December 12, 2020

deterrent

Heads up!  It’s like my mentor use to say—erv, it’s not as good as it looks and it’s not as bad as it looks.  I suggest you think of that before you start watching the news, during you are watching the news and after you have watched the news.  And my suggestion is that you apply that principle also in reading this “It’s Saturday.”

JoeKnowItAll, who is the leading professor at Nincompoop University says—Nobody can do two things at the same time and do them both well.

I am misunderstood a lot and I’m sure that happens many times in each “It’s Saturday.”  Here are a couple of examples: I sent a response of “?” to a text pic.  The person thought it meant that I didn’t know what the pic was about, and they returned a text explaining the pic to me, but I meant, what is going to happen.  The other one was recently when we had a tread of text messages about playing pickleball.  I went to play but no one was there.  I texted a leader and he said that we didn’t have enough, Tim couldn’t make it. I was not included in that different text thread.  I texted “the leader” back and said—That explains it; I get confused easy (i.e. let him off the hook nicely and trying to be humorous).  I think that he took it that I’m old and get confused easily and said “no problem” indicating that he thinks I do get confused easily (i.e. maybe I do from his younger perspective).  In “Macbeth,” William Shakespeare wrote, “If it were done when ‘tis done, then ‘twere well it were done quickly.”  I bet big money that that verse has different interpretations by different folks here deep in Butler County, especially the coffee drinkers in the shed up in ‘em ‘re hills.

I got this from a new reader that really made me smile—"From...........Just a 85 year old new reader who grew up on a farm one-half mile North of Old Roseland in New Roseland!”  To get “This Saturday,” you don’t have do anything—you mean I don’t have to do anything—yes, you have to do nuttin like in zero—are you sure—you do nuttin—what’s the catch—no catch, no fire drill!  LuckyEddie says—We usually don’t understand that do we.  But remember, you get what you pay for, but it does come with a money back guarantee! Not all of you might understand that!  You get it!

GeorgeTheCrook says—Negativism is such a deterrent. For sure! WorldClassLarry says—The art of being wise is the art of knowing what to overlook.  Now everyone has to understand that don’t they?  Yabut, now we have to decide what we need to overlook!  Got this from a friend, who is amazing to me, thought you'd enjoy—"Test positive for Faith, Keep your Distance from doubt, Isolate yourself from Fear. Much better than what we've been hearing.” Another friend, who is politically excited 24/7, tells me that his long-time friend watches the news 24/7 (i.e. he never turns a certain TV news station off which happens to be opposite of my friend’s opinions).  He just can’t get enough of it.  You think he is opinionated? You can bet your last dollar on that!  Holy smokes! I think when both of them die, their bodies won’t cool off for a week!

Watching the less number of folks walking when it is windy tells me that other folks also do not like strong winds.  I like it when the winds are still and there is silence, no wind. A friend was telling me that I am going to be one of his casket bearers if I outlive him.  I doubt if that will happen (i.e. he has a huge, massive motor, is as tough as nails, and is as strong as an ox). But by a long shot if that would happen, I told my friend--you better pick a day that it isn’t cold or with strong winds, you know I don’t like cold weather and strong winds (i.e. he knows that as I have played a lot of really fun golf with him and I always complain about the cold and a lot about the strong winds). We had a good laugh.

MeanMax, who knows tomorrow why the things he predicted yesterday didn’t happen today, said—"The world is upside down and backwards. There are people hurting and looking for answers.” That statement sure seems to be a deterrent to humans (i.e. overwhelming, crippling and paralyzing for many and for others not soooo much).  Has that feeling always been that way?  Do you feel that way? How has this feeling affected you? My mentor use to say to me—erv, half the people really don’t care about you and the other half are too worried about themselves to really care about you!

IffieJiffie, known to be very honest unlike her sister who isn’t, says—"I’m a Scorpio, and who knows if there is any validity in it, but I’m very emotional.  I have high highs and low lows.” I don’t believe in horoscopes but maybe you do—I have my trust in God a.k.a. my Rock even though I don’t always understand Him (i.e. His understanding I cannot fathom). Yes, the current world situations will or might reframe our mindsets. Which way will our minds be changed? Are you shaken?  How much if at all?  Why are some folks more shaken that others? Do you have peace? IffieJiffie says—I will check my horoscope and find out what I’m supposed to feel.

