December 2, 2017

yagottafinish your life

Sooooo folks, I hope this “It’s Saturday” will raise your Ebenezer!

Suggestion—Try to find the missing bullet holes (i.e. like finding Elmo) in this “It’s Saturday.” See what you can learn from them (i.e. the missing bullet holes will probably be different for different folks). They often tell the most interesting and useful part of the story (i.e. your story).
  • No matter how many mistakes you make or how slow you progress, you are still way ahead of everyone who isn't trying. 
  • When something becomes a need, a requirement, it locks us in. We have to have it; which means we start structuring our lives around it. 
  • Being winsome helps us win some. Be purposeful in your reflection. Don't only focus on what you may have done wrong, or what you would like to do differently... Make sure to think about what you have done well, or what you are doing well. Don't forget the "Happy".  
  • Isn’t it interesting that when others fail, we tend to admire them for trying? Yet when we fail, we beat ourselves up for the very same thing, 
Many times, we are where we don’t want to be; we just gotta keep going; we can’t stop; we gotta keep going!  I stopped and saw a friend the other day.  He has a major health issue. I asked him how he was doing. I’m doing one day at a time; I just keep going. Yagottafinish!
All of us are really in a different state of mind and physical condition.  That is for sure!  Some of us are happy and some sad; some feel rich, some feel poor; some are in good health, some not; some are facing a huge problem, some never had a serious problem.  You get the point!  I am going to make a suggestion to you folks; it is not a truism as I’m not that smart by a long shot (i.e. I’m just a little old farm boy from a mile and fourth south of Roseland, MN).   But this seems to work for me somewhat and maybe it might for you.  Big on the maybe!  Enjoy every minute of your life no matter where you are at (i.e. maximize your life).  We don’t need clamorous stuff or expensive stuff or glitzy stuff but just ordinary stuff. Enjoy everything and everybody (i.e. always look at the positive).  I probably sound like a parrot to some of you.  Mikey, try it, you might like it! Yagottafinish! "The more you praise and celebrate your life, the more there is in life to celebrate." - Oprah Winfrey  ~  A pickleball buddy who winters in AZ sent me an email inviting me to play in our old group.  I told him that we won’t make it to AZ this winter because of Arlene’s digressing Alzheimer’s.  He sent a nice note back.  Here is the part that really got my attention--erv. And all our hearts are with you and Arlene this winter as you live your own reality. That is a very good observation I think a.k.a. wisdom.  We all have different realities.  Yagottafinish!

I looked in the mirror and didn’t like what I saw!  Yikes! Recently
my ego really flared up (i.e. a huge, massive flareup).  And in all places, it happened in church Sunday morning during the service.  I tried to kill it but I only got it beat down (i.e. just got it under control--it just wouldn’t die).  I had to raise my Ebenezer! LuckieEddie says--A grateful person is rich in contentment. An ungrateful person suffers in the poverty of endless discontentment. Ouchy ouchy!

It’s getting to be the Christmas season sooo I will be watching my favorite Christmas movie—Christmas with Chubby Chase a.k.a. National Lapoon's Christmas Vacation. I laugh every year. I got some early birthday presents from my family during Thanksgiving.  I really like them all.  I asked them how they picked such special presents for me.  They said—we know you.  This one really makes me laugh; I love it! I was coming  back from a run as it was getting dark.  A neighbor has his light all lite up.  He had a ladder up against his house and was fiddling with his lights.  I said--Hey Clark, you got one out on the end!  He obviously doesn't watch that movie (i.e. I thought everyone has--wrong).  He didn't catch on. I bet he thought I was a real jerk!  

A very old man lay dying in his bed. In death's doorway, he suddenly smelled the aroma of his favorite chocolate chip cookie wafting up the stairs. He gathered his remaining strength and lifted himself from the bed. Leaning against the wall, he slowly made his way out of the bedroom, and with even greater effort forced himself down the stairs, gripping the railing with both hands. With labored breath, he leaned against the door frame, gazing into the kitchen. Were it not for death's agony, he would have thought himself already in heaven. There, spread out on newspapers on the kitchen table were literally hundreds of his favorite chocolate chip cookies. Was it heaven? Or was it one final act of heroic love from his devoted wife, seeing to it that he left this world a happy man? Mustering one great final effort, he threw himself toward the table. The aged and withered hand, shaking, made its way to a cookie at the edge of the table, when he was suddenly smacked with a spatula by his wife.
"Stay out of those," she said. "They're for the funeral." Yagottafinish!

 I just don’t know about that!  Our family doctor told me recently—erv, you gotta realize that you are almost 72; you aren't as tough as you use tooooo be! I was discussing something with a new friend and he said—erv, your generation….!  I just realized that he is only in his early 40s (i.e. I could be his dad).  Yabut, our family doctor told me once you get to 71, your odds are better to get to an older age.  Ya, you can’t get to an older age if you die early.  But I gottafinish no matter what age my life will take me to on this earth. Such is life.

