January 17, 2015

watch your top knot

A friend from WY closed his Happy New Year greeting to me with -- Watch your top knot! I never heard of it before or I can't remember it.  Have you? It means--take care, be careful, wish you the best etc.  Knot refers to a bun in your hair, a pony tail or a knot, or a large head of hair.  Top of course means on top.  Soooo watch your top knot (i.e. your head of hair).  It was used in the American western frontier as a salutation or good-bye greeting.  Like don't get scalped.  Watch your top knot. I really like that.

When doing our night hike, I couldn't find the Big Dipper.  Even the Magi with me couldn't find it so I don't think it was to be seen.  They thought it was still below the horizon.  Could be!  Maybe it ran out of gas (i.e. died).  Probably not.  Did you know that if the North Star ran out of gas and stopped glowing, nobody would know--at least not for another 430 years.  The star would continue to shine, but it would be dead, shinning solely by the light of the past.  I hope I'm not a burned out star.  I wonder if some churches aren't burned out stars. You ever study the faces of people you meet every day. You ever steal a quick glance at your own face as you pass a mirror or reflective window. How stressed and grim do we look! Are we a burned out star? Have we lost our top knot but just are going through the motions? Oh ya, I told the group that we were going on a moonlight hike.  When we got to the trail head, Jan (i.e. anybody can be a Jan) said--The moon doesn't come up until 10:10.  I lost some of my validity!  It was my mea culpa! Such is life.

Lost his top knot maybe! I was watching the Phoenix Suns play the other night (i.e. I'm a fan of the Suns).  Maurice Morris thought he got a bad call, complained to the official, got a technical and then got in a rhubarb with his coach, Jeff Horeneck.  He seemed to loose it (i.e. showed his anger--a lot of roottin' and tootin'). He thought he lost his top knot! He was just mad and wanted to vindicate himself. Became a temporary knothead! Fact--You can't win after the fact.  You can holler, complain, stomp your feet but you can't win after the fact (i.e. probably makes it worse).  GeorgeTheCrook says--It's probably about the same in life.  I was around a guy recently who told us that he got real mad at a situation and at a person. It might have caused him to loose his top knot!  It probably did him no good--None! I think it just put a monkey on his back!  Ouchy ouchy! A friend told me recently that he was snorkeling in Hawaii and the current took him out and he didn't realize it.  He couldn't swim against the current soooo he went on an angle.  He kept telling him self, stay cool.  It probably saved his top knot!  

Just plain tough they are! There are some folks who seem to be just tougher than others (i.e. physically and/or emotionally).  Why is that?  Do they have a better internal motor fueled by some believe, desire or want? I read this while eating my oatmeal with half a banana on it--When Joe Louis fought Max Schmeling in 1938, in their second fight, Schmeling took a terrible beating. After the fight, reporters asked Louis what he would have done if that last haymaker hadn’t floored Schmeling. “I would have run around behind him,” said Louis, “to see what was holding him up.” There are people getting pounded with tribulation, one blow after another. Yet they’re still on their feet, still standing continuing to stand and fight. Sometimes you wonder what is holding them up. What do you think?  My opinion--Their juggernaut force is something special. I know what that special juggernaut force is for some.  

At our Alzheimer's caregiver support group, they gave me this poem.  The group really likes it and so do I.  I want to share it with you.  ACCEPT ME Do not ask me to remember. Don't try to make me understand. Let me rest, and know you're with me. Kiss my cheek and hold my hand. I'm confused beyond your concept. I am sad and sick and lost. All I know is that I need you to be with me at any cost. Do not lose your  patience with me. Do not scold or curse or cry. I can't help the way I'm acting, can't be different though I try. Just remember that I need you, That the best of me is gone. Please don't fail to stand beside me; Love me 'tell my life is done.


When in friendly competition, when does the mercy rule come into play? Winning is much more important for some folks than others.  Maybe they win but loose their top knot in doing so!  You think soooo? Some times I'm more excited about something than other times--sometimes I have more of a strong purpose than other times--some times my purpose is all different.  Some folks can turn it on and turn it off.  Others seem like they can't. I applaud the folks who have the wisdom to figure situations out.  LuckieEddie says--In pickleball doubles, if winning is very important to you and you want to win more, get a better partner or play lessor competition!  But remember, the King and the pawn all go back in the same box!  The fastest guy in the west wins until he doesn't win any more!  Ouchy ouchy.  Most of them end up the same--face down in the dirt!  CadillacJack says--Remember that maybe some of your success is more of a gift than an accomplishment.  Sooooo don't get tooooo puffed up! Also remember, your success will only last sooooo long!  LuckieEddie says--We should act the same when winning and when loosing (i.e. the good ones all do it). Such is life.