Text from Jessica, our daughter-in-law,--Interesting new work from home / online school highlight happened today. Henry (i.e. who is our 7-year old grandson who I call Rookie) appeared on the stairs whispering "emergency!" while I was on a client call. I asked to pause and mute my line for a moment. Henry explained he had clogged the upstairs toilet and the water was rising. I asked my colleagues and clients to carry on for a couple minutes while I went to plunge the toilet and Clorox wipe the floor. Rejoined the meeting and carried on.  

A friend was telling us at their Thanksgiving dinner that they hosted—Our 8-year old granddaughter usually facetimes with me every day and sometimes multiple times.  When I had the Covid-19 virus, she asked me during one of those FaceTimes how I was feeling, and I told her I didn’t feel very well.  She then asked—Grandma, do you have a will?

A super senor was telling me that she does her devotions every morning.  It’s part of her daily routine that she enjoys.  She went on to say that she didn’t always do devotions.  Her sister and her decided when young to go to church; there family never had anything to do with anything related to God.  Sooooo why did you decide to go to church then?   Well, we noticed that other friends’ family seemed happier than ours and wondered if church/God was it.  We went to many different churches.  My sister liked the Episcopalian and Catholic the best; I didn’t.  Soooo we compromised and went to a Lutheran church.  We went there for some time but then we quit.  Why did you quit?  It seemed after a while no one really cared about us anymore. We felt it was because we were not big financial givers.  Soooo we quit; we didn’t like the feeling.  Sooooo there is one deterrent as to why some folks don’t go to “some” churches.  Everyone likes to be cared about and accepted.  Da!

I was going on my jog the other day and ran into my neighbor. She told me she loves to walk (i.e. I see her doing it a lot).  She said it is really good for her mind; I agreed that it does good for me toooo.  Some of you won’t understand this and others will.  ANYWAY, I read this--“The researchers concluded that the sweet spot for physical activity and longevity seemed to arrive at about 35 minutes a day of brisk walking or other moderate activities, an amount that led to the greatest statistical improvement in life span, no matter how many hours someone sat.” You and I have a choice to sit on the couch and eat chips or exercise. 

LuckieEddie says--A deterrent of our happiness is always thinking about ourselves!  CoachB says—Psychologists do studies, and they show that Americans that describe themselves as extremely happy volunteer about 5.8 hours a month (i.e. soooo what does that tell you). They have also done experiments over and over where they give folks money and tell half of them to spend it on themselves and the other half to spend it on others. Natural logic is that if we would spend the money on me instead on someone else, I would be a lot happier. But studies have shown just the opposite, the folks who spend the money on someone else are much happier. Soooo you want to be extremely happy? JoeWacko says—"Maybe we need to serve the Lord with a certain amount of secrecy—not in deceit but for the purpose of intentionally wanting God to bring our hunger for fame and recognition under control. It’s unhealthy when we want all our good deeds to be known.”  Well stuff my shopping cart!

I was once making some creative gifts for our grandkids and a brother-in-law was riding along with me.  I was telling them that many times the grandkids think the gifts are goofy and maybe aren’t appreciated.  He told me—erv, as long as you enjoy doing it, it doesn’t make any difference! 

Our daughter, Heather, was discussing with me recently that she is waffling about if and how our family should get to gather for Christmas! It seems to be a dilemma. Dr. Fauci (i.e. or as some call him, the Dr. Hoochie Coochie) says we should stay home but our emotions say we want to get to gather.  This virus is a deterrent for many family-get-to-gathers and many family activities.  Well deck the halls! 

I must like my new slippers I got from the kids for my birthday (i.e. the kind with the wool inside to keep my feet warm during the IA winter).  I went to Cedar Falls late afternoon a couple of days ago to do some errands.  I looked down and still had them on.  Or it was because of another birthday!  "Bah!" said Scrooge, "Humbug!"

Was facetiming with the Mellema family.  Charlie said something and I said—I got it.  7-year old Rookie said—No, grandpa, you didn’t get it!  Sooo there you go folks! I have to admit some of the stuff our grandkids say I don’t get!  I have no idea what they are talking about! But then again, there is much that I talk about that they don’t get either.  Such is life.

Have a FUN day my friends unless you have other friends. (-:

erv

MyFriendJean said—The best remedy for a short temper is a long walk.

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