August 8, 2020

blurb

Disclaimer—As a friend told me— I keep the salt shaker handy when I read “It’s Saturday” - you never know when you might need a grain of salt!  Soooo there you go, she has figured me out.  She is one smart person and nice toooo, a real person with a good heart, my kind of person (i.e. she is from Wichert). All the girls from Wichert are that way)!  Her husband, Bill, is one lucky guy (i.e. he married right)! ANYWAY, sooooo take that salt thing into consideration when reading this “It’s Saturday.”  Remember folks, I’m just an average guy from Butler, Co, IA.  To prove that point, last Saturday Rookie, my 8-year old grandson, corrected me; he told me I pronounced picture wrong, I pronounce it like pitcher!

The word blurb came about when someone wrote something about a book and then it was printed in the back cover of the book.  I think about a blurb more of an advertisement or short write-up.  What do you think of about when the word blurb is used?

One of George Bernard Shaw burbs was—I never resist temptation because I have found that things that are bad for me do not tempt me.  WorldClassLarry says—George Bernard Shaw, you stay in your lane and I’ll stay in mine and we will get along just fine.

I read something in the paper recently (i.e. soooo it must be right) that seemed to have affected me.  I read a statement that said—Don’t let your history of your family color your life.  It was about the bad past history of families.  It appears that the past history of all our families can discolor the life we live.  I think I can see it in many folks (i.e. and sometimes we can’t even see it in our own life but we know it does), that bad history seems to affect many folks in soooo many ways.  LuckieEddie says--It is soooo hard to break the chain.  Flip the pancake—Good family history also affects our lives.  Think about that.  SusieQ, who can be a bit of a suckup at times, says--We are all affecting the next generation.  Such is life.  Soooo please give me a blurb of your family’s past history! MissPerfect says—erv, I don’t want to go there. 

If you would be asked to write a blurb about yourself would you be very accurate with your description of yourself or would you make yourself better than what you are by enhancing yourself or would you be a mugrumper (i.e. mug on one side of the fence and your rump on the other)?  A friend went to a friend’s funeral and when the pastor got done eulogizing her friend, she wondered if she was at the right funeral!  Yikes! Another friend and her husband had their burial plots at the local cemetery but when JackTheWomanizer was buried next to her plot they traded plots.  She didn’t want to lay by JackTheWomanizer for every.  She said—Everyone knows he was a big womanizer (i.e. his blurb) and folks all would talk about JackTheWomanizer for sure.  She couldn’t handle having JackTheWomanizer laying next to her even though his head stone would probably say he was such a great guy. 

This is more a burp than a blurb.  They sound someone alike but are completely different.  A pickleball buddy (i.e. about 70ish) was telling us that he enjoys being alone more than he ever has.  He said he use to enjoy cocktail parties but now won’t go to any of them—I get tired of people trying to impress each other and besides I heard all those stories about 50 times.  Soooo, is that aging or wisdom or both?  I heard a speaker say recently questioning if we are ambitiously trying to live a purposeful, useful quiet life or an ambitious nosy, banging life to become more important (i.e. like to be in the center ring of the circus)?  I know folks in both categories; yes I do.  Which ones do you think most folks enjoy being around the most?  Bingo! Folks, we all need to learn how to land the plane at some time! I listened to a speaker who talked about us being SteadyEddies.  That meaning, steady in our thinking and the way we act for a long time.  A person who hasn’t been tested (e.g. a FastEddie, a flash in the pan or is it a flash in the pants) has not been proven but a person who has been proven for years, well, that’s another story (i.e. they are probably the real deal—they wear a big cowboy hat and actually have cattle). 

I read this while eating my oatmeal with half a banana on it—“Psychologists have verified what Genesis taught us millennia ago: we were created for connection. Hardwired into our very DNA, our greatest need as human beings is to be known and loved. Tragically, this is matched by our greatest fear—to be known and rejected! Genesis emotional dichotomy mirrors the human condition we have struggled with since the garden. On the one hand, we yearn for love that offers wholehearted, unrequited fulfillment, yet simultaneously we tremble at the merest hint of rejection.”  JoeSixPack says—Now, that is a blurb about everyone, I think.  That might be a reason who it is soooooo hard for many to be humble.

If I follow the news and if I am around our local environment, I realize that it appears that some folks who are the opposite of humble seem to be get a lot of glory and succeed.  That can really hurt me (i.e. maybe more upset me) sometimes.  I just dislike to see evil wining and it seems like it does.  But does it really in the long run?  RickyRick says—"Wise people remain humble. Humility and teachability go together. Be humble or you’ll stumble. Humility begins by simply realizing you’re not God. Whenever you get stressed, repeat this to yourself: ‘God is God, and I’m not. God is God, and I’m not. God is God, and I’m not.’ That’s humility. People who aren’t humble think they’re God or have ultimate control. The Bible says, ‘God resists the proud, but gives grace to the humble.’ When you’re successful, it’s much easier to fall hard than it is to maintain your success. We tend to get proud and forget about God, and success crumbles when we do that. If you’ve found yourself in that situation, the first step to take is absolutely critical. The Bible says, ‘Consider how far you have fallen! Repent and do the things you did at first. If you repent, I will come to you.’ Pride blinds us—and so does the spotlight. This is why people who’ve seen some success in life need to go home and change some diapers, mow their own lawns, and wash their own dishes. When you have some success, make sure you keep in touch with your roots so you don’t miss the warning signs of a fall.”  JoeBlow says. Yabut erv, it’s soooo easy to get cocky and arrogant!

