May 14, 2022

I don't get it but yet I do

Bobby Thomson’s famous home run—“the shot heard ‘round the world”—lifted the New York Giants over the Brooklyn Dodgers in 1951 and has  become one of the most dramatic moments in sports history.  Legend has it that the guy who threw the pitch, Ralph Branca, had just been told by a teammate, “Whatever you do, don’t throw it up and it.” So where did Branca throw it? Up and in. That happens often. Tony Dungy says--Whatever we focus on, whether it’s positive or negative, tends to come true for us. I don’t get it but yet I do.

Sooooo I was coming back from AZ going down I-25 just south of Denver at 75 mph in a middle lane of very busy four lanes when all of a sudden, a white pickup come up from my left and side swipes me.  We pull over and call the CO Highway Patrol.  The officer did his report and asked me what happened, I told him and he said the other person will say it was your fault, it is very typical, the insurance companies tell their insureds not admit fault. That is exactly what happened.  Soooo it looks like we will each pay our damage.  Mine is about $4,000 with a $1,000 deductible.  I told a friend about this, and he said—If I was at fault, I would admit it.  Saturday question—Would you admit fault if you were at fault?  I get it but yet I don’t.  The other person and I both felt that we were very fortunate as it could have been a huge massive accident and we could have been seriously hurt, and hurt others as well.  ANYWAY, I have been told that ATVs, UTVs, and side x sides are really hard to get.  Like maybe a 6 month wait on an order but if you pay $1,000 more you can get them quicker.  It’s only another $1,000.  Folks are willing to pay it I have been told.  Folks want them and want them now.  Sooooo there you go! I don't get it but yet I do!

The old saying is—The difference between a businessman and a crook is the type of attorney they can afford. LuckieEddie says—Sooooo if that statement is correct, then the difference is then in our heart. I get it but yet I don’t. It seeeems sooooo many times, it’s all about the money.

CoachB says—"Expect good things! What happens when you are minding your own business and bad things happen to you. In life stuff just happens. Life is not about what happens to you but how you react to it. Good things happen to folks who expect good things to happen. Even when they always don’t seem soooo good.  It’s a matter of attitude.” You believe that? I read this while eating my oatmeal with half a banana on it.  God chooses things the world considers foolish in order to shame those who think they are wise.  And he chooses folks that are powerless to shame those who are powerful.  Ain’t that something to think about.  I pray more for wisdom as God said he would give me that if I only ask.  The reason why I pray for that is that I’m not smart enough to figure things out.  I’m just a little ol’ farm boy from a mile and quarter south of Roseland, MN. I read recently this—When a person makes alliance with the Almighty, giants look like grasshoppers.

I don’t get it but yet I do! This last winter I had a situation that I tried to force something as I thought maybe I wanted it to happen (i.e. I maybe thought it was a good idea).  You ever do that.  I analyzed it many times but the numbers never really added up soooo I sorta kinda knew it was not what should happen.  I wasn’t disappointed as there surely would be another opportunity and maybe even better (i.e. and actually it did happen—it became very clear I think).  I was using my human emotions trying to make it work (i.e. probably trying to force a round peg in a square hole).  You ever do that? Really the result of it not working out wasn’t a surprise. I had thought through it and already made the decision in my mind.  Then an event forced the decision for me.  I believe it was a good deal. I bet most of you think this was a money-making deal, right.  It wasn’t.  Fooled you didn’t I! Now what do you think it was? You can put your own personal experience in it and make it very personal to you. Such is life.

I don’t get it but yet I do!  An acquaintance died and I’m sure the pastor said nice stuff at the funeral.  Why not, probably a big giver to the church.  I have this nasty taste in my mouth of them. They told me years ago that they changed churches to go to this church because they needed to be around high-income folks to make more money.  I’m not making this up, oh no, they told me this direct. Tony Dungy says—“When I was coach of the Indianapolis Colts, we evaluated a lot of draft prospects coming out of college. Sometimes a player would have plenty of experience, talent, and skills and would perfectly fit a need on our team. But in spite of all these qualifications, we still wouldn’t draft him if we had written DNDC next to his name (i.e. Do Not Draft [because of] Character). You will never lose by emphasizing character over results in the long run.” WorldClassLarry, who is more of a chooser than an accuser or an excuser, says—A few bad characters can surely mess up the image of a company or a church or a family; actually, more than the image, the chemistry as well.  It’s all about the money folks. I learned in the sermon last Sunday that they threw Jonah overboard!!!!!

