June 20, 2020

sick of it

The dying words of Crowfoot, a leader of the Siksika First Nation, were, “What is life?  It is a flash of a firefly in the night.  It is the breath of a buffalo in the wintertime. It is the shadow that runs across the grass and loses itself in the sunset.”  I think that is soooo true, soooo true.  ANYWAY, the Woodworth family kept me really hopping in CO.  We didn’t waste any day light.  It’s tooooo valuable, for sure.  Early one week-end morning we all went paddle boarding (i.e. saw a lot of beach bodies)—I had a fun experience, then they made brunch, then we all rode a 10+ mile bike ride along the Cherry Creek.  I had soooo much fun and the grandkids were soooo tough and fun.  Then they grilled steaks.  LittleJimmer took a big piece of steak on his fork and was eating off it.  His parents got on him and his sister said to him—Jimmer, you can’t eat like a savage!  He said—We are all savages ‘cause we eat meat! Sooooo I wonder, do those folks have beach bodies ‘cause they paddle board or they paddle board ‘cause they have beach bodies?

CadillacJack says—The signs of ageing are different than the sings of maturing; they are not the same.  Somethings look soooo easy to an experienced eye but to an inexperience person, somethings are very haphazard no matter how old they are or how good they think they are.  What is soooo unique is that it is easy for one is not easy for another no matter what age they are and how good they think they are.  BobbySmart says—It was amazing how smart my parents became once I got older.  But some kids, it appears, never grow up in maturity, only in age.  OneSmartPerson says—That is something that I just don’t understand no matter how old I get!  Why don’t they? Thepersonnorthoftown says—I quit trying to teach one of our kids but the other one seems to get it.  The one is hopeless I think!  She is 56; time is running out! I am sick of it!

BUT I suggest we become careful that we don’t get the rockin’chair mentality when we get older and develop the sumo wrestler body physique.  I think it’s very important to keep some of the youthful excitement and adventure (i.e. my opinion).  I got up early one morning and went for a hike on my favorite trail on Mount Falcon.  It was a beautiful morning and as I was doing my accent when I heard some heavy breathing behind me.  It was an old lady, about my age, and she went around me like I was standing still.  I just laughed. She didn’t have a sumo body or a rockin’chair mentality!  haha

It appears that Microsoft continues to change things.  Maybe they do that to make things better or maybe they do that because folks get bored and lose their attention.  I think both.  We get bored and change gets our attention and refocuses us (i.e. many folks get sick of it the same all the time).  Maybe.  Same Old Same Old is just that.  But change takes a lot of effort and time (i.e. it’s a lot easier to just stay the same).  Of course I say that with tongue in cheek as I get bored quite easily.  And many folks don’t like change at all. 

Some things will change and somethings don’t seem to change.  Heather is a very active gal and seems to be a good manager of her time.  She has been a friend with another nurse for maybe 18 years.  They run together usually three times a week at 5:30 a.m.  Last Saturday I was on the patio reading the Denver Post when she got home and she said that they ran 8by8—8 miles by 8 o’clock.  They both work, have children, married, and just are very busy gals.  There is a difference what folks do with their lives now isn’t there.  WorldClassLarry says—Some folks get sick of their old life and change to a new life.  They just have had enough of something they don’t like; exercise seems to change a person’s attitude and a change in attitude usually makes a person much happier (i.e. change what feeds our souls).  Soooo throw those chips away, get your butts off the couch and become a new person. Maybe, just maybe, we need to try to do something more than just enough to get by!

RickyRick says--Since decisions matter so much, we must be wise in how we make them. The book of Proverbs says: “If you want better insight and discernment . . . learn the importance of reverence for the Lord and of trusting him . . . He shows how to distinguish right from wrong, how to find the right decision every time” (Proverbs 2:3-5, 9 TLB). AverageJoe says—I know more than God sooooo I don’t need to heed that advice.  Soooo you think AverageJoe, sooooo you think! You think you are very important and know almost everything. AverageJoe but maybe you are not and don’t know everything. AverageJoe says--Is this all there is to it?  I accomplished it and got 15 seconds of Ethiopia and it’s done  (i.e. over).  I wonder if I’m focusing on the wrong things. 

I read in the Denver Post the other morning sooooo it must be right —If you are sick of something, spend more time in gaining knowledge and less time in being entertained.  Saturday question—What have you learned lately that is just soooo exciting?  I have observed Erin and Jimmer for about a week and boy have I learned a lot.  Such fun.  A great education.  It’s amazing what ice cream can reveal! CoachB says—True learning doesn’t happen until something changes.  LittleJimmer is doing a learning series on his iPad and this was his learning station for part of his session.  I just had to laugh.  BUT, I did learn something; I learned that kids are really innovative and creative and seem to adapt to change in a fun way.  Sooooo when he was in another session, he fell asleep.  I asked him why he did that?  He said—I don’t know, I was reading and the next thing I knew, I was asleep. I didn’t plan it!

So this situation isn't as simple as it might seem on the surface obviously.  I was telling Erin and Jimmer that they are very nice.  You impress me how polite you are to others and treat each other soooo nice.  Erin said—Grandpa, we aren’t really that nice to each other as sometimes we get sick of each other.  Jimmer piped up and said—Now that is true.

This update also contains bug fixes and improvements. MissPerfect, who one day is unknown and the next is world known, says—Don’t believe everything you read in this Saturday.  I don’t and I’m much better off, believe me.  Sooooo I was sitting on the patio watching the grandkids playing in their inflatable swimming pool about 30 feet away.  Jimmer said to me—Grandpa you were napping—no I wasn’t; I just had my eyes closed but saw everything you were doing and heard everything as well—no you didn’t; I hollered loud at you two times and you didn’t move; you were napping—no, I was just fooling you—no grandpa, you were napping! 

