let's talk

Let’s talk it over! Sometimes when there is a difference of opinion, folks will say, Let’s talk it over (i.e. meaning let’s have a discussion about that). And a good question when talking it over is—Will you please tell me your opinion on that while we keep our mouth shut. Then when they get done, we ask them—Do I understand you correctly and then repeat what we heard. And then a good mature person would ask you what your opinion is and listen. ItchieBitchie says—I don’t think there are many mature people in this world!  hahaha

AverageJoe says--Some folks talk and talk but never get to the point (i.e. very wishy-washy)! SusieQ says—That’s because there is no point! They are just running off at the mouth!  Some say they have diarrhea of the mouth! They just love to hear themselves talk. SeattleJoe says—For sure some conversations are not as meaningful as others. BUT who is the judge of that? Of course, each one of us is the judge, we all have an opinion. A friend told me--Opinions are a dime a dozen!

Let’ have a meal and talk. Talking over a meal has been fun and great forever. There is something about eating together and talking; it is very pleasant it seems. Why is that anyway? My Mom, Anna, always invited folks into our home and always would give them something to eat. It was the culture’s practice on the farm a mile and a quarter south of Roseland, MN, I think. Even if it was just tea and a slice of Dutch rusk.   

ThePreacherMan told me this story--Have you ever had a conversation with someone that you both just cried? The Bible says that ‘David and his men wept aloud until they had no strength left to weep’. Before he was a famous king, David and his men returned to their camp one day and found that a band of raiders had taken everything they had, including their families. The story gets worse. David’s men blamed him for the loss of their wives and children. So at this point in his life, David has hit rock bottom. So what does David do? ‘David found strength in the LORD his God.’ He had a talk with God! At this point, we can see that a change took place. David leads a daring rescue and eventually overtakes the Amalekite raiders, and saves all of the kidnapped people. The story ends well. Ok, some of you might think that’s a bit of a stretch for my life to go that way!

Do we ever find ourselves in a position when it’s better just not to talk? Sara from South Sioux City says—I have never felt that way; of course, it’s quite obvious that I know more than most of my friends soooo that makes a difference. And they just don’t understand very well soooo I have to repeat things at least three times to them and I don’t think they still get it. I must be way more intelligent than they are. It’s a good thing I’m good at talking!!!

Hunk-y-dory  Let’s talk. Crazy as it seems, for me solitude and silence are very good for me. I think I learn more when I do those two things than by talking. Told you it was crazy! I really enjoy the early morning by myself (i.e. I know some of you do as well). For those of you who have never tried it, try it maybe. You might be surprised what can be learned! It’s quite amazing!

I’m a funny person! And I guess you might be toooo!  I’m funny in that I can talk big but act small. I can talk a good show but don’t perform. I just have to laugh at my self sometimes; that is all I can do, just laugh at myself, I’m just hilarious!  I’m really funny! An example of that is I say that I will never do what another person is doing or said and then I just turn around and do it! It’s like it sorta kinda comes back and haunts me! I’m a comedy act! I’m a big talker alright! I guess all I can do is have a little talk with God and ask Him for forgiveness of my shortcomings! I sound like Peter! Cock-a-doodle-do! Cock-a-doodle-do! Cock-a-doodle-do!

Words of Wisdom from Jim (i.e. anybody can be a Jim)—“When we hear somebody bragging about how smart they are, boasting about how much they know, it should always be a signal to take caution. In reality, they might be just talking to themselves trying to overcome their fear and insecurities about their own shortcomings.” An old saying is:  Ya don't know who is swimming naked until the tide goes out!

Joans says—"How wonderful it is to have strong and loving family relationships. They’re not a given—but when nurtured, they’re one of life’s greatest gifts. It’s good to just not play but also enjoy deep talks and long walks.” I think we should just not talk about frivolous stuff but talk about important stuff; that is what seems to build strong friendships. Let’s talk!

Ever conversation has to have an end. Sometimes it is hard to end a conversation for some folks. They don’t know how to end it (i.e. close their mouth). It’s time to move on. This conversation is over—done!

Once a gentleman told me he was praying for his friend to remain quiet. “Why?” I asked. He whispered, “In silence, he looks wise, but when his mouth opens, foolishness comes out.” I hope he wasn’t talking about me or you!!!!!!

Have a FUN day my friends unless you have other plans. (-:

erv

MyDeceasedFriendJean said--There is one thing you can give and still keep is our word.