February 23, 2019

incredulous

How are you doing on your hamster wheel?  Are you going at a good pace? But are you really accomplishing anything?  Will what you are doing make any difference 5 years from now?  Maybe we need to go faster and longer; that might help us!  ha ha  Hey, you want some crackers with your whine? Suck it up cupcake and let’s get going! Saturday question--Are we on a bigger mission than our hamster wheel? I am reminded what I told one of our office support staff maybe 25 years ago.  She was kidding me (i.e. and maybe she wasn’t) that she had soooo much work to do; she did and she could do it—she was good and still is I bet.  I kiddingly told her to just work faster!!!!!!  She has never forgotten that.

When Arlene had her bad cold and cough, I bought a humidifier sooo when she slept, maybe her breathing would be easier.  The fan has multiple speeds (i.e. most equipment of life do).  Sooooo I asked myself, what speed am I operating on?  Well, I think that depends on what I’m doing and the day (i.e. I’m retired ha ha). Actually, I have been working on slowing down (i.e. I have a tendency to do everything fast—not always good).  BUT, is my desire to improve (i.e. or save) the world or is my desire to enjoy (i.e. or savor) the world? CadillacJack says--Now that is a rather philosophical question, erv!  Now that is incredulous!  I would like to think I have the mentality of both but I don’t’ know; I wonder about myself sometimes! ha ha  Sometimes I think I just “glug glug glug” filing myself up with stuff that doesn’t make any sense (i.e. a waste of my time and effort).  I read this while eating my oatmeal with half a banana on it--Paul suggested this to mediate on and act on--Things that are true, noble, just, pure, lovely, of good report, virtuous, and worthy of praise (Philippians 4:8-9). I’m going to try to turn the speed up a notch on those?

Some of you folks will find this incredulous! Yes you will!  I ran into a friend at Kwik Star the other morning. He was getting a snack for his trip to Minneapolis to catch a flight to Honduras to do a mission trip.  It is his ninth year; this year he is staying, I think, 20+ days; they build rafters and put tin roofs on the buildings for the poorest of the poor; he just leaves his tools down there. I asked them if the people are thankful—they seem to be—are they content—they seem to be.  I told him he was a good person with a good heart. He just shrugged his shoulders. I could put your name in this story as many of you are just this type of folks; and yes, some of you aren’t!  Like I said, this is just incredulous to some of you.  Such is life.                                                                                                                                                                                
Have you ever had something happen to you what was breathtakingly positive? Like it was incredulous? You just can’t explain it?  An extreme example of this would be-- Tests showed that the tumor is gone. What?  Some doctors are mystified (i.e. they call it "spontaneous regression." It can make folks dumbfounded, utterly incredulous. Sometimes we just don’t know what to think about it.  It is soooo amazing that we don’t even tell others because others might think we are crazy.  Maybe we feel that this can’t be; is this real!  Folks I would like to hear your incredulous story.  Here is an opportunity to share it with someone; I will not tell anyone. 

Ya have to have a real good friend who you can trust completely to tell them about just good stuff that is incredulous. Actually, many folks don’t have such a good friend. WorldClassLarry says—Success isn’t much fun if you can’t share it with someone!  The reason why we always don’t share successes is that most think we are bragging.  Oh ya, it’s easy to tell folks about bad stuff in our life; everybody does that but to tell someone something that is incredulous good about yourself, well, that is another story. A great friend is happy for you and will celebrate with you, not be jealous or envious but extremely happy for you.  My mentor would say to me facetiously—erv, half the people are glad something bad happens to you and the other half don’t care.  Well, maybe that mentality can apply to folks’ reactions when something good happens to you, maybe. 

Most folks seem to like to settle in and stay put (i.e. now that is very comfortable). ItchieBitchie says--For gosh sakes, don’t let something happen (i.e. that is incredulous) that will shake up my life.  JoeBlow says—I don’t want anything (i.e. like an opportunity) that will take me out of my comfort zone for gosh sakes!  I like safety first!

Maybe we all need more grit! Chickens need grit (e.g. small stones etc.) in order to digest food in their gizzard (i.e. can’t live without it). When I was a kid, we feed our chickens oystershells which was needed for calcium soooo the egg shells were strong.  Grit and oystershells have two different purposes.  Well folks, how much grid do you have? Some have more than others.  Yes they do.  My Mom, Anna, was sweet, kind, hardworking and had a lot of grit; she was a good one; she died toooo young (i.e. 56). Here is a paragraph from Huck Finn that I really like (i.e. there are soooo many good ones).  Huck said this about Miss Mary Jane:

On Valentine day, Arlene started crying and trying to say again that she wanted to die and go home (i.e. heaven).  That is soooo hard for me to see but I understand.  I told her—Hey, I gave you chocolate today—did you like it—GOOD!  I told her that she’s my girl. She smiled!  Then I lectured her that we have to be tough; it is not easy. Are you tough? And she said-NO!  I laughed at her and said—well, I’m not either.  Arlene was never a snacker and not a big chocolate eater when she didn’t have Alzheimer’s (i.e. many who have the disease take a big liking to sweets; I have no idea why). ANYWAY, she doesn’t walk very well anymore (i.e. a struggles) but I caught her at the counter in the chocolates eating her heart out.  I just had to laugh.

Saturday question--Have you ever had something incredulously bad happen to you?  I mean like getting stung, beat up or taken advantage of?  I have; no question.  I’m a pretty trust worthy person and maybe that makes me even more vulnerable, maybe!  ANYWAY, I have tooooo be careful that I don’t become gun shy!  Have you ever been or are gun shy (e.g. like not wanting to get married again, trust a financial advisor, trust a medical person, trust a boss or co-worker, trust a friend—you get it). When we become gun shy, we are a way different person (i.e. that is for sure—no question).  The church we attend, is in a transition of being between pastors.  I am gun shy a little as for the last 10 years we have had a bad experience (i.e. my opinion).  I’m not being diabolical, but some might think I am! Yes, that makes me a little gun shy of the process and the future.  I think many others feel this way as well.  And maybe we should.  If we have been burnt, it can get into a person’s head; at least mine.  Such is life.

I think those miniature horses are cute and crazy and amazing. They sorta kinda make me laugh.  Some of you are maybe incredulous about God, could be, maybe. LouLouLou says--Even in this era of biblical illiteracy, when almost half of those responding to a recent survey identified the ark of the covenant as a big boat constructed by Noah, I think we can be reasonably sure that the great majority of people are familiar with John 3:16, especially in the language of the King James Version: “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” Luther called it “the gospel in miniature.” Now this Luther is a different Luther than my cousin Luther who lives on Eagle Lake but grew up in Roseland, MN; I want to be clear on that! I have no idea which Luther is the smarter!

Have a FUN day my friends unless you have other plans.

erv

MyFriendJean says—The best sermon is a good example.

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