"I'd give away every cent I have to be your age again." - Warren Buffet - I read this while eating my oatmeal with a half a banana on it--“Poor in spirit” sounds like someone who is sad or bereft. But it is not that at all. Being “poor in spirit” simply means someone who has humbly recognized the limits of his own abilities. As the New Living Translation affirms, “God blesses those who are poor and realize their need for him.” That is not sadness; it is realism. It is a clear understanding, probably realized over and over in life, that the kingdom of man is insufficient for human happiness. But the kingdom of God is all-sufficient! How happy will be the person who exchanges his worldly “happiness” for dependence on God. The blessings of the kingdom of heaven will be his or hers.

WorldClassLaarry says--Knowing what you don't know is more useful than being brilliant. I was running the other morning and was approaching an intersection.  A friend was coming in his pickup and I wanted to talk to him.  I raised my hand saying—hold up, I want to talk to you.  When I approached him, he said—erv, you gotta go the bathroom or something!  He just makes me laugh.  I asked him what he was doing. He was helping some folks (i.e. he does a lot of this helping others--a good egg).  I told him that he was really a good person doing all those acts of kindness.  He said—I gotta do a lot of them to make up for all the bad things I do! I really like this guy—he has a very good heart and is a real person; my kind of person.  That same morning while running, I met a senior guy who was walking using a cane. He had a short sleeve shirt on (i.e. I had a long sleeve shirt on).  I said—You must be a tough guy—he said in a slurred speech (i.e. probably a stroke victim)—I use to be a farmer!  I guess he thinks farmers are tough.  He made me laugh!  BUT he was out there walking—yagotttafinish!

I know a lot of really smart folks (i.e. you folks).  Really smart folks can belong to "Mensa" association, a worldwide group of intelligent persons, that requires rigorous testing for membership, with a required standard IQ score of 132 or above (i.e. 98 percentile or above). Most of you will probably qualify, except maybe for one of you. ha ha Soooo I asked SmartyPantsRiley how he go soooo smart.  Here is his answer:  


A tough MT ranch boy was planning to drive back from his parent’s ranch in MT straight through to IA after Thanksgiving with a wife and two small kids.  I thought he was either tough or crazy, one of the other. Well, they changed their minds and did it in two days.  I wonder if he would have left his family stop for potty stops!  Those MT ranch boys are tough alright; real drum majors! Yagottafinish!

When I get ready to run, I check to see what the temperature is and also how windy it is and dress accordingly (i.e. the older I get, the more clothes I need—not as tough).  BUT what is interesting, after I run for maybe a mile, my body warms up and I don’t need as much clothes.  I wonder if that works for other things of life. Yagottafinish!  I wonder as I wander!  CrazyMarvin says—I never have that sensation; I just sit on the couch and eat chips! Such is life. 

Saturday questions--What was your best experience this week: an experience that left you with your mouth wide open? What was your worse experience; one that left you with a bad taste in your wide-open mouth? DeepThinkerEsther says—I wonder how close I am to God?  Is that unmeasurable? How close am I compared to others?  Soooo I really don’t know how close to God I am; I might think I’m very close but in reality, I’m maybe not or vice a versa.  BobbySnort says--You’ll notice in the Christmas story that when the Son of God was born, not a single religious person (e.g. Pharisees) were invited. The people who should have known the most about the birth of Jesus, the spiritual and religious leaders of Israel, didn’t have a clue (i.e. they reeked like elitism). Who were invited? The shepherds watching flocks by night.  The shepherds were considered pretty low in the social ladder.  Huh, interesting. 

SquirrelSquirrely says—When folks’ lives get squirrely, it is interesting how folks act.  SweetBela says—When I use to play house as a kid, it was way different than when the lights came on for real; it’s a way different story. JoeBlow says--Make believe (i.e. Star Wars—new movie is coming out soon) is way different than the real deal (i.e. everyday life).  Yagottafinish!

FantasticFred says—None of us are going to live forever.  Sooooo yagottafinish every day the best we can.  Locking the barn after the horse has run away applies here. Live what you believe to be right. Don’t let your emotions take over; they are unpredictable.  A friend sent me this text after I questioned how she was--Hi erv, don't read too much into anything I say. The kiss principle is always best ( keep it simple, stupid). I don’t know what I am feeling most of the time!! Usually feelings aren't that important. Like the weather, give them 10 minutes and they'll change. Folks, I think that is wisdom. I told her—You said a mouth full there! My Daddy, Chester, would say to me—erv, don’t let your emotions get involved in a business decision. LuckieEddie says--That is a good thought Chester; I let my emotions get involved in what I thought was love (i.e. it was more like a sexual fantasy). It didn’t turn out soooo good.  Is love different? It’s not a business decision you know. LuckieEddie, yastillgottafinish!

Have a FUN day my friends unless you have other plans. )-:

erv


MyFriendJean says--While seeking happiness for others, we unconsciously find it for ourselves.

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