealth is temporary and uncertain, while godly wisdom is eternal and provides a solid road map for life. That is why the Bible counsels us in Proverbs 15:22 to surround our- selves with diverse perspectives as we make important decisions. Proverbs 19:20 builds on the principle that we will be successful and wise "in the end" when we seek the advice of other believers. Practice generosity One of the most challenging questions Christians face as they plan their financial futures is "how much is enough?" While the answer to that question will legitimately differ among believers, it is an important question to resolve. In doing so, we can fulfill the vision of 2 Corinthians 8:13-15, using our "plenty" to supply the needs of others. As author Randy Alcorn has pointed out, God prospers us not to raise our standard of living, but rather our standard of giving.”
CharlieCharlieCharlie! I was around a gal recently (i.e. none of you but if the shoe fits…) who I have known for years but really haven’t been around too much. We shared a responsibility for maybe 10 minutes the other day. She looks very nice from the outside but I wonder if she looks as nice in the inside. She was very critical of everyone and everything a.k.a a small person (i.e. ouchy ouchy)! My impression is that she isn’t a very nice lady (i.e. maybe very self-centered, a ShowboatCharlie a.k.a THEBIGSHOWCHARLIE who will hurt others to puff herself up. That’s not my kind of person to be around. I wonder if others have the same opinion as me? Maybe I’m all wrong? Maybe she just had a miserable emotional experience. Could be. I’m wrong a lot. I think I will still keep my distance. Well flip the pancake. That same day we were dinner guests at some long time friends along with another long time friend (i.e. real folks with massive huge hearts—my kind of folks). As we were sitting drinking coffee after a delicious dinner, we shared some stuff and we had a crying session (i.e. ‘cause we care about each other). I like real people with good hearts. KindHeartCharlie says—CarryingCharlies keep passing through little moments of friends’ lives. I observed a high school student who when she got done with her homework, helped her neighbor who really struggles. She was sooooooooo nice to him (i.e. gentle and kind). I talked to her later and told her that she was a good person with a kind heart (i.e. a ServantCharlie)—she just smiled. Such is life.
I had the opportunity to be around a SpecialCharlie a.k.a a special friend who is a great papa! ANYWAY he has lost 20 pounds on his 6’4” frame (i.e. from 215 to 195). Sooooooo how did you do it—counted calories; consumed 1,600 calories and exercised moderately. Pretty simple formula—less intake and more output My Daddy, Chester, always told me—Thebestdisciplineisselfdiscipline. Such is life.
I read this in HagarTheHorrible comic strip (i.e. Hagar was lecturing his son Charlie)—Son, I’ve been everywhere and I’ve seen everything! And I’ve learned that people are the same the world over!! That’s why you must guard your money at all times!
I read it in the paper so it must be right—Hawkeye football tickets will be sold out by the end of this week (i.e. ticket orders are “aboveandbeyond” supply and a decision will have to be made how to handle the overflow. What! I thought the economy was tough for the AverageCharlie. And you know what, they increased the cost of a ticket this year tooooooooo! It’s all about supply and demand folks. That is why ya gotta win! It’s all about money folks.
SusieQ says—We all have years of bad decisions runnin’ down our faces at times. ~ They are LuckyCharlies! We had the opportunity to have dinner with a friend who we haven’t seen for many many years. She wanted us to meet her husband and he wanted to met us. It was a very enjoyable evening (i.e. real folks with good hearts). They told us their stories—quite amazing—very amazing—absolutely amazing! It would be a best seller if it would be in book form. MissPerfect says—Most of the stuff we usually talk about is the silt of tomorrow! Our conversation was not the silt of tomorrow MissPerfect; it was heart wrenching stuff. They are really LuckyCharlies or is it something else. What do you think? LuckieCharlie says—The past exists only in our memories, the future only in our plans. The present is our reality. Such is life.
I played golf with a miniature John Daley (i.e. without the gastrial bypass a.k.a. stomach staple) the other day. He is a FlexibleCharlie all right. His back swing is about 240 degrees. When he stops his back swing, he sees the ball and his club head at the same time. He hits it hard and long. I kidded him about it and he said—When I get older and lose some feasibility, I’ll be at about 180 degrees! Such is life.
I had breakfast with my mentor a.k.a. OneSmartCharlie (i.e. we try to do it every Wednesday morning). He told me that to be successful ya gotta get things done and the best time to do things is to do them right now (i.e. he’s the engine of boxcars). I told some of my classes this as well—don’t waste your time, do things right now! Or as my neighborKarl says—The best time to trim the trees is when the saw is sharp and the saw is sharp! I also told a gal when she came into class late—You know what we would do with you in business?—there was a long silent time when finally another student said—you would fire ‘em. Another AwareStudentCharlie then said—Unless you are part of the union! Such is life.
Guess what? I was on my walk and saw that lady who I wondered about if she was a nice lady or not. I always wonder how she could be married to her husband who is on the “jerky” side (i.e. my opinion). BINGO maybe it all makes sense Charlie!
One of our neighbors died this week. He was agoodCharlie and his wife is aneatCharlie. Mel did the leg work for our golf cart purchases about 1990. We each purchased a 1986 Yamaha from the same dealer (i.e. they were rentals). He replaced his years ago with a newer one—I still have mine!!!! ANYWAY every spring when I change the oil in it, I go to Mel and borrow his metric ratchet set to remove the oil plug (i.e. I don’t have a metric ratchet set). I could have purchased a ratchet but it was sooooooooo much fun to go and borrow Mel’s every spring (i.e. I really enjoyed it). It was the only time the ratchet set was ever used he said. He had it on a shelf in the back of his garage and it was put back the same place every year. This year, his sweet wife and I had to go and get it and I told her the story of how much I enjoyed the opportunity. She and I stood in the back part of the garage and just talked about Mel. It was such a good time.
Folks, there are many reallygoodCharlies like you guys. Here is just an example of a goodCharlie that a good friend sent me http://sports.yahoo.com/golf/blog/golf_experts/post/When-losing-a-golf-tournament-really-makes-you-a?urn=golf,238912
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There are a lot of sweetCharlies but none as sweet as ourlittlesweetCharlie—Charlotte Mellema a.k.a by grandpa erv as Charlie. I planted Anna’s Zinnia flowerbed this week (i.e. Zinnias were one of Mom’s favorite flowers). I mentioned it to a couz and she asked if I talked to my Mom as I did it. I didn’t but she said she talks to her dad when she does such things—what do you say--did you not ever say to your mom when your babies were born" I wish you were here to see them and hold them...or as they grew..mom you would be so proud of them" ...or mom,' you would of just loved Arlene so much, I wish you would of had more time with us"'—no I have never said such things but have thought them many times. Chester and Anna would have really enjoyed and loved our children, their spouses and little Charlie and little Erin Woodworth. Yes they would have. Isn’t my couz a specialCharlie? FYI--you can click on pictures to enlarge.Have a FUN day my friends unless you have other plans. (-:
erv
KR’s thought of the day—To get the full value of joy, you must have someone to divide it with.
TheProfessor’sPithySaying—Lovely is the bloom of youth but it quickly fades away whereas the education mind continues to grow and mature.
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