The folks who traveled and lived in the American frontier had to be tough (i.e. we still have toooooo).  If they did not have good senses, did not sleep with their ears open, did not sleep with an eye open, and did not have good instincts, they probably would die in a short time. They had to become street savvy quick to not loose their top knot (i.e. there was no government to take care of them). AverageJoe says--There were gamers and and there were dead folks. There were many natural enemies and many human enemies and self-imposed enemies. It's just like the desert, certain plants survive and certain plants cannot (i.e. adapt or loose your top knot). MountainManBlaine (i.e. anybody can be a Blaine) says--After you spend some time in the wilderness and mountains, you sorta kinda develop a 6th sense.  Ya better or you're dead!  You loose your top knot. As Father Time marches on, we generally learn some things--strong on the generally!  I do think though that all of us need to have a "mental health win" once in a while.  We all need some small accomplishment that drives us forward.  To encourage us.  I pray for some success but not tooooo much that it makes me arrogant and obnoxious.  There lies a fine line.  I have to have some success to "get me out of Dodge"!  I have to be seasoned with some success. ItchieBitche says--After a period of time without any success, I vomit or pee in my pants. That's not good ItchieBitchie!


Talk about Father Time marching on.  I got this email along with the the pic from our daughter.  They spent the week-end with friends in Breckenridge and stayed with friends in a house by Quandary Mt. (i.e. a CO 14ner)  "Not the best lighting but in real life, it is quite pretty. I told Erin you and mom hiked that mountain and she said well they are kinda old to do that, but whatever."  I was walking out of church Sunday with friends.  He was holding the arm of his wife.  He said--A while back I was doing the same.  When we got almost out, the lady turned to me and said--excuse me.  It wasn't his wife!

Hold the fort!  During America’s Civil War, the small Union garrison in Altoona, Georgia, was under siege by Confederate forces. Union General William Tecumseh Sherman came to the rescue. While still a long way off, the besieged garrison received a message: “Sherman is coming. Hold out.” Oh the power of hope!  The hope of the unseen. Some folks can just instill confidence in other (i.e. empower them).  Others can not!  Huh, interesting.  

6th sense!  Talk about the 6th sense. I think folks who can see things unseen have a huge massive advantage.  Some folks seem to have that sense and others don't.  They are unique and better for it. Some just see the future better than others.  Some folks seem to feel the unseen and it's a tremendous source of strength.  They might not be able to put it in words but they have it.  It gives them peace and security and a good feeling to go forward.  Have you ever been touched by that Force? Many times (i.e. my opinion) it helps folks save their top knot!  Jack (i.e. anybody can be a Jack) gave me the daily devotional, Jesus Calling by Sarah Young.  There has been 9 million copies sold in 26 languages (i.e. many others must like it).  Jack told me that it saved his life.  I think it's very good.  It's about believing in the unseen, the unbelievable, and the unexplainable.  It gives folks hope (i.e. there is no medicine like hope, no incentive soooo great, no tonic soooo powerful as the expectation of something better tomorrow).  It makes me "get on with the show".  I realize that some of you think that I'm just "simple".  Maybe I lost my top knot you think.  But, I'm very comfortable.  I have hope. I have confidence.  I feel empowered. 

Gottcha!  FrustratedEmma says--Cable companies, car sales folks, airlines, cell phone companies, telephone companies, gyms, weight loss gimmicks, better golf score gimmicks, etc might not lie but maybe just don't tell you all the truth.  Ya better watch your top knot when dealing with them.  They seem to take advantage of folks.  And then they make it sooooo frustrating to try to get anything straightened out.  They know what they are doing to make you disgusted and just give up.  They hire some of the smartest folks to manipulate us.  It's all about the money folks.  Don't kid yourself.  They have "tricks and treats" all planned out.  A snowbird at a meeting I was at told this story--His dentist here in the Valley told him that he needed work done on this caps.  It would cost $10,000.  He said--no way.  Went back to ND and had it done for $189.  Ouchy ouchy!  I hear of contractors here in the Valley giving bids on repair work and their will be more than 50% difference.  Ouchy oucy!  Watch your top knot folks! There are gougers and they have "tricks and treats" folks. GeorgeTheCrook says--We have seen this movie tooooo many times! 

Tricks and treats in advertising have been used for ever (e.g. using enticing sexy/seductive gals).  How dumb do they think us guys are--they know folks.  Oh ya!  They know how to get our top knot.  I read this in the paper sooooo it must be right--Clever ads were used years ago on Route 66 (i.e.in the 40s).  The ads really didn't advertise anything and that's precisely why those ads worked.  For the travelers puttering down Route 66, it was the unknown that snagged them.  A bold yellow signs with the silhouette of a jackrabbit, and curvy-cowgirl cutout with the words "For Men" emblazoned on it.  Those curious or suggestive messages, captured the attention of Arizona's tourist, prompting many of them to stop.  The Jack Rabbit Trading Post is still open for business in Joseph City, AZ.  Huh, interesting.

Have a FUN day my friends unless you have other plans. (-:

erv

MyFriendJean says--When life gets hectic and it is hard to cope, repeat these words, Love and Hope

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