A friend was telling me recently about a job he had some 20+ years ago while in college (i.e. he had a connection).  He worked for a high-end country club.  He would help set up banquets, weddings, meetings etc. They did it all from setting up tables, setting the place setting, folding the napkins and complete arrangement to serving the meal and then taking it all down afterwards (i.e. sometimes doing two in one day).  He would many times work from 6 a.m. to maybe 1 a.m. the next day he said.  It was very hard work, but he made a ton of money.  These workers got a fixed gratuity of 20% of the total cost plus also cash tips from the guests.  Now these were high-end folks and he said that the little old ladies were very generous.  He had to do two things—Work hard and be nice and polite a.k.a. character.  

I get it but I don't!  A friend down the street told me that she tells her adult kids actually what she thinks even if they don’t like it.  “They need to know how I think.  It’s okay.  We get along fine by me doing that even if we don’t agree.  I don’t do this to my friends or my grandkids or my son’s wives, but I do it to my boys. They know exactly how I think and feel.” I have another friend who told me recently that she gets disappointed in that most of their adult children as they don’t seem to care much about them.  They hardly ever ask questions about their lives.  They act like we just aren’t around.  Soooo do you think she should tell her adult kids how she feels? I had a grandmother tell me that some of their adult children and grandchildren don’t seem to be very appreciative at all to a point she wonders if she will give them anymore gifts.  She feels like she has had enough.  Should she tell her family how she feels? Flip the pancake.  I would guess there are children and grandchildren who feel this as well about their parents and grandparents.  There are some of you who solve the problem by just not caring about each other—done! Or some who don’t even know who their parents, grandparents, children and grandchildren are. Or some of you who have experienced death in your families and no longer have them around and wish you did. Also, there are maybe some of you that have almost near perfect relationships.  Sooooo there you go.

How would you describe Billy Graham?  Pretty much all of us have some knowledge of Billy Graham I would guess.  ANYWAY, a friend gave me the book Saturdays with Billy (i.e. thanksamillion again my friend).  Here is one of Billy’s statements—“Yes, it has been a privilege to know some of the great men and women of the latter part of the century…Let me stress again, however, that most of my time was spend with people who will never be in the public eye and yet who are just as important to God (and to us) as a queen or president.” He considered himself just a CommonJoe like JoeThePlumber, just like you and I. I understand that but yet I don’t.  In his statement, he was talking about you guys.  Yes he was.  You are great.  Yes you are.  Never never forget that folks. NEVER! Even though I don’t feel very great at times!  Sometimes I feel like a little ol’ farm boy from a mile and fourth south of Roseland, MN. Most of the time I feel pretty much like one of those ants in the ant hill in my front yard. I’m not saying that in a bad way folks, oh no. And that is okay. I’m good! Very good! I’m very comfortable being vanilla a.k.a. one of the boys.  Very much soooo. We all have our platform. I sure enjoy your friendship. You are great and special to me. Oh ya! CadillacJack says—There might be some folks who think of themselves as better than others and are proud of it. Is that called self-righteous? Whaaat in tarnation . . . ?! JoeFeelSmall, who is related to Rich Strike, says—I sorta kinda fell like Brock Purdy who was the last football player selected in the 2022 draft.  The last person drafted is nicknamed Mr. Irrelevant. Purdy sure wasn't an irrelevant when playing for IA State as he was a record sitting quarterback for the Cyclones,  A great one for sure!

I don't get it but yet I do.  It said in the paper sooooo it must be right.  It's a horse race! How did Rich Strike (i.e. 80 to 1 odds) pass soooo many horses to win the Derby?  Two answers: He ran by some, and some, as they say in racing, stopped running. That sounds sooooo much like life. It's a horse race! Soooo put your blinders on and run your race folks. Don't watch and listen to others who are negative and depressing (i.e. not my kind of folks).

Have a FUN day my friends unless you have other plans. (-:

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MyFriendJean said—Life is like playing a violin solo in public and learning the instrument as you go along.

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