A friend who he and I go a long way back, I mean a long way back.  He’s retired but told me this story that I don’t remember as we were having lunch after an old goats' golf outing—I was teaching (i.e. many many years ago, when he got kicked out of a high school class for his conduct and was in a study hall I was monitoring.  I told him if he wanted toooooo he could come and take a class I was teaching instead of having two study halls in a row.  He did.  In fact, he told me that this class helped him in his occupation later in life.  ANYWAY he told me that he and his wife each Sunday watch the church they attend on line and then go to a different state park.  They have really enjoyed themselves and really enjoyed the peace and being together.  It appeared that they liked the change, maybe they were sick of the old way! 

I have a friend who I have know since he was maybe 12 or soooo and is now maybe 23. We played golf together and got to know each other.  He had a bad attitude in thinking his luck was always bad.  He would say—My Luck!  Meaning that in a negative way.  Soooo my friend read this. 

A long time friend who I first met when I was coaching high school basketball.  The Dike Bobcats, the team he played on, beat our team in 5 overtimes.  He was the star.  We just couldn’t stop him.  What a game.  Then their daughter and our son was in the same class and we worked together on the prom and we became friends.  ANYWAY, he sent me this story--  You’ve probably read the story but this comes from a market letter I get. -- A Losing "Coin Toss" Proves to be a Big Winner! It was on this day back in 1973 that a chestnut colt named "Secretariat" and nicknamed "Big Red" won the hearts of Americans by becoming one of the greatest horses in racing history winning the "Triple Crown" and breaking the record for the fastest time ever at Belmont. Interestingly, Secretariat was won in a coin toss between Ogden Phipps and Penny Chenery, who had taken over the running of the family stable when her father became ill back in 1968... Below is the story of the "coin toss". I always find it interesting how the choice was reasoned out and what ultimately happened. (Source: Wiki)----Bold Ruler was the leading sire in North America from 1963 to 1969 and again in 1973. Owned by the Phipps family, Bold Ruler possessed both speed and stamina, having won the Preakness Stakes and Horse of the Year honors in 1957, and American Champion Sprint Horse honors in 1958. Bold Ruler was retired to stud at Claiborne Farm, but the Phipps owned most of the mares to which Bold Ruler was bred, and few of his offspring were sold at public auction.----To bring new blood into their breeding program, the Phipps sometimes negotiated a foal-sharing agreement with other mare owners: Instead of charging a stud fee for Bold Ruler, they would arrange for multiple matings with Bold Ruler, either with two mares in one year or one mare over a two-year period. Assuming two foals were produced, the Phipps family would keep one and the mare's owner would keep the other, with a coin toss determining who received first pick.----Under such an arrangement, Chenery sent two mares to be bred to Bold Ruler in 1968, Hasty Matelda and Somethingroyal. Penny Chenery, who then took over for her ill father, sent Cicada and Somethingroyal in 1969. The foal-sharing agreement stated that the winner of the coin toss would get first foal pick of the foals produced in 1969, while the loser of the toss would get first pick of the foals due in 1970.----In the spring of 1969, a colt and filly were produced. In the 1969 breeding season, Cicada did not conceive, leaving only one foal due in the spring of 1970. Thus, the winner of the coin toss would get only one foal (the first pick from 1969), and the loser would get two (the second pick from 1969 and the only foal from 1970).----It so happened that Ogden Phipps won the toss and took the 1969 weanling filly out of Somethingroyal. Chenery received the Hasty Matelda colt in 1969 and the as-yet-unborn 1970 foal of Somethingroyal, which turned out to be Secretariat.----The filly was named The Bride and never won a race, though she did later become a stakes producer.----After winning the "Triple Crown" and siring hundreds of winners, at the age of 19, Secretariat was buried at Claiborne Farm, under a tree in a pasture he loved to roam.----At the time of Secretariat's death, the veterinarian who performed the necropsy, Dr. Thomas Swerczek, head pathologist at the University of Kentucky, stated, "We just stood there in stunned silence. We couldn't believe it. The heart was perfect. There were no problems with it all. It was just this huge massive engine."

Suggestion.  If you are in the Denver area and want a fun half day excursion, I suggest you think about going to see St. Mary’s Glacier.  It far exceeded my expectation.  It’s about 1.5 mile round trip hike to the glacier and lake.  8-old Jimmer and 74-year old erv did it (i.e. very family friendly).  $5 parking and no other cost.  We took our lunch along. It was a very fun experience.  Some Denver University graduates carried their skis to the top of the glacier and skied down in their caps and gown.  Neat! The clock is ticking folks; the snow continues to melt!

This trip to CO was way different without thinking about Arlene’s Alzheimer’s disease.  No question.  It felt like I had freedom of that terrible disease (i.e. like a weight off my shoulders—like a new life).  Yes, I thought some about Arlene but all in a positive way.  C.S. Lewis said—All human relationships end in loss. I try to find something all the time to make me smile (i.e. something positive).  We had a very good life together).  BUT now I need to go forward.  I am excited about that as well.  I expect something really good to happen to me. I just have no idea what that is going to be or when.  I will try to be patient and also pray that I see clearly.  BUT there are lot of factors—known knowns, known unknowns, and unknown unknowns!

Have a FUN day my friends unless you have other plans. (-:

erv

MyFriendJean says--Habit is like a soft bed--easy to get in but hard to get out. 

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