SusieQ, who is more than just a pretty face, says--Much has been written about the benefits of strong relationships. People are healthier, live longer, and are generally happier if they have strong friendships. Strong relationships are beneficial for helping and encouraging each other. Recently I played golf with three guys that are long-time friends.  We try to do this a couple times each year.  After we got done, we had a beer together and teased each other and told stories about each other for another hour (i.e. we seem to really enjoy each others’ company.  They told me a story of one of their golf buddies that bought a hamburger at a convenience store and walked out without paying.  The sheriff department arrested him at the golf course.  His buddies teased him and called him the hamburgerizer!  For some of you that might sound cruel but that is just great friendship. That is their way of showing they like him.  They didn’t shy away from him.

I was at the Cedar Falls Bible Conference recently when the speaker, Joe Rigney, talked about suffering.  He said, we suffer when we can’t have what we want and we suffer when something is taken away from us.  He said that one of the very common ways folks act when suffering is to isolate themselves from others; just what they should not do.  And what do others do around folks who are suffering?  You are right, separate themselves from them.  Yikes.  And sometimes folks say the strangest things to folks who are suffering which makes the person suffering not want to see others again forever.  That just want them to go home, cry, sleep, eat, drink, etc.  and become more depressed.  Yikes!  JoeBlow says—When I was really suffering, I found out who my friends were.  I told some of Arlene’s friends when she was getting pretty bad a.k.a. ugly—You don’t have to come and see her if you don’t want; I understand.  They said—We are Arlene’s friends and we are going to see her to the end and they did.  Wow!  That was uplifting to me.  For sure!

I think that churches are very important in helping folks who are suffering (i.e. church is the people).  If they don’t, then there is a problem in the church (i.e. my opinion).  If they don’t put their actions or money where their mouths are, it’s not good.  CadillacJack says--It’s not good when my golf buddies are more caring than the church folks. AverageJoe says--Disneyland is known as “The Happiest Place on Earth.” They offer more than rides. They offer an experience. Everything that happens there is part of the plan to give you that experience of happiness. In a Forbes magazine article, communication specialist Carmine Gallo describes the process Disney uses in order to train their employees to be “Assertively Friendly.” They will go the extra step to extend themselves to you before you ask for help.  Such is life.

ItchieBitchie says—It’s just propaganda, that’s all it is for sure. The news media or for that matter any one can make a person look real bad or real good even when they aren’t real good or real bad.  It’s done all the time.  I guess they do that to make themselves or what they want to look better.  It might not even be close to what the truth is of the person they are talking about.  They use blurbs that are just marginal truth and maybe are just one little slice of a person’s life and leave out a million blurbs of the good or bad side of a person.  It’s done all the time.  And some suckers seem to believe it.  Why I ask. I really wonder if our past environment or current environment (i.e. both good or bad) affects who we are and what we are.  I wonder if we get programmed and we don’t even know it (e.g. if we are bitter about something). 

We seem to live in a “Headline society.”  The Iowa football program was investigated for maybe some bad stuff.  The independent research interviewed 200 ex-football players.  98% were positive and 2% or 4 players were negative if I have it correct.  What does the media write about?  You guessed it, the 4 players (i.e. and God only knows what their agendas are or if they are accurate).  Now that takes the cake.

AverageJoe, is smarter than the average dog, says—erv, you gotta have a platform to stand on or no one will listen to ya.  If you are the 4th string senior linebacker who has never been in the game, you can talk all you want but no one will probably listen to you (i.e. even though you might be way smarter than the lippy star with an issue).  But if you are the star running back, folks might listen to ya.  Sooooo if you are JoeSwamp who lives in the Big Marsh deep in Butler Co and says something about grace, probably no one will listen to ya.  But if you are Martin Luther and say this, folks will probably listen to ya—This grace of God is a very great, strong, mighty and active thing.  It does not lie asleep in the soul.  Grace hears, leads, drives, draws, changes, works and lets itself be distinctly felt and experienced.  It is hidden but its works are evident.

A golf buddy/friend told me while I was riding in his cart recently that his granddad volunteered during WW I and fought in the trenches in France.  His father volunteered, when his wife was pregnant, during WW II and fought in the Battle of the Bulge and he, himself, was in the military.  He is very upset that a few of folks are trying to destroy seemingly everything they fought for.  He is really hurt.  And what does the media report—All about the few folks who are seemingly trying to destroy America.  I don’t get it.  I don’t.  The guyfromnorthoftown says—Well folks, mash those potatoes!!!!

Sooooo I’m curious, how many grans of salt did you need while reading this “It’s Saturday?”  That is what I thought.  You maybe had to refill the salt shaker!

Have a FUN day my friends unless you have other plans. (-:

erv

MyFriendJean says—Lead by example.

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